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by MoonStone00 » Fri Oct 09, 2015 5:10 am
Im not getting any support...
Im trying so hard to change my lifestyle and ive done such a great job so far about eating healthier and starting to incorporate excersises. Im over weight and have been since middle school but im now trying to fix that and improve myself. My mom has been pretty much ignoring my accomplishments and brushing me off to do stocks and what not but i literally feel like im not wanted here except to clean the house everyday.... i just need some emotional support i dont want to be isolated. I feel like i cant lose this weight without someone encouraging me. Im probably being just a big emotional baby but otd be nice tl jear from my mom "im so proud of you flr doing this". All i want is to make her proud....
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by badbatter » Fri Oct 09, 2015 7:15 am
I've had lice problems as kid before and it has never had any real effect on me. Bloodsucking bugs in my hair? Tell mom and we'll buy lice removal shampoo.
But when I got head lice this year, about 4 months ago, it had quite an effect on me. I would continueosly scratch my head and try to pick out the disturbing mites, even in public. When my mom had finally bought the lice removal shampoo, I had developed sort of a habit of scratching my head. Even now, even though I'm not lice infected anymore, I keep scratching my head and pulling my hand out roughly.
At first I didn't ponder on it to much. It's a habit, I'll grow out of it soon. But it became a bad habit. Soon enough, I started pulling out little strands of hair, specifly from the front, just above my forehead. For some reason, I like the feeling if the slight sting you get when you pull out your own strands of hair. This habit has caused me to gain a slight bald spot in my hair. No one has noticed it yet, I hide it by brushing my bangs to the side. But I'm worried if I don't break my habit it will become a serious problem.
Anyone ever had this kind of situation? Can anyone give me some advice on how to break my habit?
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by chooch » Fri Oct 09, 2015 8:04 am
Champion. wrote:I can't stand handle my family.
My mom can't do crap, "oh it's because I have stage 4 lung cancer" no.it's not it's because you started smoking again. Always wants me to stand up for her but it gets taken out on me.
My dad is this ball of hate and frustration. He's so evil. I feel so hated in this household and I have no one. No one but some online friends I can barely talk to due to busy lives and real life friends that never listen to me.
I want to leave. Every night I'm in tears. I'm so angry but there's nothing I can do. Nothing ever helps.
I understand, my mom recently passed away over night. every night my family fights at eachother I cry myself to sleep I have anxiety attacks and I cant take it. my family is going to counseling soon. maybe you should try that too. and just talk with your family tell them how you feel. Try talking with your mom and dad.
I hope things get better for you.
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by the crown, » Fri Oct 09, 2015 10:16 am
My dad takes his anger out on me because I'm the smallest, although not the youngest, of the family. Today, I was using the printer to print out a term paper for school, and because h's angry about something, he tells me to get my lazy little -censored- off of the computer chair, and that I was a -censored- disgrace. Then he throws the printer on the floor and proceeds to smash it, and is still refusing to buy a new one. Thanks for all the stress, 'dad'.
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by starry palms » Fri Oct 09, 2015 10:30 am
so i may or may not have a solo talk in english tomorrow
its running in a random order, so i have no idea if im gonna do it tomorrow or in two weeks
this makes me even more nervous
i had intense anxiety
the last time i done a solo talk, my fingers and face went numb, and i almost passed out
and that was in front of people i was comfortable with
now it's gonna be in front of people i really am not comfortable with
i have no idea what to do, and i physically cant give this solo talk, i will either cry or pass out
please help its pretty urgent
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by the crown, » Fri Oct 09, 2015 10:36 am
starry palms wrote:so i may or may not have a solo talk in english tomorrow
its running in a random order, so i have no idea if im gonna do it tomorrow or in two weeks
this makes me even more nervous
i had intense anxiety
the last time i done a solo talk, my fingers and face went numb, and i almost passed out
and that was in front of people i was comfortable with
now it's gonna be in front of people i really am not comfortable with
i have no idea what to do, and i physically cant give this solo talk, i will either cry or pass out
please help its pretty urgent
I'm pretty sure a solo talk is the same thing as a presentation?
If so, I'm always super nervous about this as well,
but what I do is just pretend i'm talking to my mirror,
and forget everyone else is there.
Don't stress, you'll do jut fine 
hey y'all!
it's been a fun ride but i am signing off.
thanks for all the fun i had on here!
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by yaksha » Fri Oct 09, 2015 10:37 am
i am so scared for tomorrow. i have to dress up like a greek person and present in front of the whole class.. thing is, my group wants to make it funny. i'm VERY NERVOUs, i'm not funny at all in front of a huge crowd. [ lord help me they want to do the whip ]. i am so scared because when i did a presentation in front of my class last year, my throat got a knot in it and my voice was shaky, like i was going to cry. i'm so nervous, what if it happens again :(?
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by Sety » Fri Oct 09, 2015 11:18 am
senseless wrote:i am so scared for tomorrow. i have to dress up like a greek person and present in front of the whole class.. thing is, my group wants to make it funny. i'm VERY NERVOUs, i'm not funny at all in front of a huge crowd. [ lord help me they want to do the whip ]. i am so scared because when i did a presentation in front of my class last year, my throat got a knot in it and my voice was shaky, like i was going to cry. i'm so nervous, what if it happens again

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I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Have you tried telling your group this? Maybe they can find something not-quite funny for you, or a smaller speaking role. Just remember that every other person in the room feels the exact same way about presenting, everyone has been or is super nervous too. If you mess up, no one will think any less of you at all c: I believe in you, you can get through this and then you'll feel so much better when it is finally done! Good luck <3
sxren. wrote:My dad takes his anger out on me because I'm the smallest, although not the youngest, of the family. Today, I was using the printer to print out a term paper for school, and because h's angry about something, he tells me to get my lazy little -censored- off of the computer chair, and that I was a -censored- disgrace. Then he throws the printer on the floor and proceeds to smash it, and is still refusing to buy a new one. Thanks for all the stress, 'dad'.
I'm so sorry for what you are going through :c Is there a friend that can help you? Maybe you can e-mail your term paper to them and they can print it out for you, or if you can get to a library, e-mail the term paper to yourself and print it off there?
Ζan wrote:I forgot to eat again
Is it possible for you to set reminders/alarms on your phone or computer that will help you remember? Maybe a friend who can call and remind you?
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