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[Zynphera]

Might as well write this headache of a story out.

So last year around December, this guy in my class kept coming up to me to initiate conversations, asked for my number, sometimes physically touched me (not in a perverted way, just things like turning a high five into holding hands, etc) and for the rest of the school year he'd constantly go up to initiate conversations (I don't think I ever had to), he'd sometimes flirt with me, wait for me so he could walk me to class, and stuff like that. I did end up liking him but at one point he started flirting with other girls right in front of me which sort of made me just stop liking him/made me jealous so I'd sometimes purposely mention this other guy in front of him if I was talking to my friends, etc.

Basically, over the summer I tried talking to him but he constantly ignored my messages. I just found out maybe two weeks ago that he was ignoring my text messages since he lost his phone and changed his number without telling me, but he's ignored my messages on every other platform. I stopped liking him in April, but when I got back to school this year he was in my homeroom again. On the first day of school he was going to talk to me (or at least, I could see him going up to me) but then this guy who's annoyed every girl in my grade because he's quite perverted with his actions starts talking to me, and since I'm polite I reply back but the guy that I mentioned above saw and turned around and went to talk to other people. :\

I didn't think I'd like him at all and I don't think I do, and yet this guy has stopped initiating conversations with me and basically stopped interacting with me altogether. I used to consider us friends and yet now it seems like we're just people who sometimes talk. Here's the headache part though, on the first week of school I somehow found him sort of cute/attractive but I didn't have a crush on him. But now, since he never initiates conversations with me, I always feel compelled to try to talk or message him (I also think I sort of like him? I say things like "I hate him, but not really..." and I feel like I have a crush on him but my mind and heart are telling me no. I just feel physically attracted to him I guess?), even though I know he'll never reply anymore (he used to reply right away). Sometimes, I feel like giving up on him (as a friend and as a possible crush) but then right before I decide to give up he does something to make my heart pound (example: I message my school chat group at 12 am saying "Anyone still awake?" and he replies with "I'm here for you bb <3") but then after that one action he'll ignore me for weeks on end. In the mornings we always end up staring at each other while we talk to our friends, but we never end up talking to each other.

Clearly, he may have liked me in the past not is definitely not interested in me now whatsoever (even as a friend most likely), so it'd be smart of me to not pay attention to him right? And yet I can't stop myself from enthusiastically talking to him or trying to reach out to him. The times he does reply, he replies with a one word response and I end up typing a paragraph in reply to his one word, and then he'll ignore my paragraph. Should I try my best to just get him out of my head?

(Sorry for writing a novel)

Sorry for making you guys read a novel but I'd really like advice on whether or not I should move on. ^^"

[fear the normal~]

I think,
That he liked you from the start obviously as he flirted with you and stuff,
But maybe when it seemed like you weren't interested he moved on? If you want to be friends with him, you should try to say it (I know it's hard to do that so not wanting to pressure you or anything ^^ )... If you later feel like you may have feeling for him, it sounds like it'd be something he would be ok with and maybe he still likes you back? c:

I don't know if that helped but best of luck anyways!

[[x]]

he gOT GLASSES

[Casistrophic]

he gOT GLASSES

It was the opposite in my relationship--I started out with glasses, then switched to contacts. He always said I was pretty when I wasn't wearing glasses, so I was pretty motivated to go get some.

[wildberry,]

Er, I'm sorry catastrophic, I'm trying! But I really don't know how to tell a guy I like him! Can I get some advice? Help from anyone?

Ahahah. Advice? c:

[❝Agateophobia❞]

Hey so I need a bit of advice.
There are these two guys I like.
A- I met him last year and thought he was really cute and thought he was very funny. He's my best friend's boyfriend's best friend.
D- I only met him this year and he's only in one of my classes. All I know is that he's cute.

Now my best friend's boyfriend also happens to be one of my best friends, so let's call him B. So B knows both A and D. I first had a small crush on D. So B tells D the next day during class, and something bad happens. I can't say it on here, but it's not what I expected.
B told A that I liked him too, but he never told me what A had said about that.

Then B,A, and their other friend C are all on the same soccer game. So they were all in the car and I was texting B. I had wanted a picture of A to show my friend because she never met him before, but what I didn't know was that they were all in the car together. Now B told me A never saw the text, but at their game A randomly asked B if I liked him.

Today while I was walking to the bus with my friend N, D came up to me and just started talking to me. We've never talked before and he started talking about the intramurals games.
Do you think D is trying to get to know me, or just having a random conversation?
And do you think A just guessed because he may have seen the text or was he wondering if I liked him because he may like me?
Sorry it's confusing.

[Zynphera]

I think,
That he liked you from the start obviously as he flirted with you and stuff,
But maybe when it seemed like you weren't interested he moved on? If you want to be friends with him, you should try to say it (I know it's hard to do that so not wanting to pressure you or anything ^^ )... If you later feel like you may have feeling for him, it sounds like it'd be something he would be ok with and maybe he still likes you back? c:

I don't know if that helped but best of luck anyways!

It definitely helped, thank you! It makes sense, I've been thinking of asking him if we were friends at some point but I just need to find the right time. Thanks for your advice! ^^

[jos]

If I Guy Already Has A GF, Would There Still Be A Chance For Someone Who Likes Him?

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If I Guy Already Has A GF, Would There Still Be A Chance For Someone Who Likes Him? :|

It's a pretty bad idea to even try flirting with someone who is dating someone else.

[jos]

I Wouldn't Ever Do That. Never. I Wouldn't Try To Get Him To Like Me Like That. I'm Just Disappointed. :c Never Mind, I'll Stop Liking Him, I Give Up. ;c