by The Royal Mirage » Wed Oct 28, 2015 4:09 pm
You already know how I feel about that Amaros sketch <33333
I haven't given much thought to how the packs deal with death or grief, the thought never came up while I was doing pack cultures so it didn't get written in there. But now, I think it could be an interesting (if not seldom used) tidbit for the packs, especially with Nutmeg's death looming (noooooo).
I feel like death would be dealt with in very different ways in each of the three packs; the forests would likely have elaborate burial traditions, with wolves being buried by their loved ones (if they have none, the duty would fall to the alphas and betas) in ceremonial gear - I'm somewhat caught between having them be buried with an adornment made from every kill token they've collected over the years, or being buried with tokens from their family and loved ones, while the dead wolf's tokens would go to them, like a sort of spirit exchange? If so, it would explain why Gemini has the wolverine cloak with all the kill tokens on it, it would be something passed down from alpha to alpha, with tokens added along the way with each death.
For the shores I also envision something family-based, but a bit more symmetrical to what humans would do. The dead would be prepared, likely by someone whose job it was to do so, in their finery and cleaned up to be presentable. A service would be held with the family and friends, and the body would be buried at a familial burial ground. So for Aron and Mel's mother, she would be buried at their father's familial grave site, which would be outside the pack some ways, probably directly north from the pack where I envision most of them would be (seeing as it is out of the way and would not be indirectly traversed over often). Wolves who have had loved ones pass on would be able to visit these grave sites, where a marker or gravestone of some sort would have the wolf's name, rank and family at the time of passing inscribed.
I think the mountains would be the most different out of the three packs, oddly enough. For some reason, I keep feeling like mountain wolves would traditionally wander off on their own to die, should they sense that their time in the living world is growing short. If they simply fail to return to camp, it can be assumed by those in the pack that the wolf has passed on and their spirit has found its own peace, so no ceremonies or burials would be necessary. The pack would go into a mourning period where no prey is hunted and a sense of community is encouraged by getting together each night of the mourning period and telling stories, playing games, or working together on tasks around camp.
What do you guys think of these ideas, as I'm considering making them canon with some tweaking (I really wanna rp Aron and Mel visiting their mother's gravesite now, just pass me the feelios)