| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[compass;]

I'm going to make this short and sweet, hopefully.
So my mum and dad had an argument over something really little, and then the next day my mum left and my dad said she was going to go look for another house with an estate agent. Will she go through with it? I hope not, it's stressful thinking how how we're going to go on if we do move out. My dad is a policeman but my mums only a cleaner. Oh gosh. ;-;

[[Braveheart]]

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Any ways to make myself laugh and be positive? ^^
also I noticed someone replied to my last comment. Thank you <3

whisper 'beep boop' to yourself until you're not sad
plug your nose and say 'sneep snop'
try saying ‘boopedeedoop’ in a really deep, manly voice
try saying ‘tee hee’ in a really deep, manly voice
try and say bubbles in the angriest voice you can

Aha, I see where you got that from. ^^
That actually is something pretty funny, though. (:
Thank you!
(I don't think I'll be posting as often as I did, I am feeling much better,
and trying some stuff myself to relief the stress and anxiety.
But I may post about something not related to this subject later on.)

Pinterest is your best friend! I LOVE Pinterest. Next time you're sad or mad, grab that laptop\phone\whatever and look up "funny, tumblr" or "dump a day" or "faith in humanity restored" or "buzzfeed Insert name of Your fav. TV Show Here." You will feel so much better afterwards, and hey. I'm here if you ever need to talk! And YouTube. Buzzfeed videos are HILARIOUS. As is Danisnotonfire and Amazingphil and other YouTubers like Connor Franta and Superwoman. Smile, you're beautiful!

I want to quit band and be relieved of everything that has caused me stress
I think mom enjoys my sadness too much to let me do that though.
Anybody know how much college credit I can earn for sitting in a hole and seeing how long it takes me to die?
I'm running out of options.
I'll probably just get sent to the mental place they sent my little sister to.
If there were a button labled 'Do not press or you will cease to exist' I would press it without a second thought.
Can I have a hug?

*hugs tightly* i know it's hard. i know that people are rude, and that's all that comes down to why there's so much bad in this world. But there are god things too! And half of the fun is finding them! My favorite quote, which I made up myself, is "No matter how hard the hike, you can always enjoy the view."
i know it feels like you're alone, but you aren't! You have us, just waiting to help you! I suggest finding something that calms you, like taking a walk after a bubble bath. or tea. or, hey, all three of those things. Because you'll be okay, and I'm here if you ever need a hug, someone to comfort you, someone to rant to, or whatever. Smile, beautiful!

I was happy, laughing and having fun, she was laughing but not as happy as I could be.

Strange how it changed so quickly.

Six of them, suddenly screaming to get me, running and destroying the grass in their path.

I was alone, and I ran, but not fast enough, so I collapsed and waited.


They came and pinned me down.

"Who's laughing now?"
My legs and arms yanked carelessly as I was dragged across the field.
I wonder how many people saw without helping.

I struggle, and flail helplessly, they let me go.

I run as fast as my legs carry me, ignoring the bruises and pain in my legs.

"See! I told you she would run away!"


I don't want to see them again.

Whoa! bad day, love? Well, good thing that's all it is- a bad day. i don't know what happened here, if you were beaten up by someone, or if you quoted a RP or a book, but I'm assuming that's not it. PM me please, or include more information? If you're being bullied someone needs to know- someone not on a different side of the world than you!

..what the heck?
I just wanted to buy a oc and everyone's like "OMGosh GET OUT" and stuff like that
.-.

Not gonna lie, I don't really know what you're talking about, but I'm going to try and comfort you anyway. ~~People are jerks, but sometimes, it's just because they've had a really bad day. For example, I'm usually a very bright and cheerful person, but I get crabby if I've sat in a car for more than 3 hours. Who wouldn't be?
You don't really know what people are going through, so I find it best to give them the benefit of the doubt. The only thing you can remember when people are rude is that it has nothing to do with you. It's just about them and their problems. How they act doesn't determine who you are as a person, it determines who they are as a person, because you are amazing and you deserve to be loved! And anyone who doesn't realize that needs to get out. They aren't worth your precious time, you know? Remember that and you'll be okay! PM me if you need anything!

At my school they have something where you NEED to sit with other people you're not used to sitting with. They want you to 'break down the social boundaries' which where I am is practically illegal. No worries, right? Yeah, especially for someone who sits with 1 person, the SAME person, every day, every week, every month of the school year. Oh, and they're good with the amount of friends they have already. No biggy. And the worst part is the teachers are so excited about it, I just want to throw something. Ugh.

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My closest friend on animal jam is quitting and I don't know what to do anymore. She was the best virtual friend anyone could ever have... I've been friends with her for over a year... We've been through so much together... I'm going to miss her so so much it's hard to describe...

Hi there!
As a shy person, I TOTALLY get where you're coming from. if it were up to me, I wouldn't leave my house except for to very few places. But there's something wrong with only having one friend! People aren't perfect OR reliable, and you never know. At any given day you could lose your friend, and then where would you be? Alone, forced to talk to other people, and then you'd be just where you're at now, wouldn't you? So it's best to go out there and branch out!
BUT IT'S HARD
Oh, i know. trust me, lol. I don't have many friends myself. But here are some tips I've picked up along the way;
Find things in common. "I noticed you are wearing a Five Seconds of Summer shirt. i love that band! What song of theirs is your favorite?"
Compliment them. People love being flattered! "Whoa, your hair is amazing. I've always wanted hair like that. Do you use an products? My favorite thing to do for my hair is...
Listen. if you listen on how Potential Friend interacts with people, you'll learn what makes them tick- and you can start up a conversation about it! "hey, i have always been a big fan of Taylor Swift. Did you hear she's releasing a new album?"
Offer to help.
Them: ugh! i lost my pencil!
You: here, use mine. I have an extra anyways. Isn't it annoying when you lose your things?
Them: Totally. Hey, haven't I seen you around before?
You: Yeah. I am Insert name Here. What's your name?
Boom. Conversation! And they'll have to return the pencil, too.
Of course, you don't have to do any of this. Some are more comfortable with only one friend, which I get. And don't worry, you'll be okay. Don't say anything if you don't want to! PM me anytime!

i am so scared 0-0
I don't know what she's gonna be like now..
it's been only like a year but still, she spread rumors about me
she Hurt me, and now I have to see HER again :C

People like that are annoying and hurtful. I'm sorry that happened. When you see her again, smile politely and just ignore her. She is not worth your time. if she spread rumors, do your best to dispel them. After reassuring someone they're lies, make a joke about it. "Middle school\High school\whatever- word spreads like wildfire, am I right?" and hopefully, the subject will change. if she asks for your forgiveness, it's up to you whether you ant to be friends again, but remember- 'to forgive is to set a prisoner free and realizing that prisoner is yourself.' Wise words, my friend. And that's what you are- my friend. So PM me anytime!

A relative just told me that I was a freak that couldn't talk to anyone let alone stand up to them. She's a good relative and a great person and she didn't mean it, but she has no idea how much this hurt me. Just because I told my sister that she should have stood up to someone who was saying bad things about one of our family member. I. AM. SO. SICK. OF. THIS. I just wish that I'd have good luck for once. I just wish that someone in my real life would understand me for once. Nobody gets me when I try to explain my OCD and anxiety to them. No one seems to notice it when I'm depressed. And when I say that I'm depressed or have been depressed? They don't seem to believe me because I try to act happy most of the time. It hurts that the people around me always seem to be too busy to notice anything that goes on with me. I know this sounds selfish, but sometimes I just wish that my friends would just take a second from their own lives to pay attention to me. I'm sick of growing apart my friends. I talked to one of my best friends today and she told me that she thought I hated her because I wasn't talking to her as much and I told her that I didn't and that she should totally message me. She hasn't yet and I'm way too nervous to start a conversation with her. I wish that I'd just get a chance to sit with all of the best friends that I grew apart from and tell them how much they mean to me. But I couldn't put my feelings out there like that because what if they didn't like me anymore and completely rejected my friendship? Is it normal to tell someone who pretty much ended your friendship that you miss talking to them? I feel so needy and dysfunctional. I'm tired of constantly battling my anxiety and having people tell me "just don't be nervous" or " it's New, just get used to it ." I wish that I was my old self and still outgoing. I'm done explaining myself to people. I'm so tired of missing chances because of my nervousness.

I'm so sorry. i know how bad that must have hurt you! People can be so mean sometimes, "joking" or not. You don't deserve their hate! hey, you do have someone in RL- me. My inbox is always open to you, okay? Feel free to come to me for anything. A hug, a rant, some advice, whatever. I'll do my best to listen! I am on here everyday, so PM me whenever.
It DOES NOT sound selfish at all. Humans need love and affection! Everyone, animals too, need love and affection. And craving it does not make you selfish, it makes you a PERSON! Hey, man, i know how that feels. But if you don't start messaging them you'll loose them forever, and you'll feel even worse than you do now. if they are your real friends they will understand. Tell them you've been struggling lately and are sorry and you still love and need them. If they are real they will understand. If they do not understand, you always have us- and me, okay? if they ended your friendship they aren't worth your time. You can find new friends, following the advice i listed above! You are not any more needy than anyone else. For example, i have a cold and i need to get better- having a cold and anxiety are both sicknesses and you can't be blamed for them! Both will take time to leave, and that's okay. Anyone who doesn't understand that is a waste of your life! i found calm music like Aerial Promenade by Seagull Orchestra make me feel better when I'm nervous. Find what calms you down- meditation, a TV show, tea, a massage, praying (works for me), whatever. Find it and use it, beautiful! I'm here for you whenever!

I'm going to make this short and sweet, hopefully.
So my mum and dad had an argument over something really little, and then the next day my mum left and my dad said she was going to go look for another house with an estate agent. Will she go through with it? I hope not, it's stressful thinking how how we're going to go on if we do move out. My dad is a policeman but my mums only a cleaner. Oh gosh. ;-;

Wow. That's a lot of stuff for you to be going through. I'm so sorry! if your parents want another house, there isn't anything you can do about it... I don't know if they're planning on doing it together or separately, but either way, it's tough. Just know that you've made it this far, you have gone through so much and you're still breathing, and know that you can face more because you're strong, You're loved, and there is nobody else quite like you. if you don't ant to lose your old memories, remember two things: Memories are always in the making, and sometimes when you're at the end of your rope you just have to tie a knot and hold on. PM me whenever!

You are all amazing, beautiful, and wonderful. Never forget that. You are kinder than you think, smarter than you think, and more important than you think. The world needs you, because you have more potentional than flaws. PM me whenever, okay? All of you.

[areadbhar]

You know the monster hurricane in Mexico? From what I've heard, it could possibly be headed for the US, and I'm in Texas. I'm actually pretty scared now.

[♥kittyfaith2210♥]

I'm not beautiful
Not at all
Not one trace
People say I look like my older sister, but she's actually really pretty
She has the perfect boyfriend
Body
Hair
Style
My parents love her more than us, well she is the oldest.
But I feel left out because I'm none of those things and I'm the middle child
I wish I had something special about me
But I guess not

[TedTed13]

I'm not beautiful
Not at all
Not one trace
People say I look like my older sister, but she's actually really pretty
She has the perfect boyfriend
Body
Hair
Style
My parents love her more than us, well she is the oldest.
But I feel left out because I'm none of those things and I'm the middle child
I wish I had something special about me
But I guess not

Do Not Say That! You are only ever as beautiful as you think. I know it can be hard when there is someone that you think is so much prettier than you. It's like that for me with almost all my friends. If people say you look like your sister you should believe them. I sometimes feel like there is nothing special about me, but you have to remember that you were made with care and, You. Are. Loved!

[knifekind]

I'm not beautiful
Not at all
Not one trace
People say I look like my older sister, but she's actually really pretty
She has the perfect boyfriend
Body
Hair
Style
My parents love her more than us, well she is the oldest.
But I feel left out because I'm none of those things and I'm the middle child
I wish I had something special about me
But I guess not

Beauty is only skin deep;
if you want to feel beautiful on the
outside, try working on feeling beautiful
on the inside! Try eating healthier or
drinking more water - getting more sleep
is also super helpful for feeling better
and healthier. After that, work on your
self-esteem; as silly as it sounds, standing
in front of a mirror and telling yourself
you're pretty/cute/beautiful and pointing
out the beauty in your features will make
you feel a lot more self confident, because
eventually you'll be reflexively telling yourself
these things, and believing other people when
they tell you too.
I was super self conscious over my looks when I
was younger because of being an early bloomer;
I had acne by the time I was 11 and it totally sucked.
I was so worried about doing thing that'd make
all the other girls and boys think I was pretty
that I didn't realize how upset I was making myself.
I always wanted shorter hair when I was younger, but
I never had the courage to; 4 or 5 years on, I've had
just about every short style of hair possible, in a literal
rainbow of colors, and I'm a lot more confident
because of it.
Good luck with finding out what works for you; remember
that you're beautiful no matter what! <3

[leta]

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[hoofbeat]

Ok, anyone know how to cope with a mom who you know loves you but....

She gets in fights almost every night with my dad

Gets mad at me because I have acne (Ever heard of hormones mom?)

Gets way to into my personal business

Likes to have arguments at night about how I apparently talked back when I said it was ridiculous I couldn't touch the fridge handle because I'll smudge it!

Likes to say I should look more attractive then whenever a guy from my school look sat me, she gets mad at me!

My mom likes to have arguments with me at 10 at night on school nights when I just want to sleep! Then she says "Alright! I'm not going to buy you stuff anymore!" Then stalks out of the room. Me being thankful to sleep, I drift off into dreams again. 5 minutes later, she comes back in and picks the argument up again. UGH! Why can't she let me sleep!

(I'm sorry, that was a rant, you don't have to respond)

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Pinterest is your best friend! I LOVE Pinterest. Next time you're sad or mad, grab that laptop\phone\whatever and look up "funny, tumblr" or "dump a day" or "faith in humanity restored" or "buzzfeed Insert name of Your fav. TV Show Here." You will feel so much better afterwards, and hey. I'm here if you ever need to talk! And YouTube. Buzzfeed videos are HILARIOUS. As is Danisnotonfire and Amazingphil and other YouTubers like Connor Franta and Superwoman. Smile, you're beautiful!

Wow, it's like you know me. xD
I use Pinterest every day, and I look up thinks such as 'funny, tumblr' , 'kittens and puppies' , 'faith in humanity restored' , etc. like every day. But still, thank you so much for this tip!
I'm quite tired, so I don't have much to write at the moment, but I just wanted to thank you. (:

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[pastelmoonx]

This is to all the people complaining about their parents (sorry if it sounds rude.)
I used to be like you guys complaining about my parents, and that they didn't love me, they didn't understand. But I never looked at the good times, we had waaaaay more good times than bad times. I thought was life was bad, but it wasn't it was the best life I could of asked for and I never realised it. I started to become suicidal and tried to take my life 2 times, my mum was there for me all through it, and then I started to self harm, she caught me took me to hospital and after a few weeks I was taken to a residential home, I hated it there but I was happy because I got to go home in 3 months to my lovely family! 3 months passed...I waited....but then they told me they didn't want me back. That was the worst day of my life. I took my family for granted. Well guess what I had to stay in the residentual for another 5 months, and well, I'm in hospital again. Right now at this moment because I tried to take my life again because I have to family, or no friends (I moved school.) Now I long for the petty arguments that me and my mum had.

If you read this and You've had an argument with your mum/dad, go to them appoligise, tell them how your feeling, DON'T keep it inside like I did.