senseless wrote:i guess i waited too long and you've moved on \: why am i stuck with this cursed personality of being "shy"
Lots of people are shy darling, it does not make you any less of an amazing person than you are. You will miss opportunitues to do things, but don't let it get you down, pick yourself up and carry on, and don't let it ruin your life because then you will miss all the other opportunities that come your way. Honestly, don't worry about bring shy, if someone doesn't understand that you are shy and that you might not do things because of that, maybe they aren't right for you. xx
AuraDragoness wrote:So lately, friends I'd grown close to on a site that I have been on for 6 years have started to leave or drift away. I only have 1 left that I can talk with but she too is slowly going.
I also, being an artist, have found myself getting discouraged because, in the past, I'd get lots of feedback on things I'd spent hours and even days on; now, I'm lucky to get 2 comments about my art.
What irks me about this is that people who post 1 thing every 3+ months get dozens of feedback where I, someone who posts quite regularly, get nothing.
I feel so hypocritical right now. Whenever someone is discouraged I help bring their confidence up...yet I can't help myself when the roles are reversed. I love drawing and always will, I just don't want to post things up for a brick wall.
I've also found myself getting high-strung about stupid things and it's frustrating because I don't know how to stop myself, thus causing an endless cycle.
So yeah, there's several other things I could mention that I'd love to rant and get help about (it's nothing rule-breaking, just some things I need help with) so if anyone is willing to just talk and help me then feel free to send me a PM, I'd like to talk about these things with someone other than my family since they'd worry too much.
Pming xx
Online friends are great but not the same as real friends. They are far easier to fade in and out of your life, so don't be upset when they go, just make a few more, its easy, really, however hard it might seem.
And as for your art, people might see your art and not comment, maybe people don't have time, and I know you said you will always love drawing and you won't get discouraged, but still, don't lose faith in yourself, you are a very kind and talented person and you do so much for others, I know it is hard when you don't get the respect and love for your art you deserve, but maybe just advertise your art in your signature or make an art shop or something so you get some more recognition xx
♥kittyfaith2210♥ wrote:I am not good or nice
i am not..
i feel so.. empty
Don't think that, you are, you are nice you are good and kind, and everyone knows it. Dont think like that because it will make you feel empty, and you don't want that. Be positive my friend and positive things shall happen to you x