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[Lyren]

I'll describe this as much as I can without embarrassing myself.

Every year I have no choice but to do something embarrassing. Same thing every year. Last time I told my parents I didn't want to and they yelled at me a lot. I've been dreading this all year. I wanna tell my dad I can't but what if he yells at me again? It's been ruining my entire year, it ruins my self confidence. It increases my social anxiety. I can't do this, it make me sick. How can I get my parents to know that?

[areadbhar]

Right, a seven minute skype call where we barely talked then you're telling that if I'm too sick to come over I'm too sick to call someone and hanging up IS JUST EXACTLY WHAT I NEED WHEN I HAVE STREP THROAT AND FEEL REALLY CRUDDY. WHAT GREAT FRIENDS I HAVE. THEY REALLLLLY KNOW HOW TO HELP ME DURING HARD TIMES.
sorry just needed to get that out

[yuolinh]

Oh so now I'm the bad person for saying what I truly feel instead of sugar-coating the truth? And you say you don't care if I leave and go missing? Thanks a lot
I can't stand it here anymore, I am just done.
Can someone just please hug me and tell me it's going to be okay?

Okay, first of all, YOU deserve to have the right to say what you want and have an opinion. When has telling the truth been a BAD thing? Oh my goodness.. Yeah okay, I'm going to yell and kick you out for opening your mouth and saying what you feel. And you don't care if I leave now? Okay, fine, but I know you will be calling me back when I take my first step out that door. And if I do end up missing you better know it's all your fault and that you will see a new face on the "Missing kids" papers. You can count on that. What kind of parents are you? Your monsters oh gosh, just Monsters...

I'm so sorry, Y&B<33
Xoxoxo,
Mira<3

[thє dσctσr]

I don't know what to do. I'm pretty sure my entire family hates me. My brother told me I'm never going to be anything in life and I'll never be as good as him in school. It's really hurt me and I really feel like giving up. I'm disrespected by everyone in my house and I just want it to end.

[radiantly]

my mom forced me to have dinner and now i'm in so much pain.

All my rp partners seem to be quitting on me. I just have self esteem issues so I hate feeling abandoned. [if you are reading this, guys, I live you but I just feel left out. I know life is busy but I would like to know if you cant get on. I hope you are all well <3 not directed at anyone]

[Luzien]

@ Shadow Of Legends:
thats not easy...when you really dont want to do it, there is only one way, get your parents together, and tell them that you cant do this anymore, that it makes you sick, that you fear every Moment that this days Comes closer....that you pannic and trow up whatever....tell the..."You dont want to do this, and that they cant make you do it", if they want to see you in emergency or wherever so badly...but stay calm, crying or Shooting will not help you, but when you tell them how badly this affects you and hurts you, how much you have Trouble with this and other People then they will understand.
if anything does not work, look for a councelor- or someone like them and ask them to help you talk with your parents, they also can help your with you social anxiety...the earlyer you start with theraphy the bether it will be in the future.
and to ask for help is never a bad Thing...when im not wrong, every 2nd or 3rd Person today goes to a councelor or so.

and for the yelling at you....ask him calmly why he does it, why he sees the Need to hurt you, not helping you...he may see it wrong and maybe thinks you only do this because your lazy or ist childish reaction like adults often think, but when you tell them your Problems- worrys- health Trouble they mostlikely will over think it....and when anything does not work,...then do it like some treesaver do it....sit the Thing out, dont move and dont talk with them, they cant push you in th clothing and pull you to where they want to have you....and when make it hard for them, you can be terrible heavy when you dont want to move...i know it as i once did try to move a 4 year old and he was not so heavy...but with no moving and all i dont want to go there mindset...no fun...i was lucky that his parents where there^^!

Good luck and i hope anything goes well, and when it was not understandable what i did write ask me, i try to be more clear!
(i dont know what you Need to do, but i think it has something to do with public, and maybe stupid clothing or acting....i know it can be to much, but maybe you could do something else that you like more and makes your parents still happy....or you could learn to find something nice and funny in what they want you to do...?? )

@ Dew on a Leaf: yes that are Teens for you dont worry drink some hot honey tea, slice some onions and put them in sugar 1:1 or 1:2 and Close the glass where they are in and wait some days 1-2, then drink this Molasse thingens one tablespoon each day and you will be bether, also a hotwaterbottle and some warm blankets help too, and some other things...
and when youre friends are sick, be supper dupper sugary nice to them so much that it will be to much for them, this is your Little revange on them, without being mean but still having fun, like singing them a get well song as loudly and wrong as you could when there head hurts like hell....
i wish you that you get well fast and feel bether soon heads up!

@ the doctor: dont mind what they say, you sometimes dont get the Family you wish for but you can find yourself a Family that is good for you, sometimes friends are more Family than the own, ...what i try to say is dont hear what your Family say, you are perfect, you can be anything you like when you put your mind in it and works hard, never mind what other People say, dont let them pull you down, stay up to them, maybe talk with your grandparents if you can stay with them when you help them, or ask help from teacher and youth wellfare Service when you Need to get away or Need somebody to talk sence in your Family...
and to be bether than your brother...why should you be, you can be bether than the best Student in your School when you try why should you Play for a lower Level like your brother...you can see it like this when you want too
dont give up, and ask for outside help when needed...there is always a way!!!


@ melancholy:
tell your mom when something is to much or hurts you!
eat only so much as you can, but try to eat always a Little bit more when you have Trouble with eating, it will get bether with time, or you and your mom can try to find together something that you like to eat that is still healthy

All will be well, nobody is abonding you, ist only the Trouble with online games, there will be always People who leave...maybe try to find some Hobby that you like and where you can find People to be with^^
riding is not bad or art, running too...there are some nice Groups that go together each day or some days the week, or dog walker,...
You will find your place with time and Patience, but you Need to go looking for it, and when you start your own Thing...
so go up start looking start it and do something what makes you happy... works not only for housebuilder
there are so many things in this world from art to sports from learning and traveling and so on....but one Thing is important...be happy and have fun...good luck and a hug to you

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Hug to all that Need one

[Guest]

It's been a while since I posted here, but I seriously need help.

Every day, for since sometime near June, I've been having feelings of worthlessness. In June, I completely flipped out. Ever since then, I have been having terrible feelings, and just recently it's been getting hard to bear. All the symptoms fit - I'm so scared. I'm certain I have depression and I have no one to turn to. Everyone thinks I'm stupid and crazy yet they just don't get it. I know there is something wrong with me. I just need help to cope with this...

[jouska.]

It's been a while since I posted here, but I seriously need help.

Every day, for since sometime near June, I've been having feelings of worthlessness. In June, I completely flipped out. Ever since then, I have been having terrible feelings, and just recently it's been getting hard to bear. All the symptoms fit - I'm so scared. I'm certain I have depression and I have no one to turn to. Everyone thinks I'm stupid and crazy yet they just don't get it. I know there is something wrong with me. I just need help to cope with this...

Try to think positively. Sometimes you need just a spark of hope to get the fire roaring. You have to be optimistic. I was recently diagnosed with anxiety and although no one believes me, I'm often very depressed. Take a break from life. Go outside, explore, breathe the fresh air and relax. Sometimes drawing helps. Pull out any colored pencils, markers, crayons.. Sit down and get to work. I, personally, have a journal full of inspirational quotes. Whenever I see an interesting one, I'll write it down. If I'm feeling down, I'll pull it out and read a few of them. I hope you have a great weekend. <3 There is nothing wrong with you. (*Virtual Hug*)

[Luzien]

It's been a while since I posted here, but I seriously need help.

Every day, for since sometime near June, I've been having feelings of worthlessness. In June, I completely flipped out. Ever since then, I have been having terrible feelings, and just recently it's been getting hard to bear. All the symptoms fit - I'm so scared. I'm certain I have depression and I have no one to turn to. Everyone things I'm stupid and crazy yet they just don't get it. I know there is something wrong with me. I just need help to cope with this...

there are ways,there are People to go to, councelor in School, psychologists, psychoterapists,family counselor, church...but there im not fully sure as you Need help with selfconfidence and such....but a therapy can really help, when you find somebody to talk to that can help you they will help you find a way to work with you Problems...maybe the peerfect Hobby for you....i also would say try yoga and tai chi...this help a lot finding your middle...to relax and find peace...also the work with animals or Little Kids that have no home...
and what ƒ ℓ σ ω є я ѕ bevor me did say is true too^^

try to find a nice professional help they will help you, dont worry, you are not crazy or stupid, but at some Point everyone Needs help...all will get well, i wish you the best and hope you learn that you are worth something that you are ok^^

[Akira Shinren]

Soo... My Cat died today..
Gosh.. why.
She was so young, around 7-8 years old. She was the best cat one could ever have. Interesting quirks very beautiful and cute.
But especially how I knew she loved me to the end, as I loved her to the end.. She was always at my side. Sitting on my lap anytime she could. Even sleeping in my arms while I play Video games or something like that.
She was always here, and she was so attached to me, and I was attached to her like mad. I never had a cat who liked me before. (They always preferred my mother or other people), but this cat really.. She was my comfort when I was lonely and needed some cuddles...

So today she suddenly fell to the ground, seemingly having some cramps, "coughing" a bit... She died within minutes, in my arms.
I don't know how to handle it. I don't. I feel like this is not reality. (I wish it weren't)

I'm somehow trying to keep calm.. I feel like I'm doing wrong things, I don't know what I should do. I cried so much, then I tried to "forget it" for the time being, tried to not think about it.
It's not like it's the first time someone has died around me.. But it's as if it never happened to me before. How did I get over those previous deaths of family-members.. Unimaginable.

I loved her so much..