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[Totty]

How does someone deal with someone's death when all they can do is think over and over about what could have been changed to make a different outcome. ;-;

Whatever it is, I'm sure it's not you're fault. Just know that whoever has passed is now watching over you, no matter what you do. That person will always like and love you. That person is now safe. It's not your fault, nobody's perfect. If you feel like crying, for me it always helps to let it out. Stay strong. Praying for you <3 ( Sorry if I didn't help much. Just letting you know- it's not your fault <3 ))

[Young and Beautiful]

How does someone deal with someone's death when all they can do is think over and over about what could have been changed to make a different outcome.
;-;

I understand how you feel however try to remember that ethier way no matter the result they would never want you to be upset because of them and they would always want you to carry on being that wonderful and fantastic person that you are no matter what happens and they would want you to keep providing the day with love and wonderment like you always have and even if you may not be able to see them it doesn't mean that they are gone because they will always be in your heart and they will always love you and they are proud of how far you have come so don't give up I know it can be hard but you could always pm me if you would like

How does someone deal with someone's death when all they can do is think over and over about what could have been changed to make a different outcome. ;-;

Whatever it is, I'm sure it's not you're fault. Just know that whoever has passed is now watching over you, no matter what you do. That person will always like and love you. That person is now safe. It's not your fault, nobody's perfect. If you feel like crying, for me it always helps to let it out. Stay strong. Praying for you <3 ( Sorry if I didn't help much. Just letting you know- it's not your fault <3 ))

Thank you both so much. It's just so hard to lose someone, even though you may have not known them well, just knowing that such a young person was taken from their life so early is just terrible.
And I know I probably couldn't do anything to change what has happened, but I wish they knew how much they will be missed /.\

[Tomura]

Honestly I really need comfort right now. I've been hiding my sadness by, in my trade rules, shouting that I've been feeling "peachy." Really, that was just because of the candy event. But it seems that I've been doing almost all the work, and no one seems to appreciate it. I'm sick of my little brother taking his diaper off constantly -- he's running through a whole package of diapers in the matter of two to three days because of it.

And, although my birthday would be really fun and I'd be extremely excited for it, the only reason I'm even slightly excited for it is because ny brother is taking that day off. But I'm obviously not going to get anything for my birthday, because my parents, upon saying that there were two birthdays that week, asked, "whose birthday is that?" In a serious, non joking way.

So they don't care at all. Even if they did, I still wouldn't get anything, simply because not only is my step-father's birthday in the same week, but his and my mother's wedding anniversary is as well. They won't even be bothered to buy me anything on their trips to the grocery store with my own money because they want to "quickly go and get back home." Then it turns out that they took several hours to get everything, and bought a whole ton of junk food for themselves.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

Honestly I really need comfort right now. I've been hiding my sadness by, in my trade rules, shouting that I've been feeling "peachy." Really, that was just because of the candy event. But it seems that I've been doing almost all the work, and no one seems to appreciate it. I'm sick of my little brother taking his diaper off constantly -- he's running through a whole package of diapers in the matter of two to three days because of it.

And, although my birthday would be really fun and I'd be extremely excited for it, the only reason I'm even slightly excited for it is because ny brother is taking that day off. But I'm obviously not going to get anything for my birthday, because my parents, upon saying that there were two birthdays that week, asked, "whose birthday is that?" In a serious, non joking way.

So they don't care at all. Even if they did, I still wouldn't get anything, simply because not only is my step-father's birthday in the same week, but his and my mother's wedding anniversary is as well. They won't even be bothered to buy me anything on their trips to the grocery store with my own money because they want to "quickly go and get back home." Then it turns out that they took several hours to get everything, and bought a whole ton of junk food for themselves.

You shouldn't hide your feelings away I understand it can be hard however if you feel sad don't force yourself to put on a smile as sometimes it might make yourself more stressed hiding it than it will showing it and I know it may feel like your not appreciated but you are even when you doubt it believe me you are because your wonderful and fantastic in every way possible and appreciation is really the very least you deserve and I'm proud of you for always trying so hard you deserve the world for your efforts truly and your a brilliant sister for putting up with your brother and trying to help him as I understand it may seem annoying at times however don't give up because he still needs and loves you and he does appreciate your efforts to help him and as for your birthday I'm sure they will remember its just that week seems a little busy but they will remember and even if you don't get anything I'm sure you will get a few gifts here on cs because we care about you as a community and we love you no matter what happens so don't give up because you deserve to have a wonderful and fantastic birthday as for the shopping I'm sorry they are like this perhaps next time when they go you could go with them and treat yourself to everything you wanted and if they complain just tell them its your own money and you can spend it how you want to and spoil yourself rotten because someone as wonderful and fantastic as you deserves to be treated and always will and perhaps if you would like you could always pm me if you would like to talk however try to remember that you are and always will be loved here no matter what

[undefined realities]

Honestly I really need comfort right now. I've been hiding my sadness by, in my trade rules, shouting that I've been feeling "peachy." Really, that was just because of the candy event. But it seems that I've been doing almost all the work, and no one seems to appreciate it. I'm sick of my little brother taking his diaper off constantly -- he's running through a whole package of diapers in the matter of two to three days because of it.

And, although my birthday would be really fun and I'd be extremely excited for it, the only reason I'm even slightly excited for it is because ny brother is taking that day off. But I'm obviously not going to get anything for my birthday, because my parents, upon saying that there were two birthdays that week, asked, "whose birthday is that?" In a serious, non joking way.

So they don't care at all. Even if they did, I still wouldn't get anything, simply because not only is my step-father's birthday in the same week, but his and my mother's wedding anniversary is as well. They won't even be bothered to buy me anything on their trips to the grocery store with my own money because they want to "quickly go and get back home." Then it turns out that they took several hours to get everything, and bought a whole ton of junk food for themselves.

Please don't hid your sadness. If you hold it in, one day you're going to fall apart, and it won't be good for anyone, including yourself. I wouldn't want you to fall apart. As for diapers, you should begin scolding him for it, so he knows it's wrong. Otherwise, he's just going to continue doing it.
I'm so sorry to hear about your birthday. I may gift you some pets, if you're interested for your birthday so you could get something. I know how annoying, and even saddening it could be to be over-looked, ignored, and forgotten. I won't forget. I hope your birthday brings you some, even a little joy.
-falling

[Tomura]

Honestly I really need comfort right now. I've been hiding my sadness by, in my trade rules, shouting that I've been feeling "peachy." Really, that was just because of the candy event. But it seems that I've been doing almost all the work, and no one seems to appreciate it. I'm sick of my little brother taking his diaper off constantly -- he's running through a whole package of diapers in the matter of two to three days because of it.

And, although my birthday would be really fun and I'd be extremely excited for it, the only reason I'm even slightly excited for it is because ny brother is taking that day off. But I'm obviously not going to get anything for my birthday, because my parents, upon saying that there were two birthdays that week, asked, "whose birthday is that?" In a serious, non joking way.

So they don't care at all. Even if they did, I still wouldn't get anything, simply because not only is my step-father's birthday in the same week, but his and my mother's wedding anniversary is as well. They won't even be bothered to buy me anything on their trips to the grocery store with my own money because they want to "quickly go and get back home." Then it turns out that they took several hours to get everything, and bought a whole ton of junk food for themselves.

You shouldn't hide your feelings away I understand it can be hard however if you feel sad don't force yourself to put on a smile as sometimes it might make yourself more stressed hiding it than it will showing it and I know it may feel like your not appreciated but you are even when you doubt it believe me you are because your wonderful and fantastic in every way possible and appreciation is really the very least you deserve and I'm proud of you for always trying so hard you deserve the world for your efforts truly and your a brilliant sister for putting up with your brother and trying to help him as I understand it may seem annoying at times however don't give up because he still needs and loves you and he does appreciate your efforts to help him and as for your birthday I'm sure they will remember its just that week seems a little busy but they will remember and even if you don't get anything I'm sure you will get a few gifts here on cs because we care about you as a community and we love you no matter what happens so don't give up because you deserve to have a wonderful and fantastic birthday as for the shopping I'm sorry they are like this perhaps next time when they go you could go with them and treat yourself to everything you wanted and if they complain just tell them its your own money and you can spend it how you want to and spoil yourself rotten because someone as wonderful and fantastic as you deserves to be treated and always will and perhaps if you would like you could always pm me if you would like to talk however try to remember that you are and always will be loved here no matter what :)

Honestly I really need comfort right now. I've been hiding my sadness by, in my trade rules, shouting that I've been feeling "peachy." Really, that was just because of the candy event. But it seems that I've been doing almost all the work, and no one seems to appreciate it. I'm sick of my little brother taking his diaper off constantly -- he's running through a whole package of diapers in the matter of two to three days because of it.

And, although my birthday would be really fun and I'd be extremely excited for it, the only reason I'm even slightly excited for it is because ny brother is taking that day off. But I'm obviously not going to get anything for my birthday, because my parents, upon saying that there were two birthdays that week, asked, "whose birthday is that?" In a serious, non joking way.

So they don't care at all. Even if they did, I still wouldn't get anything, simply because not only is my step-father's birthday in the same week, but his and my mother's wedding anniversary is as well. They won't even be bothered to buy me anything on their trips to the grocery store with my own money because they want to "quickly go and get back home." Then it turns out that they took several hours to get everything, and bought a whole ton of junk food for themselves.

Please don't hid your sadness. If you hold it in, one day you're going to fall apart, and it won't be good for anyone, including yourself. I wouldn't want you to fall apart. As for diapers, you should begin scolding him for it, so he knows it's wrong. Otherwise, he's just going to continue doing it.
I'm so sorry to hear about your birthday. I may gift you some pets, if you're interested for your birthday so you could get something. I know how annoying, and even saddening it could be to be over-looked, ignored, and forgotten. I won't forget. I hope your birthday brings you some, even a little joy.
-falling

Thank you both so much for replying. It means a lot to know that some people care about me. I wish I could say the same for my parents, but I guess I'm not exactly sure if they care about me. Sometimes my mother says she wishes I were never born, when she's not even mad at me, because she says that "every time she argues with my step-father, it's because of me and my siblings," and that "they could live in peace if I weren't there."

But you both are amazing people, thank you. <3

[Guest]

I'm too crazy. I'm too violent. I'm crying.
I just don't know how to deal with it anymore. My younger sister does more work than me and I can't seem to handle any more, I'm so lazy, stupid, selfish, I just hate myself right now. I can't put it into words.
I was a mistake...

[Chrysalism]

I'm too crazy. I'm too violent. I'm crying.
I just don't know how to deal with it anymore. My younger sister does more work than me and I can't seem to handle any more, I'm so lazy, stupid, selfish, I just hate myself right now. I can't put it into words.
I was a mistake...

Don't say that.
You are who you are - don't try to change yourself or hate yourself because of that.
You are a wonderful, amazing, beautiful person, and you are loved dearly. You're one of a kind and unique - there is no one else on earth like you. No one. Not. Even. One. There will never be anyone like you. So, instead of thinking how much you hate yourself, think about how you're one of a kind and wonderful. You're not a mistake, you're here for everyone who loves you. What would they do without you?
Now, I normally don't try to comfort people here, as I'm bad as it, but this one really caught my attention, as I struggle with the same things.
Please, please don't ever hate yourself.
You are amazing, you're unique, you're loved, and you sure are NOT a mistake.
If you ever need anything, don't hesitate to PM me. ♥
You are wonderful.
-Wolfie

[MidniteScy]

I'm too crazy. I'm too violent. I'm crying.
I just don't know how to deal with it anymore. My younger sister does more work than me and I can't seem to handle any more, I'm so lazy, stupid, selfish, I just hate myself right now. I can't put it into words.
I was a mistake...

I realize half the words you used described me. XD I'm lazy, I'm dumb, I'm violent, and random. But I figure I'm pretty dependable, and honest and trustworthy. If you look hard enough, you can always find something good about yourself because for every bad thing in life, there's ought to be a good one.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I'm too crazy. I'm too violent. I'm crying.
I just don't know how to deal with it anymore. My younger sister does more work than me and I can't seem to handle any more, I'm so lazy, stupid, selfish, I just hate myself right now. I can't put it into words.
I was a mistake...

Your not a mistake and you never have been or ever will be and iv seen how much you gift people and how many smiles you provide people throughout there day and you really do make their day so much happier and your not Selfish or stupid your wonderful and fantastic in every way possible and I hope you realise this soon because you are and always will be loved no matter what happens and sometimes things do get a little hard to handle and we do start to break however it's natural and nothing to be ashamed of and we all have our flaws but no one is perfect we will all have our flaws but you don't have to hide away from them so please don't give up because I and so many others love and care about you and we won't give up on you because you deserve the world and beyond and you could always pm me if you would like