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[VintageSongBird]

HELP HELP HELP

ok, so, i like this guy that goes to my church, he is two years older (and two grades). we are both in youth choir there. ive had a crush on this guy for over a year now. i think he might like me back, but i dont know anything about guys so maybe not. anyway, he graduated this year and he will be going out of state very soon. i dont know him all that well though and i would like to get to know him better.we do talk sometimes, and we enjoy talking, but i dont see him outside of church, and i dont really know anything about him, other than personality. Is it pointless to tell him how i feel since he is leaving? or should i go for it even though he is? i think about him all the time and when i see him my face gets hot and i get butterflies in my stomach. I really dont want to regret not finding out if there is really something there you know? should i tell him? and if yes, how? I really need help so please, someone answer.

Plz help

Is he moving away permanently, or is he only leaving temporarily? My advice would be to tell him you like him if the move is only temporary (i.e. less than one year) and just do your best to move on if he is leaving permanently. A relationship that starts out long-distance and has no clear date when the couple can reunite is basically dead in the water.

Im not sure. its for college, so it will be a few years, but im not sure if he plans on visiting home every once in a while or not. but the thing is,ive had this crush for a very long time, and i think i feel really strongly about this guy, and im not sure i want distance to be a make it or break it deal...

[blue neighbourhood]

HELP HELP HELP

ok, so, i like this guy that goes to my church, he is two years older (and two grades). we are both in youth choir there. ive had a crush on this guy for over a year now. i think he might like me back, but i dont know anything about guys so maybe not. anyway, he graduated this year and he will be going out of state very soon. i dont know him all that well though and i would like to get to know him better.we do talk sometimes, and we enjoy talking, but i dont see him outside of church, and i dont really know anything about him, other than personality. Is it pointless to tell him how i feel since he is leaving? or should i go for it even though he is? i think about him all the time and when i see him my face gets hot and i get butterflies in my stomach. I really dont want to regret not finding out if there is really something there you know? should i tell him? and if yes, how? I really need help so please, someone answer.

Is he moving away permanently, or is he only leaving temporarily? My advice would be to tell him you like him if the move is only temporary (i.e. less than one year) and just do your best to move on if he is leaving permanently. A relationship that starts out long-distance and has no clear date when the couple can reunite is basically dead in the water.

Im not sure. its for college, so it will be a few years, but im not sure if he plans on visiting home every once in a while or not. but the thing is,ive had this crush for a very long time, and i think i feel really strongly about this guy, and im not sure i want distance to be a make it or break it deal...

Maybe ask him for his number/Skype? Make it act chilled out like it's no big deal, or say something along the lines of, "Hey! Since you're moving soon, would you like my number?"
Or something
I can't give good advice I'm sorry ;w;

[Emma Swan]

I'm so upset... I broke my phone this morning, so I haven't been able to contact my crush. I hope he hasn't been texting me and thinking I'm ignoring him. I see him in an hour and a half, I hope he is understanding.

[Bunnyhop627]

I've had two crushes, since I had been very young-for years now. When they walk by me in the hallway, I start lushing badly and stare. But if they found out- I'd die. Just, I've always been nerdy kind of, and I always ebarass myself. Once I was to busy staring at him while trying to open a door, I store at him and I couldn't open the door.

[wicked;]

I've had two crushes, since I had been very young-for years now. When they walk by me in the hallway, I start lushing badly and stare. But if they found out- I'd die. Just, I've always been nerdy kind of, and I always ebarass myself. Once I was to busy staring at him while trying to open a door, I store at him and I couldn't open the door.

just remember you're not going to end up with both of them. if you like both of them and can't choose, i don't know what else to tell you, but that getting into a relationship with either one would be toxic. if you are subject to having feelings for another person, they may not be the best people to have your eyes on. it'll just end badly.

[owl0430]

--if anyone remembers me, last time i posted i was asking about how to ask out the guy i liked, sense i was not sure if he likes me back or not.i took the advice and asked if he wanted to hang out sometime.he said sure.now i need to know a few things.
A.could it be a sign he likes me?
B.how do i 'hand out' with him?
c.what do we talk about?
d.what if its during shcool lunch and he is hanging with his friends.(who are not girls like me)

I Would Really Like It If someone would reply to this already.i have gotten nothing, and this is my second time quoting.most people have replied to the same persons problem repeatedly.not being rude, just saying i feel like people think there is no point in answering my problem.)

[anathema]

i'm gonna see my crush in four days from tomorrow and i'm scared that i'm going to act all awkward. i haven't seen her in almost two months and we texted about deep things and if she confronts me about them i won't know what to do. also, she may know that i like her. >w< what do i say if she talks about either things, and any other tips for when i see her? thanks.

[Bunnyhop627]

i'm gonna see my crush in four days from tomorrow and i'm scared that i'm going to act all awkward. i haven't seen her in almost two months and we texted about deep things and if she confronts me about them i won't know what to do. also, she may know that i like her. >w< what do i say if she talks about either things, and any other tips for when i see her? thanks.

I'm a girl, myself, hopefully this is helpful:

~If you texted deep stuff, try to avoid it.
~Don't try too hard to impress her, be yourself.
~Just try to make the conversation flow by maybe starting out with similarities.

[vulture,]

--if anyone remembers me, last time i posted i was asking about how to ask out the guy i liked, sense i was not sure if he likes me back or not.i took the advice and asked if he wanted to hang out sometime.he said sure.now i need to know a few things.
A.could it be a sign he likes me?
B.how do i 'hand out' with him?
c.what do we talk about?
d.what if its during shcool lunch and he is hanging with his friends.(who are not girls like me)

I Would Really Like It If someone would reply to this already.i have gotten nothing, and this is my second time quoting.most people have replied to the same persons problem repeatedly.not being rude, just saying i feel like people think there is no point in answering my problem.)

Okay, I'm gonna be real simple and tell you why you haven't gotten a response: we can't answer any of these questions. Hanging out could mean a whole array of things. Who knows if he likes you or not. Sure, it could be a sign, by it could also mean he likes you as a friend. That alone is no way to tell. Again, there is no one way to "hang out". It's an extremely selective term. Some people's hanging out is going out, some is staying in, some people just talk, others may enjoy silence. It's completely subjective. What you talk about is another thing we can't help with. You don't want to be reading from a paper, sounding like a robot. Just talk about whatever comes up, you shouldn't have to force a conversation with then, it should be natural. If he's with friends, then big whoop, his friends are a part of his life that you'd have to be comfortable with too. He may be uncomfortable and feel better having them for support. If he does do that, let him know it bothered you, but keep an open mind.

[howell.lester]

--if anyone remembers me, last time i posted i was asking about how to ask out the guy i liked, sense i was not sure if he likes me back or not.i took the advice and asked if he wanted to hang out sometime.he said sure.now i need to know a few things.
A.could it be a sign he likes me?
B.how do i 'hand out' with him?
c.what do we talk about?
d.what if its during shcool lunch and he is hanging with his friends.(who are not girls like me)

I Would Really Like It If someone would reply to this already.i have gotten nothing, and this is my second time quoting.most people have replied to the same persons problem repeatedly.not being rude, just saying i feel like people think there is no point in answering my problem.)

i'm in no way an expert, but i'll try to help?

1. you really won't know that until you hang out with him and see how he acts around you. 'hanging out' is very vague and anything could happen - i hang out with my friends but that doesn't mean i have a crush on them. then again, he could always be asking because he wants to get closer to you. all i can say is the more time you spend with it, the clearer it will be whether he likes you or just wants to be friends.

2. does he have something planned? if not, the concept of 'hanging out' is very easy although it might not be as easy when you're doing it. what do you normally do with your friends? question answered, hang out as friends and see where it goes on from there. if you're stuck for ideas, just do something simple. go for a walk, go to his house or let him come to yours and you can play video games or watch a movie or anything really that you'd enjoy. if you don't feel comfortable being alone with him just yet, invite a few or your friends and his friends along too so you both have some support.

3. anything and everything. try and find something you have in common, like games or music or something. if you can't even hold a decent conversation with him, i wouldn't suggest being anything more than friends. important advice - do not try to pretend to be someone you're not or like something you don't because it will turn out very awkward in the end

4. try and get to know his friends too, if you can. if you're going to want to be around him a lot more, you need to be comfortable with the fact that he has other friends.