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Postby Young and Beautiful » Sat Aug 29, 2015 10:36 am

I just feel like I'm an annoyance sometimes towards people, and then I distance myself. I just don't know anymore >.<
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Sat Aug 29, 2015 10:42 am

The Kraken wrote:I don't think my parents love or care about me

Im sorry that you feeling this way as i know that sometimes it can be hard to see how others really feel however maybe try to talk to them about how you feel even if it doesn't go the way you planned it to go at least you told them and that is something to to be proud of as it takes a big heart to tell others how you feel however in the end it will always be worth it as they might not be aware that they are making you feel like this and it might be just the thing they need to realize how they are making you feel however no matter what happens try not to doubt yourself too much as im sure they are proud of how far you have come and how hard you have been working and they still love you even if they might find it hard to express at times and i know it can make you feel a little lonely however try to remember that you are not alone nor ever will be as you will always be loved and respected here at cs and nothing can ever change that fact and you will always have support here when you need it because your more wonderful than you think and you do have a place in our hearts so try not to give up and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it and i know that it's hard to keep going on with how your feeling at this moment however it wont always be this way as you have a wonderful future ahead of you it's just the case of carrying on trying to get to that future however once you do it will always be worth it in the end and i hope this makes you feel a little better you star :)


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So recently, I've been thinking about my future.
I've always wanted to be an author since what, grade two?
Writing and art has always been my passion, but recently,
I've realized that I might not be able to become an author,
and so I've been left wondering what I can do for a career.

And since I've been thinking about careers I've also begun
wondering about my education, like, if I'm going to be able
to go to college and university, and for what? I've begun to
worry about my education, telling myself that I need to do
better or that I need to be smarter.

It's all been pretty stressful, and I really need a break from
all this panicking, but I'm still really worried about my future
and about how I'm going to survive.

I understand how you feel as i felt the exact same way i always wanted to do something art related however the future tends to run it's own course and sometimes it's just the case of going with the flow and seeing what happens as you go along and i know that jobs and education can be stressful at times however try to remember that no matter what grades you get no matter what job you get it wont stop you from having the future that you want as there will always be opportunities out there and nothing can ever change that fact and when you do get a job that job doesn't have to be a job for life as you can always find more that suit your taste it's just the case of taking chances now and again to get to where you want to be and it might take time however believe me it will always be worth it in the end as it's a huge world of opportunity out there and grades really aren't the limit of things you don't have to be a genius in everything to write down your imagination only you can do that only your mind can create such wonders and no grades will ever be able to stop that happening so try not to think about it too much and just make the choices that you feel are right when the time comes to it you might have changed your mind by then it's just a matter of getting to that point but until your ready take things slowly and don't push yourself too hard im proud of you for trying so hard however your wonderful the way you are and sometimes it's best to have a break now and again as we all have our limits and that's okay as everyone needs a break once and a while and if you feel like you need a break and time to relax then take that time and let your mind settle it's a big world out there with many opportunities and among them is always chances to do what you dream to do the only way it wont ever happen is if you give up so try to keep going but don't ignore your limits as your only human and you need to rest eventually and that's okay and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it however try to remember your a wonderful and fantastic individual and you can do what you want to do if you keep taking chances and giving things a try as at least then you can say you tried your best and that's what matters most :)


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I just feel like I'm an annoyance sometimes towards people, and then I distance myself. I just don't know anymore >.<

Your not an annoyance to people if anything your everything opposite to an annoyance as you really are wonderful and fantastic in every way possible and you have made so many people out there happy and smiling so try not to pull yourself down as you don't know how lovely you are and you always have been and i know sometimes its difficult to talk to someone when you feel like this however don't be afraid to talk to anyone as your an amazing individual and others would be glad to talk to you so try not to distance yourself and take things at a slow steady pace in getting closer to others as you deserve a chance to shine just as much as anyone and no one can ever take that away and no matter what happens try to remember that you are and always will be loved for just being you so never change for anyone as your brilliant the way you are and yes you might have your flaws however everyone does so don't hide away because of them as no one is perfect and you are more loved than you realize you angel try not to pull yourself down and keep being that kindhearted and loving person that i know you are and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it i hope this helps a little :)
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Postby kestrel » Sat Aug 29, 2015 10:56 am

angelpal wrote:
So recently, I've been thinking about my future.
I've always wanted to be an author since what, grade two?
Writing and art has always been my passion, but recently,
I've realized that I might not be able to become an author,
and so I've been left wondering what I can do for a career.

And since I've been thinking about careers I've also begun
wondering about my education, like, if I'm going to be able
to go to college and university, and for what? I've begun to
worry about my education, telling myself that I need to do
better or that I need to be smarter.

It's all been pretty stressful, and I really need a break from
all this panicking, but I'm still really worried about my future
and about how I'm going to survive.


    i'm not sure how much longer you have in school before you go to college, but i can assure you that it will be okay, no matter if it's in a year or two or five. i have this crisis all the time. i have so many things that i am interested in but i rarely know how to go about it or the means to do so. i start to panic because i don't know what i want to go to college for, but what always makes me feel better is that college is for learning. if you don't know much about what you want to go going into it, that's okay. you're there to learn. and if you don't know what you want to take, you can always start with the basics and decide later. you'll be fine, and you will figure yourself out in time. you'll learn what you can afford and how to get the money you need and everything like that. you just need to be patient and remember that you have time to think about this. it'll all be okay. take it one day at a time. no rush. <3
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby master of spaz » Sat Aug 29, 2015 11:01 am

Young and Beautiful wrote:
I just feel like I'm an annoyance sometimes towards people, and then I distance myself. I just don't know anymore >.<


Do me a favour - don't distance yourself from anyone you enjoy to be with. Who cares if they get annoyed at you? You don't live for what they think c:

Walk your own path and let them talk. What can they do to you? If they are the type of people who would get easily annoyed, then they aren't people you would want to be with.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Checkinder » Sat Aug 29, 2015 11:18 am

I love this. I absolutely LOVE today. Cause, you know, giving someone the same respect you pay them is SUCH a foreign concept. God forbid you even utter HI to someone who says hi to you when you see them. Such a hard phrase to say, I know. After the day I've had, I just love to be ignored by the people I consider my friends. This is exactly how I want my life to go. Perfect.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Sat Aug 29, 2015 11:30 am

LadyCheckmate wrote:I love this. I absolutely LOVE today. Cause, you know, giving someone the same respect you pay them is SUCH a foreign concept. God forbid you even utter HI to someone who says hi to you when you see them. Such a hard phrase to say, I know. After the day I've had, I just love to be ignored by the people I consider my friends. This is exactly how I want my life to go. Perfect.
Im sorry that your friend's are treating you this way as you deserve far more respect and you always have however try not to let them get to you as your so much better than that and always have been and i know it can be frustrating however your a wonderful and fantastic person and if they ignore you then that is their loss not yours because they lost the chance to talk to a brilliant and amazing person and nothing can ever change that fact however don't let them get to you and perhaps spend some time away from them if you feel like its getting too much ad make them realize how lucky they was to have you around them as you don't deserve be ignored and you never have and i know it can be hard however try to remember that you don't have to stay with those friends as you will always find more people in future who will respect you in every rightful way that you should be so don't let them get to you as it wont always be like this and i know it can make you feel angry although always remember that you are and always will be loved for just being you so never let them make you doubt yourself as your wonderful the way you are and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it and maybe when you feel calm enough perhaps tell them how you feel as you really do deserve far better than that.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Thalassic » Sat Aug 29, 2015 11:45 am

۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ wrote:
The Kraken wrote:I don't think my parents love or care about me

Im sorry that you feeling this way as i know that sometimes it can be hard to see how others really feel however maybe try to talk to them about how you feel even if it doesn't go the way you planned it to go at least you told them and that is something to to be proud of as it takes a big heart to tell others how you feel however in the end it will always be worth it as they might not be aware that they are making you feel like this and it might be just the thing they need to realize how they are making you feel however no matter what happens try not to doubt yourself too much as im sure they are proud of how far you have come and how hard you have been working and they still love you even if they might find it hard to express at times and i know it can make you feel a little lonely however try to remember that you are not alone nor ever will be as you will always be loved and respected here at cs and nothing can ever change that fact and you will always have support here when you need it because your more wonderful than you think and you do have a place in our hearts so try not to give up and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it and i know that it's hard to keep going on with how your feeling at this moment however it wont always be this way as you have a wonderful future ahead of you it's just the case of carrying on trying to get to that future however once you do it will always be worth it in the end and i hope this makes you feel a little better you star :)


I can;t talk to them
especially when it comes to how I feel
Im too scared of being ridiculed or not taken seriously to even try
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Sat Aug 29, 2015 12:40 pm

The Kraken wrote:
۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ wrote:
The Kraken wrote:I don't think my parents love or care about me

Im sorry that you feeling this way as i know that sometimes it can be hard to see how others really feel however maybe try to talk to them about how you feel even if it doesn't go the way you planned it to go at least you told them and that is something to to be proud of as it takes a big heart to tell others how you feel however in the end it will always be worth it as they might not be aware that they are making you feel like this and it might be just the thing they need to realize how they are making you feel however no matter what happens try not to doubt yourself too much as im sure they are proud of how far you have come and how hard you have been working and they still love you even if they might find it hard to express at times and i know it can make you feel a little lonely however try to remember that you are not alone nor ever will be as you will always be loved and respected here at cs and nothing can ever change that fact and you will always have support here when you need it because your more wonderful than you think and you do have a place in our hearts so try not to give up and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it and i know that it's hard to keep going on with how your feeling at this moment however it wont always be this way as you have a wonderful future ahead of you it's just the case of carrying on trying to get to that future however once you do it will always be worth it in the end and i hope this makes you feel a little better you star :)


I can;t talk to them
especially when it comes to how I feel
Im too scared of being ridiculed or not taken seriously to even try

Sorry for the late reply things got a little complicated at home.
Firstly i understand how you feel about being scared to tell them as it is hard to let other people know how you feel especially if your unsure about how they will take it however its alright perhaps try spending more time with them if you can and maybe try talking to them more is doesn't have to be about how you feel it can just be little conversations at time which will help strengthen the bond between you all and i know it's difficult however don't be scared to try as well all have feelings and im sure at some point or other they might have felt the same way before although it okay im sure they will just want what is best for you and they won't joke about it however no one is forcing you to tell them but try to remember that they do love you sometimes it might seem hard for them to show it however they do and you will always have a place in their hearts and nothing can ever change that fact and i know it might seem daunting to tell people how you feel but its okay as it might help not having it locked up anymore however they do care about you even when it seems hard to believe they do so try to keep going and keep making them proud because your a wonderful person and they are proud of you for how far you have gotten however they wouldn't want you feeling like this just because of them and i hope this helps you a little try to do your best as no one expects anything more of you :)
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Young and Beautiful » Sat Aug 29, 2015 12:44 pm

۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ wrote:
Young and Beautiful wrote:
I just feel like I'm an annoyance sometimes towards people, and then I distance myself. I just don't know anymore >.<

Your not an annoyance to people if anything your everything opposite to an annoyance as you really are wonderful and fantastic in every way possible and you have made so many people out there happy and smiling so try not to pull yourself down as you don't know how lovely you are and you always have been and i know sometimes its difficult to talk to someone when you feel like this however don't be afraid to talk to anyone as your an amazing individual and others would be glad to talk to you so try not to distance yourself and take things at a slow steady pace in getting closer to others as you deserve a chance to shine just as much as anyone and no one can ever take that away and no matter what happens try to remember that you are and always will be loved for just being you so never change for anyone as your brilliant the way you are and yes you might have your flaws however everyone does so don't hide away because of them as no one is perfect and you are more loved than you realize you angel try not to pull yourself down and keep being that kindhearted and loving person that i know you are and if you might like you could always pm me if you might want to talk about it i hope this helps a little :)


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Young and Beautiful wrote:
I just feel like I'm an annoyance sometimes towards people, and then I distance myself. I just don't know anymore >.<


Do me a favour - don't distance yourself from anyone you enjoy to be with. Who cares if they get annoyed at you? You don't live for what they think c:

Walk your own path and let them talk. What can they do to you? If they are the type of people who would get easily annoyed, then they aren't people you would want to be with.

Thank you both so much, I'm just under so much stress lately and feel like no one has time for me or even wants to talk ;-;
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Guest » Sat Aug 29, 2015 1:36 pm

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