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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby knifekind » Tue Dec 22, 2015 12:48 am

      i need a pm rly badly its just
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      i cant do this!!! i cant do this!! i!! cannot!!!
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Tue Dec 22, 2015 1:07 am

hyakutake wrote:
everyones just ignoring me.
I wish someone would talk to me on CS but ohhhh nooo :<

Firstly I'm sorry people are ignoring you as you deserve far better respect and appreciation than that and you always have deserved it however try not to let them get you down as your so much better than that in every way I know it can be disheartening when things like this happen but try to remember it won't always be like his and you will be able to find friends who treat you in every rightful way you deserve and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little however I hope things get better and I wish you a very merry Christmas c:

Realynnie wrote:gotta love when people make you feel uncomfortable :^))))))
I'm skrry people are making you feel this way however try not to let them walk over you and tell them how you really feel as after all you have every right to feel as comfortable as you want and they can't take that away from you it might be worth talking to them or perhaps try to divert the conversation to a much more mild one I'm sure they don't mean to make you feel like this however I hope that things improve for you soon and if you might like you could always pm.me if you might like to talk about it a little and I wish you a very merry Christmas c:
zimperfect. wrote:
        Deleated :}

I'm really sorry that your family is treating you this way as you really deserve far better respect and appreciation however don't break down just because of them as your so much stronger than that and always have been. I know its difficult when arguments start up however if you feel like its getting too much perhaps try and go for a walk to help you calm down or maybe have a little but of time alone and when your ready maybe try talking to your family about how you feel however in a more calm manner I know it can seem daunting to do this however I'm sure they don't mean to make you feel this way and that they will understand the errors of their ways however don't get yourself down as even though times might be difficult it will get better eventually as good things come to those who wait your a wonderful person and I hope this helps a little and I hope that your Christmas gets better as it really is the least you deserve also if you feel the need to talk to someone feel free to pm me as their will always be someone who cares about you c:

APH Finland wrote:I feel terrible

I'm sorry that your feeling this way however I hope that things get better for you soon perhaps it might be worth having some time to relax or perhaps even read a book or watch a film that might help take your mind off how you feel however no matter what happens try to remember that you don't have to go through this alone and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little however I hope things get better soon and I wish you a merry Christmas c:

snowflake queen. wrote:
      it's alright,,,,, don't worry about me (:
      i'll be fine!!! really! don't worry!! ((((:
      please help me

No matter what happens try not to hide away what you really feel from others I know if can be difficult times right now however try jot to give up as tour so much better than that and always have been and no matter what happens try to remember you don't have to go through this alone and that their will always be someone out there who cares about you unconditionally and if you think it might help you can always pm me if you might like to talk about it a little however try to keep going as your a wonderful person and despite how things might be right now bad times never last forever and I wish you a merry Christmas and I hope this helps c:

Zashic wrote:Honestly you don't have to read this but anyone who is here to comfort is welcome too. I'm truthfully sorry this is so long but I should really get to bed or at least lay in bed anyway let me just quickly put a joke here that will hopefully cheer one person up. Why did a Adele cross the road? To say "Hello from the other siddddddiiide" :)

I-I don't even know how to start I'm just really depressed I guess about a lot of things really and all I can resort to is rant and ask for comfort from some really nice anonymous people on a website ;-;. First of all I'm really behind on school work and my grades are suffering because I'm just a procrastinating ball of nothing who is late to school everyday because I'm up late at night (Like I am now since it just happens to be 11:36pm on a Sunday night) I keep telling myself I will at least get some work done today then I get to scared to go to school because I'm 4 hours late and I don't go causing more missing work then I get sick and I'm up all night throwing up and going to the ER because I'm dehydrated. I tried to do work tonight but no my dog sits and crushes all my papers because he is worried about me stressing out on one paper then I get mad at him and I regret it and sit with him sad thus still not getting any work done. Next I don't really consider me having that many friends to talk too and the 4 I do have let's call them A, B, C, and D they all having something, A is my longest, best, and oldest friend (3 years older than me) One thing she has moved away I mean I can visit her since she is only 20 min away but then we have to plan. Anyway recently I feel like we don't relate as much anymore like she'll tell me all about her life and all this drama she has and her friends at her school and I have nothing to tell her to keep this somewhat short I'll move on. B, C, & D are friends from my school and they are good friends to have but in depth of loyalty and deepness there isn't much and D is a very new friend so they have been great so far just not enough time yet to share connections and stuff. So B is a good friend but they are a ticking time-bomb so to speak she gets me mad sometimes and I try to hold it in but when I tell them one thing she gets so mad and usually gets me hurt or directly hurts me then just is sarcastic after trying to fix things, I told her once that after a fight we had I was mad that they never say sorry or any forgiveness at all then they just replied oh my parents never say sorry to me so that's why. I never did accept that as an answer but then I feel bad because I feel like I watch them and guide them because their parents don't understand them and C and B are newly friends because I'm friends with them. Continuing C is a good friend but since I haven't been to school lately and she is in different classes and I can't go to her house I haven't seen her lately to socialize and do my homework with her which she would keep me up to date with. Next the odds and ends part my two dogs fight and I can't keep them together and I'm constantly worried about them because they both don't like people that much besides me and my family. One thing that caused me to right this is its 4 days 'till Christmas and my family has done nothing about it and without Christmas that's really getting me down I mean the Christmas tree is in bags in my room on the floor and we haven't bought any presents for anyone yet even though this year we have the most money to do so, basically there will be a small Christmas this year for me. I often get mad at myself quite often like not even being able to the things I like because I've been busy doing nothing. You wanna know what most of this nothing is? Youtube. That's all my life is other people's lives but it's the only thing that gives my brain dopamine constantly and I really enjoy it watching things I like because I can't do those things myself and it always brings a smile to my face but Just at the end of day when there are no more videos to watch I beat myself up and repeat and blame myself for all these things and cry because I procrastinate everything in order for happiness. I just need for someone to comfort me in this little corner.

Anyway there is my rant that is probably longer than anything I've ever written which if anyone bothers to read it I'm sorry for my burden I just want some help and comfort. also because I should be asleep I didn't include everything my little monster self says & what's wrong with my little life problems and I think over and over I know it will get better and all but I just want help and comfort now you know? But I don't think I deserve itand a happy note I hope everyone else is doing fabulous and better then I and I hope that the people who actually need help feel better. :)

I understand how you feel about school as it can be stressful with work and all however try not to worry too much I know its difficult however if you worry it can often make yourself feel worse and make your mind become distracted and not in the mood to work the best way to approach the work is in a calm manner and only taking it in little steps that you can manage it also might be worth keeping a drink of water with you as this can help you think and will stop the problem of dehydration as well as this perhaps try listening to music while your working as depending on what type of person you are it could be distracting however it also could be motivating you to get more work done as for the late nights it might be worth trying some sleeping teas as they can help you get to sleep easier which means it will make you feel more refreshed in the morning and ready which also might stop you from being late to school also try putting any distractions from you sleeping downstairs as then you know they're out of the way and it might make you sleep easier as well as this to help you with your work don't be afraid to ask teachers for help as they are there to help you do the best you can and they will understand and tey to help you organise things into a much easier state as for your friend who moved away I'm sure the friend ship is still going well even if you don't believe it is as I'm sure she just likes to talk to you and get away from the drama even if you cant relate that much she probably just wants to talk to you without relating to anything but simply because she likes talking to you and still wants you as a wonderful friend as for the friend that annoys you try not to let them get to you as your far better than that and always have been it might be worth when you feel like your getting angry going for a walk and having some alone time to calm down also try to have a calm talk with them it might take a while fur ithem tu understand but I'm sure they will realise what they are doing is wrong. As for the friend that you don't see often try texting her if you can or get other methods of contact as I'm sure she would still like to talk to you and perhaps try and even organise something together as your a wonderful person and they will still always value you as a friend and nothing can ever change that fact. As for the dogs I know its difficult however try not to worry about them too much it might take a while but it would be worth introducing them to each other slowly and making sure that when they do something bad they recognise this and perhaps reward them when they do something good it could be even eating together or something like that as they are sharing their space with each other and that deserves a praise of they fight alot with each other however they will eventually learn to get along as for Christmas try talking to your parents I know it can be difficult however they might just need some motivation to get things started I'm sure they will try their best also perhaps try to help them put decorations up to make it seem like less work however I hope this helps a bit and if you might like you can always pm me if you might want to talk about it a little as you don't have to go through this alone and I wish you a very merry Christmas because it really is the least you deserve


junebug. wrote:there is a huge concert today and I'm really nervous and scared

1. it's a CONCERT
2. we're supposed to run up from the audience and then onto the stage THEN onto the risers - in twelve seconds.
3. i'm scared I won't be next to my best friend, 'cause if not I won't survive 5 minutes...
4. there's a part when we're in 3 groups, and 3 small songs, and we all sing one, then 2 move on to the 2nd song, and then the last one sings the last song... if that makes sense... but the problem is, we don't know who sings what!

*biting nails*

I understand it can be daunting to run a concert however I think your very brave also try not to get stressed about it I know its difficult but try to get the group together on a chat or something like that to organise a rehearsal as then you can get more practice such as the running part to check if you can get the timings right also to discuss places where everyone will be and make sure you mention that you want your friend next to you I'm sure they will understand that you might need that bit of comfort and they will be able to organise it as for the songs again try to talk to the others as I'm sure they will want to practice too however no matter what happens try to remember that your going up as a group and that you won't be the only one who is nervous and that they will be their when you need that comfort and support I hope this helps a little and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it a little however I wish you a very merry Christmas c:


Monstercat. wrote:My boyfriend is constantly really angry at me for no reason. Today/yesterday he didn't even say good night or good morning or I love you at all, and has been ignoring me for half a day now. I'm really scared. ;-;

I understand how you feel however it might be worth giving him a little bit of space as it might be due to the fact that something might have happened at home or something like that I'm sure he doesn't mean to treat you like this and when he has calmed down a little he might explain why he has been like this however don't let him bring you down too much as I'm sure he still loves you it might be the case that he just needs a little space for now however he will call down and realise how he has been treating you although if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it a little however I hope this helps and things get better as it really is the very least you deserve and I wish you a very merry Christmas c:

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      i cant do this!!! i cant do this!! i!! cannot!!!
      do!!! this!!!!!!!!!

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Thalassic » Tue Dec 22, 2015 1:22 am

Ζan wrote:I'm filming a mini movie tomorrow and I'm in charge of the script and basically leading the entiee thing and I'm really nervous bc I dont feel ready for it at all and Im scared to mess up
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Chemicello » Tue Dec 22, 2015 1:50 am

Ζan wrote:I'm filming a mini movie tomorrow and I'm in charge of the script and basically leading the entiee thing and I'm really nervous bc I dont feel ready for it at all and Im scared to mess up

Don't worry darling you won't mess up. Just get lots of practice in and have faith in yourself. You are a very talented individual and you need to believe in that talent and let it shine through. Remember that tomorrow and I am sure you will do an excellent job x

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Tue Dec 22, 2015 1:50 am

Ζan wrote:
Ζan wrote:I'm filming a mini movie tomorrow and I'm in charge of the script and basically leading the entiee thing and I'm really nervous bc I dont feel ready for it at all and Im scared to mess up

I understand this can be a daunting task to do however try not to worry about it too much as I find that worrying about it can make you over think things and make things seem far more worse and could perhaps distract you a little from the task instead of worrying maybe try looking over the scrip again and perhaps practising the tasks that you have to do however I'm sure that things will go wonderfully well and your very brave for taking up such a take however even if a mistake is made no one is perfect and I'm sure that people will still find the act enjoyable however I wish you the best of luck and a very merry Christmas I hope this helps :)
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby frog toes » Tue Dec 22, 2015 2:06 am

I realllyyyy need to pm someone asap please, I want to vent
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Tue Dec 22, 2015 2:08 am

Monstercat. wrote:I realllyyyy need to pm someone asap please, I want to vent

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby leverage » Tue Dec 22, 2015 2:15 am

I just feel so bad all of the sudden. I can't even talk to anyone because I know I'll snap. I just need everyone to leave me alone, I've been abandoned too many times to be okay.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby arabella !! » Tue Dec 22, 2015 3:50 am

ultron wrote:I just feel so bad all of the sudden. I can't even talk to anyone because I know I'll snap. I just need everyone to leave me alone, I've been abandoned too many times to be okay.

Aw, -hugs-. I hope you get that alone time you deserve! <3


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Postby My Immortal » Tue Dec 22, 2015 4:38 am

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