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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby master of spaz » Mon Nov 09, 2015 1:20 pm

Dakoda wrote:
Dakoda wrote:
Dakoda wrote:I dreamt about him. Again. He leaned in and kissed me, tenderly, soft and loving. When I woke up I was crying. That was my first kiss. With anyone. And him... I love him. He won't know that. He kissed me. I reacted badly. I'll never see him again. I need a shoulder to cry on. I need to be next to him again ;-;

Please, I need to know how to improve my mood.

I don't get any help? On the "COMFORT" corner?
what did I expect... ;-;



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we talked things out and everything went back to normal and yet you still won't text first? maybe you still feel uncomfortable, but i don't know what to do to convince you that i do like you


Awe! You'll work things out! Sometimes people I like never even text me at all, so you're doing great. Try dropping hints, or even straight up admitting your feelings. But I know it's crazy hard.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Skeleton-Clique » Mon Nov 09, 2015 1:58 pm

ugh
im just done. and stressed.

First off, I am agender. And I told my group of friends at school this. They all were very accepting and were totally okay with it. Yet they keep calling me by birth name and using the incorrect pronouns. I want to bring it up to them but i'm scared to because I'll start crying everywhere if I do. I also want to ask my teachers to not call me by my birth name, but as Dakota. But I am scared that they'll ask why and then other people at school are going to keep asking me about my name change and UGUSHPGHSIGUSU.
so yeah
does anybody have advice?
Thank you in advance
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby apollo. » Mon Nov 09, 2015 2:01 pm

Dakoda wrote:
Dakoda wrote:
Dakoda wrote:I dreamt about him. Again. He leaned in and kissed me, tenderly, soft and loving. When I woke up I was crying. That was my first kiss. With anyone. And him... I love him. He won't know that. He kissed me. I reacted badly. I'll never see him again. I need a shoulder to cry on. I need to be next to him again ;-;

Please, I need to know how to improve my mood.

I don't get any help? On the "COMFORT" corner?
what did I expect... ;-;

Sometimes people don't see your message, or they're helping other people, just stay patient and someone will get to you.
You can see him again, he's probably on Facebook, or if he lives by you you can go see him, or text or E-mail him. There's always a second chance, always. I know it might not be the same if you reacted badly at first, but I'm sure he will understand. Talk it out with him, and I'm sure you'll feel a lot better. Even if it's scary, it's so much better to try and talk to him.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ausgdghsag » Mon Nov 09, 2015 2:03 pm

bandages. wrote:
i've been having some trouble. there's
this guy at my school... my crush's
best friend. he's a jerk. he jokes about
very sensitive topics all the time. he's
told people things that i'm on the fence
about if i could mention here. he thinks
its funny. he knows that i have a mental
disorder (i think he knows at least) and
finds it funny to make fun of me and insult
me outwardly in front of everyone. he's
acknowledged that it bothers us and its
made someone else very upset, but he thinks
THAT'S funny. my crush is a different person
around him and that hurts me because
i've known my crush since we were in kindergarten
and he's a nice guy and a huge dork, but
his best friend changes him.

any advice for how i should tell my crush
that his buddy is seriously causing me
emotional damage? he's gotten in a verbal
fight with his friend over him being mean to
me before.

EDIT:: my crush is very sensitive about people
being "rude" to his friends. i'm afraid that he'll
take this the wrong way and i'll completely
destroy our friendship. i'm stuck between a rock
and a hard place because i don't wanna push my
crush away (i can't handle the thought of someone
leaving me tbh) but his friend is giving me some
very bad intrusive thoughts. (at least i think they're
intrusive. i don't control them and they're highly
unpleasant so...) i really feel like giving up here and
just cutting contact with all of them, but oh, i forgot,
i'm too needy to do that.

also i forgot to mention that his best friend is dating a
friend of mine and that friend isn't even sticking up for me
in favor of her boyfriend. forgot to mention (i'm forgetful)
that the guy makes jokes about people's gender identity
and sexuality. i'm not straight or cisgender, so uh... yeah.
its very uncomfortable for me and i'm sad about it.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby hellebore » Mon Nov 09, 2015 2:26 pm

I shouldn't be depressed again, but I am.
They changed all my classes and my graduation time because I am "such a great student" and because of my anxiety problems that were threatening to make me leave school. It helped for the first three days and I am grateful, but I am no better off mentally, nor do I believe I can actually pull of this "such a great student" stuff anymore.

How am I supposed to take a [insert next grade] honors English class next semester, with chemistry and advanced functions?.. I can't math! I haven't even been doing this semester's honors English work, so it's a wonder I'm still passing! How am I supposed to get a job? Get even my driver's permit? Get into college? Anything in life?

I wish it would go away, all this mental mess, but it won't. I have so much to be happy and grateful for, but I'm miserable.
I have friends who I no longer like, nor wish to be with, likely in reality due to my mental afflictions. Then there are the two friends I still love, but I feel like a burden to them.

All I can do to at least keep me from losing it, is continue writing my story, but as always happens, I've been on another hiatus that I don't wish to be on. I won't even draw anything. I won't do anything. I'm always scared and bitter and want to cry. It shouldn't be this way... no... I should be happy... I have so much to be happy for.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Lyren » Mon Nov 09, 2015 4:00 pm

It's been since February 26th since I last talked to him and June 5th since I last saw him, he became a jerk in April. Is it sad that I still miss him? He doesn't miss me I know that. What's even worse is there's a kid in my class who looks and acts just like him so that makes forgetting him hard. Yet the thought of being forgotten makes me cry. Will this ever heal? I tried to let it and it never did.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby troye » Mon Nov 09, 2015 5:16 pm

    nobody cares
    nobody
    I have nobody to go to because nobody I used to think I could go to cares and they've made that obvious now
    I keep messing everything up
    I'm shaking
    my brother manages to continue lowering my self esteem
    the people I care about most couldn't care less. they don't even really talk to me anymore. especially not the one I especially care about. all she does is talk about the same thing, all the time. how am I supposed to talk to her? I wish she cared. she said she'd be there. she's not there. she hasn't been there. I wish it was easier to accept.
    my parents don't even realize what's going on but I'm glad they don't because they'd take everything away from me and that would only make it a thousand times worse.
    I don't know who to turn to anymore. I feel alone
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    Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

    Postby GlitchyMoon » Mon Nov 09, 2015 5:39 pm

    I have no friends anymore

    I'm completely alone

    It's been like this for 3 years

    On top of that I have an art block so I can't draw to make myself feel better

    I just want to meet one person who wants to be my friend

    But I know that won't happen

    Honestly I just want to curl up into a ball and disappear

    I wanna feel like I matter to someone
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    Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

    Postby Ms. Procrastination » Mon Nov 09, 2015 7:11 pm

    Just woke up in a panic..... More freaken nightmares i hate having ptsd..... Could use hugs ..... Pm me if you want to talk as ill probally lose track on this thread
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    Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

    Postby Lincoln » Mon Nov 09, 2015 7:16 pm

    Ms. Procrastination wrote:Just woke up in a panic..... More freaken nightmares i hate having ptsd..... Could use hugs ..... Pm me if you want to talk as ill probally lose track on this thread

    •hug• Sorry about your nightmare! I have night terrors so I know how you feel. <3
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