| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[incandescence,]

To Everyone

I'm sorry you all are struggling so am I. We can do it.. We can be strong
We are going to succeed unlike those bullies or bothers, I promise.
If anyone needs to talk Pm me Im always here to help

Stay Strong

Thank You. We can do it. Thanks for that, although it was small, it gave me some much needed strength.

[BrainOnSka]

dang migrane...

I know how that goes.. I had one this spring and ever since I've had weird feelings that it would return, based on how I felt that day I got the migraine. Like today I thought I was going to get one for sure, but never did, surprisingly. Despite everything that happened. Just try drink some fluids, maybe take some ibuprophen or whatever helps and take a nice nap. That's what I'd do anyways. Hope you get to feeling better!
*Hugs*

[incandescence,]

Big hugs to Everyone!

[~ t r o u b l e ~]

Gahh
So this is kind of just a normal anxiety stricken situation and any advice is welcome.

So I met this guy a little over a year ago as we are going to the same university. And we hit it off the first time we met. And he is gorgeous and I love talking to him. I actually really like him, which is a lot for me. Our first year at school we didn't talk all that much and never saw each other due to reasons. However, recently we saw each other and we have been talking pretty much everyday since. We've gone out a few times to get ice cream and what not.
But this past week has been hectic for him so he hasn't been as active with our conversations, which I totally get. But I feel like I am being too needy and sending him messages way too much. I mean its only once a day because things pop into my head and I just want to tell him. And sometimes it takes awhile for him to answer if at all. Which I also understand as he is limited to wifi and all that jazz. but I still feel like I am acting obsessive I guess?? I dunno. And I feel like if I keep acting clingy he will think I'm annoying and it will make him not want to be around me. Which I would hate.
I don't know if its my anxiety and paranoia making me think I am being clingy and that I'm gonna push him away, or if I really am that way. I keep telling myself that its fine and I am just crazy, but then there is that voice inside me that tells me that I'm too clingy and annoying and hes never going to actually like me.

I know this sounds like a childish problem and all, but my anxiety is a little unsteady and I am not great at relationships.
Thanks for anyone who offers help or ideas.

[<sandfeather>]

I have been having a lot of stress and stuff lately so helping others makes me feel better, so here we go. Please if anyone ever needs comfort please please, please pm me. Do not hesitate because my inbox is always open and I love to help others! You all deserve comfort, and I do not mind at all.

Im so mad and sad, ugh I just want to be locked up in a dark room and cry, because thats what I do everyday, and its getting to the point Im going crazy...

She doesnt believe me, she thinks im lying.. maybe I am, but its not about that. Please, stop acting.. Theres to much to overwhelm at once here..

Im so sorry, you can try something fun with a freind you can trust or maybe just curl up with a pet. Just try to do the opposite of crying, you can stay strong. I know you can, just pm me if you ever need to talk <3 My inbox is always open <3

In health class we went over the health triangle and had to take a survey on parts of it that we did. Mine wasn't balenced and somethings about it made me feel bad... Like one was about "I think people like me and accept who I am" I didn't know what to say.. I wrote yes but now I don't feel like that....

Of course people accept you for who you are, your a amazing person and there is at least five people who truly love you more than you could ever dream of!

I just feel like slipping away into nothingness...

I know times can be tough, I defintly know how that can be. Please, if you ever need to talk, pm me!

Gahh
So this is kind of just a normal anxiety stricken situation and any advice is welcome.

So I met this guy a little over a year ago as we are going to the same university. And we hit it off the first time we met. And he is gorgeous and I love talking to him. I actually really like him, which is a lot for me. Our first year at school we didn't talk all that much and never saw each other due to reasons. However, recently we saw each other and we have been talking pretty much everyday since. We've gone out a few times to get ice cream and what not.
But this past week has been hectic for him so he hasn't been as active with our conversations, which I totally get. But I feel like I am being too needy and sending him messages way too much. I mean its only once a day because things pop into my head and I just want to tell him. And sometimes it takes awhile for him to answer if at all. Which I also understand as he is limited to wifi and all that jazz. but I still feel like I am acting obsessive I guess?? I dunno. And I feel like if I keep acting clingy he will think I'm annoying and it will make him not want to be around me. Which I would hate.
I don't know if its my anxiety and paranoia making me think I am being clingy and that I'm gonna push him away, or if I really am that way. I keep telling myself that its fine and I am just crazy, but then there is that voice inside me that tells me that I'm too clingy and annoying and hes never going to actually like me.

I know this sounds like a childish problem and all, but my anxiety is a little unsteady and I am not great at relationships.
Thanks for anyone who offers help or ideas.

I hope he is okay and replies soon, it is normal to get upset when someone doesn't reply normally. If you need to talk pm me!

[Oreo•Bunny]

I hate myself. I thought CS would be a good escape from my pathetic little life. But now when I look at a topic or check out the pets in the archive or anything else, it reminds me of the hurt I've been through...It's barely my second day and I already want to quit.
I want to curl up and die, I can't take this anymore. Everyone at school hates me, I don't have a single friend. It's even worse at home, my mom passed when I was little and my stepdad turned nasty a year later. He's embarrassing, I get judged at my school because of him and my teachers aren't any better. When there's parent-teacher conferences, he gets there late and doesn't stand up for me-if they tell him my grades are even just a little off, he insults me in front of them. He controls my life..the only friends I'd kept since middle school he drove off because he said I had started being sick all the time. When he was asleep at night, I'd connect with them over the phone and tried convincing them that I wasn't sick but they soon spread rumors about me and became my worst enemies...
I don't want to hurt anymore. I can't keep being a walking heartbreak.
Please, help me.

[MarkFangirl]

I hate myself. I thought CS would be a good escape from my pathetic little life. But now when I look at a topic or check out the pets in the archive or anything else, it reminds me of the hurt I've been through...It's barely my second day and I already want to quit.
I want to curl up and die, I can't take this anymore. Everyone at school hates me, I don't have a single friend. It's even worse at home, my mom passed when I was little and my stepdad turned nasty a year later. He's embarrassing, I get judged at my school because of him and my teachers aren't any better. When there's parent-teacher conferences, he gets there late and doesn't stand up for me-if they tell him my grades are even just a little off, he insults me in front of them. He controls my life..the only friends I'd kept since middle school he drove off because he said I had started being sick all the time. When he was asleep at night, I'd connect with them over the phone and tried convincing them that I wasn't sick but they soon spread rumors about me and became my worst enemies...
I don't want to hurt anymore. I can't keep being a walking heartbreak.
Please, help me.

Pming, this needs a super hug

[0000007]

beep hoop bop beep
I wanna run away because I'm done
I don't know what to do
life isn't even that bad, but I hate it
and I hate even worse
how selfish and stupid I am.
I should be thankful. I'm not.
I'm not ready to apologize or even try anymore
I'm just done
I'm terrible
but I won't even do anything
because I'm a stupid weak teenager. I'll just keep living this life,
that I hate,
forever,
until I die. a failure. a selfish unhappy small grain of dust who makes no difference in this world.
ha ha

[Dare,]

things just aren't looking good for me.
my day has sucked and i am dreading
school tomorrow and it's just all a big
struggle. i hate when i get into these
moods where nothing makes me feel
better. what the heck do i even do in
this situation?

[incandescence,]

things just aren't looking good for me.
my day has sucked and i am dreading
school tomorrow and it's just all a big
struggle. i hate when i get into these
moods where nothing makes me feel
better. what the heck do i even do in
this situation?

Hey. It's alright. There are just days that don't go as well as others. Try and take a walk, clear your head, or do something to take your mind of what's stressing you out. Here are some things that I do when I start feeling depressed:
- Go for a walk (exercise can help alleviate stress, and get rid of that panicked feeling leftover from a sucky school day)
- Take a nice, hot shower (Hot water is soothing, and imagine yourself just "washing" the stress away)
- Have a mug of nice, rich hot chocolate, put on comfy clothes, and curl up with a book (or device) and something cuddly (a cat?)
- Bake something! Like Cookies!It can take your mind off other things, plus, COOKIES!
- Don't listen to depressing music. Even though you may want to listen to something to match your mood, opt for something more upbeat.

You are Loved. Remember that. Everything will clear up.