Rum Tum Tugger wrote:My Best Friend has been ignoring me.... He texts me to apologize but he doesn't really mean it. He says he's busy and can't call me but I think he is just using these excuses to spend more time with his girlfriend. And tbh it hurts to think that. I want him to be happy but I don't also want to be forgotten completely. He has issues with rejection and I think he doesn't get girlfriends very often but it just sucks when he ignores me and cancels his plans with me to go hang out with her. The worst part is? His girlfriend's personality is EXACTLY like mine. (Soprano in choir, Trumpet player, Musical Theatre lover, Show Choir lover and Dancer) He started dating her after he said he didn't want to date me because I'm and I quote "Too Much Like A Sister To Him". But he goes and dates another girl with the same personality and interests as me?? I need some advice on what to do...
I understand how you feel however despite that fact that it might hurt you to let him have some time with her it might hurt you even more to try and get him away from her as after all this can cause arguments and despite the fact it's hurting you he's happy and if he really is a truly good friend to you then that's what should matter most I know its difficult however try to talk to him a little and just tell him you miss him I'm sure he will understand and will still value you as a great friend as you will still be cared for by him even if it might not seem like it as all of those wonderful memories together wont be forgotten and I'm sure he doesn't want you to feel this way just because of him so instead of hurting try to feel happy for him as I'm sure he wouldn't want to try and pick sides or make you feel upset instead he'd want both sides to feel happy however if you think it's getting too much for you maybe try to organise more events together such as laser tag for example as its something that I'm sure he wouldn't pass on and perhaps you can develop your friend ship again also to take your mind off him maybe try to meet new people as despite how lovely he might be believe me there will be so many more people put there who are perhaps even better and will help you forget all of this pain your going through and no matter what happens try to remember that you don't have to go through this alone and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little I hope this helps and i wish you a very merry Christmas c:
The Shiny Mew wrote:I hate when my mom can't sleep
Ah I'm sorry that she's going through this however try not to feel bad for her because she can't sleep as I'm sure she wouldn't want you feeling upset just because of her and she would want you to carry on being that lovely daughter that you always have been also of you feel like its getting too much for her and it happens frequently perhaps it might be worth going to the doctors if you haven't already as they might be able to prescribe medicine to help her sleep or if you might not want to do this and want to go for a milder approach perhaps it might be worth trying sleeping teas as there is so many teas out there designed to help people sleep easier or relax such as camomile tea I hope this helps a little and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little and I wish you a very merry Christmas c:
Broken Blue wrote:I just got my braces and I'm regretting it
its stupid but
I have anxiety about brushing my teeth at school
and i cant bite all the way down and its really unsatisfying not being able to chew
also i just look weird now
I understand that times might be difficult right now because of the braces however try to remember that it's always worth it in the end as you will have wonderful teeth at the end off it all and all of the worry your going through will be replaced with perfect smiles that you won't regret believe me it's worth it also try to remember that you won't be the only one in school who will have to get braces so chances are there will be others who will have to brush their teeth in school and will understand how you feel also as for looking weird I really wouldn't worry about it you probably look fine and might be worrying about it too much as their will be others there who have to get braces later on and you'll find this becomes a common thing in school that people just gradually accept I hope this helps a little and if you might like you could always pm kenif you might want to talk about it however I wish you a very merry Christmas and I promise those braces will be worth it c:
~Twilight_Angel~ wrote:~Twilight_Angel~ wrote:No, dad. I am not disrespectful
Stop calling me a brat
Stop yelling at me
Stop making me want to crumble up and
Die
Stop making to feel as if the
Home is a prison camp
Stop making me feel like I'm horrible
Stop judging my poor mother
YOU did it
You made my life this way
Not him, not him
Stop buying love
It doesn't work
Stop acting like
My step sister is better
YOU made me this way
I'm sorry that your dad is treating you this way as you deserve far better respect and always have however try not to let him get to you as your far better than that and you have to keep showing that to him and showing that you are far better than he thinks because quite frankly you are in every way and he should be proud to have you in his life however if he doesn't appreciate you then really that's his loss not yours because he lost the chance to bond with a truly lovely individual and nothing can ever replace that not even your step sister as we are all unique and all have qualities that others don't however you have to try and embrace these qualities and show him that your proud of being who you are and how you are as quite frankly im sure that your a wonderful person who really does desevee far more respect than your given however don't let him convince you to hide away who you truly are as you deserve a chance to shine just like anyone else for just being yourself and nothing can ever change that fact not even him and I know it might be difficult but don't let him walk all over you and tell him how you feel as you really do deserve far better than this and no matter what happens try to remember you don't have e to go through this alone and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little however don't give up as difficult times won't last forever and all this pain will always be worth it in the end I hope this helps and I wish you the very best merry Christmas
little.lilly.elf wrote:Christmas. The time of the year where you're reminded that you're in a broken family, where you feel guilty because you can't buy people presents but they give you gifts, where you get every life choice questioned by extended family, where your own religious beliefs come under fire by your Christian family, where you just don't have the Christmas spirit.
On top of that I can't see my psychologist until January. I still don't all together feel like I deserve her sessions but I've become stupidly attached.
I got a really bad OP so I probably won't be going to the university I want. Basically my life plans crumbled before my eyes.
And as the icing on the cake, someone really tore apart my writing in the least tactful way. Writing was like the LAST thing I thought I would suck at but noppppeee, add it to the list of my failures, hooray!
Ignore this. Help people with actual problems.
I understand how you feel however I'm sorry about the situation with your family right now as I know it can be difficult to keep your spirits raised when your in that kind of environment however try not to let them make you give up as your far stronger than that and always have been and even though the time might be tough right now believe me it won't be like this forever as good things come to those who wait and you will be able to get that Christmas that you've wanted in the end however only if you keep trying and keep going as the only way it won't ever happen is if you give up as for the presents I know what it's like to be in that position believe me however try to remember that those people didn't buy you presents int he expectation to get one back they bought it you because they love and appreciate you for who you are and they want to show it in the form of a gift however its not because they want something back they would just want your happiness back and they would never want you to feel bad just because of them so try to stay strong for their sake as they do care about you and nothing will ever change that fact as for the religious beliefs don't listen to the rest of your family as you have the right to believe in whatever you want just as much as they do so don't let them walk all over you and show them that your so much stronger and better than they think because you really are and always have been as for the psychologist its okay to become attached as if they have helping you its only natural to want to see them more as it helps you feel better however the wait will be worth it in the end and you more than deserve the sessions especially with all of the struggles you have been going though so try not to doubt yourself as for your future its not ended at all as there will always be further education systems that will want to accept you no matter what results you get so try not to give up I hope this helps a little and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little however I really do wisb your Christmas improves e as you more than deserve it
