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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby fruitbat » Fri Jul 24, 2015 10:47 pm

        I've been having problems sleeping.
        its been really hard for me to get out of bed, and it just ruins my mornings. I feel miserable, tired and just
        very unmotivated to do anything. the worse is I am scared that i'll loose my friends due to the fact I wont
        be exciting enough for them.

        I have tried to go to bed earlier (around 10-10:30) but I just wake up at around 3am, and I wont be able to
        go back to sleep. so then a few nights ago I went to bed around 11, and I just woke up as groggy as I would
        if I went to bed at 12. my normal time to go to bed is around 12, which allows me to get 5-6 hours of sleep,
        depending on when I wake up.

        im really not happy with myself at the moment because whenever im in this crappy mood. would it be best
        if I speak to someone about this or just try to go to bed earlier?
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Fri Jul 24, 2015 11:57 pm

queen rena. wrote:
      i wish my parents didnt want to snoop around on my private stuff. i dont want them telling me what im doing wrong and what i shouldnt do. if i do something bad, its my fault. it was my decision to make a mistake to do bad things. im at the age where i can make my own decisions, i dont want my parents looking at what i mightve done bad and tell me not to do it or i dont want them to take control. i want them to leave my stuff alone and leave me alone about it. why so nosy? i hate it. i get so stressed out and i cry because im scared that they will dissaprove of who im friends with online and what i do. (i dont do REALLY bad things but still) i want my own privacy and i want to control my life and i dont want them to be the judge of what i do.

I understand how you feel and I know this can be annoying however it may be because they care about you and want to make sure nothing happens to you however I understand the fact that they could seem over protective however try not to let them get to you and keep making your own decisions because this is your life and nothing can ever change that and you can do what you like with your life however try to remember that they love you and care about you and if your unsure about what decisions to make you could always go to them because they do care about you no matter what happens and you could always pm me if you would like I hope that things get better between you all :)

River Blossom wrote:So today I put a rock in for my frog to climb on if he wants and I saw him on it before I went to play practice and when I got home he was dead under it. He somehow got crushed. I know he was in top of it before and I picked up the rock to see if he was hidding and while I was holding it I saw him squashed. He was my favorite..... I only had him two days and he died like every other pet I get. I'm surprised my cat has lasted since February. I feel like it is my fault for adding that rock I shouldn't have picked such a big one...... If I hadn't been stupid he would still be swimming in his pool or jumping around.


Don't blame yourself it wasn't your fault and we all make mistakes and you never intended for any of this to happen and you just wanted to make his life more interesting and fun and he respects that you cared about him and his life and he is grateful to have such a caring owner who always loved and cared for him however he would never want to see you like this he would always want to see you being that wonderful and amazing invidual that he adores and he wouldn't want you to be upset because of him or guilty and he still loves you no matter what and nothing can ever change that so try to keep smiling and not feel guilty because it wasn't your fault and he still loves you no matter what and you could always pm me if you would like

Precisely0220 wrote:Been having some troubles with the boyfriend recently. Sometimes he says stuff that really upsets me. He'll insult me about the way I am and he's always harsh about it. Luckily he never swears at me to be mean and he's never hit me. But sometimes I really want to say something back and make him hurt the way he hurts me. But I just can't find it in myself to do that to him. I know he cares about me though because when he's not being like that he's always looking out for me, trying to surprise me and make me happy. I've tried talking to him about not being mean and he'll always get upset and feel bad when I tell him how sad it makes me. But then he just ends up doing it again.


I understand how you feel however perhaps he says these things because he's under stress or sometimes people can't help saying these things however when he does try to leave him alone and have some time to yourself and don't talk to him until he Realises what he has done and has time to reflect upon his actions I know it can hard but perhaps ask him if everything is going okay and see if anything is troubling him or making him stressed I think your a wonderful and amazing individual to have stayed by his side and I'm sure he's trying his best to improve it might take a while but he does care about you and so do I so try not to let him get to you I'm sure he doesn't mean those things he says and he still loves you :)

galaxy cat ;; wrote:
        I've been having problems sleeping.
        its been really hard for me to get out of bed, and it just ruins my mornings. I feel miserable, tired and just
        very unmotivated to do anything. the worse is I am scared that i'll loose my friends due to the fact I wont
        be exciting enough for them.

        I have tried to go to bed earlier (around 10-10:30) but I just wake up at around 3am, and I wont be able to
        go back to sleep. so then a few nights ago I went to bed around 11, and I just woke up as groggy as I would
        if I went to bed at 12. my normal time to go to bed is around 12, which allows me to get 5-6 hours of sleep,
        depending on when I wake up.

        im really not happy with myself at the moment because whenever im in this crappy mood. would it be best
        if I speak to someone about this or just try to go to bed earlier?


Perhaps try something to help you sleep such as camomile tea as it helps you relax a little and get a good night sleep and there is also other tea's designed to help you sleep and perhaps you could listen to a audio book as it helps you relax and slowly let's you into the story while you sleep also in the morning perhaps listen to some upbeat music to help you get more motivated however you won't loose your friends no matter what happens they are your friends because they love you an nothing can ever change that and I think it might be a good idea if you told someone about this :)
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Chemicello » Sat Jul 25, 2015 1:27 am

I will be going away for a week tomorrow, I am so sorry I won't be here for you guys, I will be back soon, my inbox is always open so feel free to pm me in my absence, stay strong everyone, your in good hands with the other helpers here. I may have WiFi but I will be too busy to spend much time here x
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby undefined realities » Sat Jul 25, 2015 1:49 am

I too, will be leaving today on a trip. I'll be gone for 36 hours max, 10 hours min. But, in my absence (if you'd like) I'll always have my pm inbox open for those who need/ would like it. As soon as I get the wifi connection needed, I will reply to all pm's and be back here.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby tapestry » Sat Jul 25, 2015 2:47 am

Today i'm feeling really hurt and sad. I'm so sensitive, I really hate it. Maybe I should just leave, I don't like drama... I feel like everything is directed at me even though I know it's not. Am I a bad person? I'm getting afraid to speak because everyone tells me my opinions are wrong and snaps at me. I'm not allowed to think for myself anymore, I'm just supposed to follow the group and do what they do. I don't want to do that. I just want to be able to think for myself without pressure from friends and family. :(
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Guest » Sat Jul 25, 2015 2:50 am

Today is my last day in Georgia before I return home to Texas. I thought today would be a lot of fun, but here I am throwing up and feeling slightly dizzy all of a sudden. Well, this day certainly isn't off to a good start.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby undefined realities » Sat Jul 25, 2015 2:53 am

tapestry wrote:Today i'm feeling really hurt and sad. I'm so sensitive, I really hate it. Maybe I should just leave, I don't like drama... I feel like everything is directed at me even though I know it's not. Am I a bad person? I'm getting afraid to speak because everyone tells me my opinions are wrong and snaps at me. I'm not allowed to think for myself anymore, I'm just supposed to follow the group and do what they do. I don't want to do that. I just want to be able to think for myself without pressure from friends and family. :(

Honestly, the only thing i can think of is for you to just say 'you know what? i'm tired of following the group, and having everything directed at me when it's not me.' and just see what happens. i believe your true friends will stay and the fake ones will leave. your true ones will help, but your fake ones won't care. as for your family; all you could probably do is just tell them what's going on. and though it might be hard, it may be the only way to help fix it..
hope i helped!
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Sat Jul 25, 2015 2:57 am

tapestry wrote:Today i'm feeling really hurt and sad. I'm so sensitive, I really hate it. Maybe I should just leave, I don't like drama... I feel like everything is directed at me even though I know it's not. Am I a bad person? I'm getting afraid to speak because everyone tells me my opinions are wrong and snaps at me. I'm not allowed to think for myself anymore, I'm just supposed to follow the group and do what they do. I don't want to do that. I just want to be able to think for myself without pressure from friends and family. :(

Don't be scared it's okay to tell people how you feel and it might make you feel worse if you hide it away and you have every right to tell people how you feel and your not a bad person nor ever have been and if you feel like things are getting too much then perhaps have some time to yourself and let the others get by as it seems they are making you stressed and you deserve some time to think for yourself so don't let the others take this away from you and you don't have to follow the group if you don't want to no one can make you and you can always go your own way and If you would like to talk my pm box is always open :)

Busy Beards wrote:Today is my last day in Georgia before I return home to Texas. I thought today would be a lot of fun, but here I am throwing up and feeling slightly reinstall of a sudden. Well, this day certainly isn't off to a good start.


I know it can be hard but try to take things at your own pace and being sick literally might be a good thing as anything that made you ill is now out of your system and if you want to make the most out of your day you still could just take it at your own pace and perhaps if it hurts take a painkiller and a bottle of water with you and I hope that your day goes well remember you don't have to rush if you don't want to :)
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby undefined realities » Sat Jul 25, 2015 2:57 am

Busy Beards wrote:Today is my last day in Georgia before I return home to Texas. I thought today would be a lot of fun, but here I am throwing up and feeling slightly reinstall of a sudden. Well, this day certainly isn't off to a good start.

I'm sorry your day hasn't started well! I hope you feel better and everything goes as planned from here on out! You can get through it c:
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby ۵Ʋиιтʏ۵ » Sat Jul 25, 2015 8:18 am

junebug. wrote:Here's the deal... I am a TOTAL WIMP when it comes to taking teeth out. (Once I kept one in for 4 and a half months because I was scared it would hurt when I took it out) And very soon (I mean in like 2 days) I'll have to get a barely loose tooth taken out. I had one month to work on getting it out and I barely did anything! I've had top teeth taken out before, but this one is a bottom tooth, and I'm just scared of what they'll do to take it out... I just need a hug ;-;


*hugs* I understand how you feel however you still could do some work on it until then by eating chewy foods such as sweets if you can and I know it can be hard however you can do this and after when it's all over you won't have to worry about it anymore and try to remember you don't have to go through this alone and you can always pm me :)
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