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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby venteux » Fri Aug 28, 2015 11:20 am

ah.
my friend, H, recently found her old friend, M, online.
now, m was never really that.. friendly with me. she tried to turn h against me and was always really rude. this was a while ago but it bothered me that h seemed to like her more.
m tries to be nice to me online, but I can tell she doesn't like me. she wants to meet up with h, and not to be selfish, but I don't want them to become as close again because I'll just end up getting left behind. I can't talk to h about this because she'll be angry... I mean, I want to try to become friends with m but it just won't work. she's probably jealous that me and h hang out now, so I feel like she'd dislike me even more.
I'm just really upset and I feel so bad for being selfish.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Fri Aug 28, 2015 11:21 am

YOURCOLDCITYGIRL wrote:
I have a math quiz tomorrow and this is my chance to bring my grade back up so I'm studying right now but I'm so scared that I won't be able to do well :?

I understand how you feel however try not to worry about it too much and just do the best you can as no one expects anything more than that or ever will your a wonderful and fantastic individual and i know it can be stressful however no matter what grade you get you will always have the chance to have a brilliant and bright future ahead of you and nothing can ever take that away from you and i understand that your scared however perhaps take a little break from studying and maybe listen to some music and don't forget to drink perhaps some water as it might help you concentrate better and keep you hydrated however if you feel like its getting too much it's alright to take a break your doing brilliantly well and i know it's hard but try not to doubt yourself as your capable of doing so much more than you think and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it however don't give up as it will always be worth it in the end no matter what grade you get as at least you tried and that's what matters most :)


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ah.
my friend, H, recently found her old friend, M, online.
now, m was never really that.. friendly with me. she tried to turn h against me and was always really rude. this was a while ago but it bothered me that h seemed to like her more.
m tries to be nice to me online, but I can tell she doesn't like me. she wants to meet up with h, and not to be selfish, but I don't want them to become as close again because I'll just end up getting left behind. I can't talk to h about this because she'll be angry... I mean, I want to try to become friends with m but it just won't work. she's probably jealous that me and h hang out now, so I feel like she'd dislike me even more.
I'm just really upset and I feel so bad for being selfish.

Your not being selfish your just a little protective however it's perfectly understandable to feel that way about someone who is close to you and even more so because of what happened before however try not to be scared of talking to H about it as im sure she will understand how you feel and will try her best to work things out i don't think she will be angry with you as after all your a wonderful friend to her and you will always have a place in her heart and nothing can ever change that however try not to hide how you really feel from her as im sure she would never want you to feel like this and will understand why you feel this way however don't be worried about M trying to take H away from you because all of those wonderful and brilliant memories you have had with her can never be replaced by M and nothing can ever change that fact and just because M has been found doesn't mean all of those precious memories will be lost as you will always be her friend and i know its hard to stand by while these things happen however you don't have to do nothing about it perhaps try to spend a little more time with H or maybe spend time all together as a three and maybe try to talk things over with M however no matter what happens try not to doubt yourself your a fantastic and loving friend and she is lucky to have you as a friend and after all of that time she wont leave you and if you might like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it however try not to worry about it too much as you are and always will be loved and you wont be forgotten no matter what happens i hope this helps a little you wonderful star :)
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby -Obsidian » Fri Aug 28, 2015 11:47 am

YOURCOLDCITYGIRL wrote:
I have a math quiz tomorrow and this is my chance to bring my grade back up so I'm studying right now but I'm so scared that I won't be able to do well :?


It's good that you're revising; everything you learn now will help tomorrow. Make sure you have everything you need (calculator, compass, protractor or whatever) beforehand, so you don't have any last-minute panics. When answering questions, put down working (even if you're not sure if it's right, since more marks are awarded for calculations and formulae than the answer itself). Most importantly, get some sleep between now and then, don't try and stay up all night studying!
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ♥kittyfaith2210♥ » Fri Aug 28, 2015 12:16 pm

I'm crying
I'm supposed to be on my chromebook for school
But I finished what I could and my dad got mad
and now he might punish me
and I'm literally crying
I need a hug
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Fri Aug 28, 2015 12:25 pm

kittyfaith2210 wrote:I'm crying
I'm supposed to be on my chromebook for school
But I finished what I could and my dad got mad
and now he might punish me
and I'm literally crying
I need a hug

Don't cry i understand perfectly how you feel however you did your best and that's what matters most and you pushed yourself to try your best so don't let him bring you down i know that people can expect so much of others and there so busy looking at what they haven't done that they forget to see what they have done believe me i know how you feel however try to remember that your a wonderful and hard working person and you shouldn't let him make you doubt yourself as your a brilliant and fantastic person and i hope he realizes how lucky he is to have such a hard working and wonderful person to be around him and i know its difficult however im proud of you for how hard you have worked and how dedicated you have been so don't let him ruin your feeling and let yourself feel proud of what you have done because you really are amazing and you do deserve more praise however don't give up for him i know it can be hard to notice however he is proud of you it might be hard for him to express however he is and he still loves you perhaps tell him how you feel even if he wont listen just tell him let your feelings out and don't let him convince you to hide away as you deserve a chance to shine just as much as anyone and if you would like you could always pm me however don't cry im proud of you for working so hard and it will be worth it in the end you wonderful star don't stop shining bright
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby spring. » Fri Aug 28, 2015 1:34 pm

      so, yea i'm casually having an anxiety attack. asked a close friend to call me to help talk me down. that was an hour ago. anxiety got worse. it's gone for now, but it'll keep me up. I talked to him two nights ago, and he and i talked each other down. now, when i need him most, he doesn't answer despite saying he'd be here for me. i texted another friend of mine asking to talk me down. they didn't respond either.

      i'm sorry, i didn't know you were allowed to pick when you cared? I've been having anxiety through the roof for the past three hours. all i ask is a phone call. i can't get that? i know he's up looking at his phone. i'm on the verge of tears because this attack is so long. it won't just go away. it dies down but then it just flares back up again and everyone i care about is across the country and i just can't deal with it.

      i need someone. someone physical to hold onto when i get anxiety. sometimes a voice helps but i need that physical contact. i'm in a strange place, and i don't feel comfortable crying yet, otherwise i'd do that. it's all... it's too much.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Fri Aug 28, 2015 1:44 pm

spring. wrote:
      so, yea i'm casually having an anxiety attack. asked a close friend to call me to help talk me down. that was an hour ago. anxiety got worse. it's gone for now, but it'll keep me up. I talked to him two nights ago, and he and i talked each other down. now, when i need him most, he doesn't answer despite saying he'd be here for me. i texted another friend of mine asking to talk me down. they didn't respond either.

      i'm sorry, i didn't know you were allowed to pick when you cared? I've been having anxiety through the roof for the past three hours. all i ask is a phone call. i can't get that? i know he's up looking at his phone. i'm on the verge of tears because this attack is so long. it won't just go away. it dies down but then it just flares back up again and everyone i care about is across the country and i just can't deal with it.

      i need someone. someone physical to hold onto when i get anxiety. sometimes a voice helps but i need that physical contact. i'm in a strange place, and i don't feel comfortable crying yet, otherwise i'd do that. it's all... it's too much.

I understand and im sorry that he's treating you this way as you deserve far better treatment however try not to give up as no one would ever want to see you like this and he might be unable to reply despite looking at his phone as perhaps something might be keeping him busy however try not to worry about him too much as it might make you feel worse and he will reply eventually so try to keep going i know its difficult for you right now however you don't have to go through this alone and you could always pm me if you might like someone to talk to however try not to think about him im sure he still cares about you and loves you and he is still by your side and he still cares for you i know this might seem hard to believe at the moment but he does and he wouldn't ever want to see you like this and all of those times he looked after you before is because he loves and cares about you and nothing can ever change that fact and if you feel like you might cry it's alright as it might make you feel better to let it all out however maybe listen to some calm relaxing music and perhaps take a moment to yourself and maybe if you can open a window to let some fresh air in as it might make you feel a little better and more refreshed im sorry that your going through all this as you deserve to be happy unconditionally however your a wonderful and fantastic person and i know its difficult for you right now however it wont always be this way as long as you keep going and keep fighting as you can beat this and you can get past this and no matter what happens try to remember that you are and always will be loved and nothing can ever change that your a brilliant person and im sure that they will realize how lucky they are to have such a fantastic person as their friend and i hope this helps you a little maybe have a hot drink if you like them as it might help you relax a little and it sounds typical but take deep breaths as it might help you calm down a little ;-;
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby fish sticks » Fri Aug 28, 2015 2:04 pm

three hours of band practice. I have blisters on my feet, I'm tired, and sore, and I just want to be happy for once today. Instead I am greeted with a recording my older sister (whom I once respected and looked up to before I was ultimately betrayed) took of my really dumb laugh. It's really embarrassing and I hate her for it. Now mom is gonna yell at me for a while because I was eating and I smell like crap. Not to mention I'm really lonely because I have no friends because no one likes me. I am boring, excessively clingy, have a terrible personality, snap at random and unnatural times, and I'm just really annoying all around. Why can't I just be respected for once in my life and find a good friend? I don't care if it's on CS or irl, I just want someone who respects me and shares similar interests with me...
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ProudHufflepuff » Fri Aug 28, 2015 2:15 pm

I've been better....happier with myself and my life, being more social and active.....but now I just wanna cry...for no real reason....again....
I've been able to wear makeup more lately and its helped me be more confident and when I went to the beach I felt more confident as well. Even today, not wearing the most flattering clothes and no make up at all I felt pretty good. I finally felt like I was able to pull off this look....and idk what's wrong but while I still feel like I look pretty good, I also feel really ugly and gross at the same time....and all of a sudden almost all of my happiness has just disappeared and I feel really lonely and ugly and useless and everything and I just wanna cry....I thought I was done with this
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Fri Aug 28, 2015 2:18 pm

Hakku wrote:
three hours of band practice. I have blisters on my feet, I'm tired, and sore, and I just want to be happy for once today. Instead I am greeted with a recording my older sister (whom I once respected and looked up to before I was ultimately betrayed) took of my really dumb laugh. It's really embarrassing and I hate her for it. Now mom is gonna yell at me for a while because I was eating and I smell like crap. Not to mention I'm really lonely because I have no friends because no one likes me. I am boring, excessively clingy, have a terrible personality, snap at random and unnatural times, and I'm just really annoying all around. Why can't I just be respected for once in my life and find a good friend? I don't care if it's on CS or irl, I just want someone who respects me and shares similar interests with me...

I understand how you feel however try not to bring yourself down as you try so hard and deserve so much better respect and you always have however don't let other people get to you as your more wonderful than you think and you always have been and i know you might not think all that much of yourself however you really are brilliant and fantastic and amazingly hard working and you should be proud to be who you are as you are more lovely than you could ever imagine and it's okay to have different interests to other people however it doesn't make you boring at all it makes you unique and its perfectly fine to be you unique as everyone is different in our own little ways however in-between the differences we do have something in common it's just the case of finding the people who do have something in common with you and i know it can be difficult to find them however maybe join a club that reflects your personality and what you like as it might make it easier to find people with the same interests as you and perhaps make it easier to talk to other people and i understand that you can snap at people however it's perfectly natural and nothing to be ashamed of as we all snap at times when we feel like its getting too much and we all have different limits however it doesn't make you a bad person nor ever will so try not to feel guilty about it and don't let yourself bring yourself down because you are and always will be loved for just being who you are and nothing can ever change that fact and your not annoying your wonderful and brilliant and i know it's hard for you to believe however your are respected and always will be even when you feel like your not there will always be people out there who respects and accepts you for just being you and i might not be much however if you would like you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it as for your mom try not to worry about her too much if your hungry you have every right to eat and im sure you will be able to get washed up later on once you have relaxed a little as for your feet being sore perhaps get some plasters and maybe take a painkiller if you feel like the pain is bugging you too much as it might help you ease some stress however no matter what happens never give up as your doing wonderfully well and you have got so far however you can finish this as long as you keep going and keep trying also maybe have a little rest and maybe have a hot drink if you like them to help you relax if your tired also don't let your sister get to you as your so much better than that and you always have been and i hope this helps a little as you deserve to be happy unconditionally


ProudHufflepuff wrote:I've been better....happier with myself and my life, being more social and active.....but now I just wanna cry...for no real reason....again....
I've been able to wear makeup more lately and its helped me be more confident and when I went to the beach I felt more confident as well. Even today, not wearing the most flattering clothes and no make up at all I felt pretty good. I finally felt like I was able to pull off this look....and idk what's wrong but while I still feel like I look pretty good, I also feel really ugly and gross at the same time....and all of a sudden almost all of my happiness has just disappeared and I feel really lonely and ugly and useless and everything and I just wanna cry....I thought I was done with this

It's okay i understand however try not to pull yourself down as you are beautiful and you always have been and i know its hard to feel proud of who you are sometimes i know this feeling very well however try not to doubt yourself as you have done so well and have been so strong and its hard to feel good about yourself i know but you have to look beyond your flaws and accept them for what they are and try not to think of anyone being any better than you as other people will always have their flaws as well and wont be perfect your a wonderful and beautiful individual and it okay to feel a little down now and again as no one is strong forever although you don't have to go through this alone as you could always pm me if you might like to talk about it however never change for anyone because your brilliant and fantastic the way you are and you always have been and nothing can ever change that and your not useless your more lovely than you think and no matter what happens try to remember that you are and always will be loved for who and how you are and it's good that you have been feeling happier about yourself however try not to give up now and keep fighting to keep that feeling going and don't listen to any of the doubts that you have about yourself because i can assure you that your so much better than you think and you always have been and i hope that this makes you feel a little better never stop shining bright you wonderful star :)
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