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[shadoweon]

I just found out that my grandfather (on my dad's side of the family) passed away this morning. He had been sick for awhile but I didn't think he'd pass away so suddenly.

And my mom says I have to go to the funeral but I just don't know how i can handle it. I didn't go to my dad's or other grandfather's funeral because it was too hard for me, I don't handle death well. But she says they won't understand and will be too offended if I don't go. I don't want to go at all...I don't want to see the casket or hear eulogies,none of that. I just want to grieve by myself.

And they are catholic so it will be a long mass to deal with. I was just gonna sit in the absolute back and avoid as much as possible but she said the families usually sit in the front and they'll wonder why i'm sitting there. I don't want to sit next to the rest of the family, I just want to get this over with. When I cry over grief I feel very sick so I really don't know how to handle this.

I've felt very sick all day, I feel like i'm going to throw up,my teeth hurt and I have a severe headache. How is the funeral gonna be any better? I really don't know what to do. :c

[vivere]

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[Zeee]

hello, hello uwu

can i get a pm from anyone really? nothing too upsetting, i'm just a little discouraged about a few things and need some advice/cheering up. thanks in advance to those who pm c:

[makoto niijima]

can i get a pm please? it's nothing too serious, i just don't really want to talk about it publicly.

thank you c:

hello, hello uwu

can i get a pm from anyone really? nothing too upsetting, i'm just a little discouraged about a few things and need some advice/cheering up. thanks in advance to those who pm c:

sending both of you a pm.

[Montgomery Gator]

mom mom thinks i only care about me but i care about everyone shes so unfair and mad at me all the time for everything.

[Lazy9248]

My dad is the one who filed for divorce yet he refuses to leave the home. He does anything and everything to turn my siblings against my mom and I and has them convinced that we are crazy. I wrote 5 pages for a psychologist, they went to see one for the divorce, and she didn't read what I wrote to her. As a college student studying psychology I can tell, as can many of my friends and family, that my father is mentally ill and the fact that a licensed professional couldn't see that appalled me. The divorce should've been over months ago but he refuses to sign paperwork when he is the one who wanted the divorce so badly. I just don't know what to do any more. I could easily move out but I have good reasons for not moving out. Yet the longer I wait, the more I regret the decision to not move out. I could use prayers, hugs, any encouragement anyone has to offer. Thank you so much for your time and I hope you all are having a much better Holiday season than what I'm having right now.

[vval]

I feel like any reassurance won't make any of my stress go away. My mind always produces the worst scenario, and that isn't helping. I want to get over with the problem but at the same time I want to pretend it didn't ever happen. I know I have to get it over with anyways, and whatever the result is, I'll feel either content or in even more stress.

[Princess Taozi]

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[glitters]

I am extremely stressed at the moment...
So my cousin is very negative about everything. When something doesn't go her way, she throws a huge fit. Over the smallest stuff.
So today (I've been over all weekend.) she thinks I'm mad at her and I say I'm not that it's *name's* fault or whatever. And so she pokes and pokes me about it and gets angry when I don't apparently "talk about it" even though I tried. So I didn't want to be in a place I wasn't wanted. I knew she was angry. So I suggested we drive to get me clothes and I go home. So that's the plan.
I'm basically her doormat. She gets mad whenever I want to do something and/or I try to speak up. People like her are the reason I don't speak up. She complains about 'being anxious' aka she's just an angsty teen... But if she honestly had anything but a neurotypical brain, she'd understand I already have a lot of trouble talking to people or encountering people due to my actual diagnosed anxiety. But she gets mad at me about it.
She acts like her problems are "worse" or more important than everyone else's. She's selfish. And so negative and I hate hate hate it. She acts like she has it the worst out of everyone and I'm sick and tired of it.
people don't understand that I'm just not as socially or emotionally coordinated as they are and that medicine doesn't always freakin solve everything.

[arabella !!]

mom mom thinks i only care about me but i care about everyone shes so unfair and mad at me all the time for everything.

Aw, -huggles-. You'll get through it, don't worry. Have you ever talked to her about the situation? It's great that you care about the people around you, try to explain that to her.

my grandfather has a fractured skull and a bleeding brain, please pray for him and my family..

what a bad day

Aww! -Hugs tight-. I hope you and your family stays strong, my heart goes out for you and your grandfather. <3