♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[thunderofthedrum]

umm so yeah.. i like my bff. she's so sweet and funny plus we enjoy the same things.but i dunno if this is just my brain messing around with my sexuality or yeah bc i've liked a few girls in the past yet i've still liked boys also...like somedays i just wanna hug and kiss her yet others i just wanna hang out and skate... pls help <3

No one can tell you who YOU like or have feelings for. And who says there is any sort of need to slap a label on yourself? Sounds like you wouldn't be ready to make a move on her so just continue as you are. Even if you decide you DO have feelings for her, whether you make a move or not is still your own decision.

[rosedream]

Ok so I recently just went to a overnight summer camp for a week. And, of course, I started liking one of the guys there. At the end of camp, everyone exchanged numbers, emails, social media, ect. So the guy sent a email to a bunch of people (including me) with his facebook and insta along with his number. He lives I Czech and it costs alot to text him, so I message him over facebook messenger. I talked to him late into the night (over 6 hours) and a lot happened. He mentioned that he wants to meet up soon, maybe get some ice cream. I want to, but I've never really hung out with a guy alone before. My parents are fine with me hanging out with him, but I'm afraid it will be awkward and that I'll get really nervous and anxious. The guy comes every summer to visit his family, but goes back to Czech to go to school, so I really do want to meet up with him before he leaves. Any advice/thoughts on what I should do?

[Neon-chan]

Ok so I recently just went to a overnight summer camp for a week. And, of course, I started liking one of the guys there. At the end of camp, everyone exchanged numbers, emails, social media, ect. So the guy sent a email to a bunch of people (including me) with his facebook and insta along with his number. He lives I Czech and it costs alot to text him, so I message him over facebook messenger. I talked to him late into the night (over 6 hours) and a lot happened. He mentioned that he wants to meet up soon, maybe get some ice cream. I want to, but I've never really hung out with a guy alone before. My parents are fine with me hanging out with him, but I'm afraid it will be awkward and that I'll get really nervous and anxious. The guy comes every summer to visit his family, but goes back to Czech to go to school, so I really do want to meet up with him before he leaves. Any advice/thoughts on what I should do?

From research and personal experiences, I suggest you just go for it. The only thing that might happen is that you'll both feel a bit awkward, even though after hanging out one time going wrong he'll probably still message you and atleast be somewhat friends. And unless you chatted with him 24/7 in that summer camp, you've only known eachother for a week.

I also suggest you just go for it because if you don't, he'll leave to Czech and you'll regret it until the next summer.

Just act like he's just any of your other friends, and remember to always be yourself

[anathema]

i've got a really big crush on one of my friends and i want to tell her, but i'm pretty sure she's straight and doesn't feel the same way. i've liked her for a year and a half and i'm ready to tell her how i feel, except i don't want it to grow awkward between us if she doesn't like me back. she also lives pretty far away, but we're going to be meeting up in about a month. should i tell her then, when we're alone? or should i text her because the air may grow too awkward in real life after i admit my feelings?

[Trilobite]

i've got a really big crush on one of my friends and i want to tell her, but i'm pretty sure she's straight and doesn't feel the same way. i've liked her for a year and a half and i'm ready to tell her how i feel, except i don't want it to grow awkward between us if she doesn't like me back. she also lives pretty far away, but we're going to be meeting up in about a month. should i tell her then, when we're alone? or should i text her because the air may grow too awkward in real life after i admit my feelings?

Telling someone your feelings about them would probably be better in person. My crush admitted to liking me over texting, but said he'd rather have done it in person instead.

If you think she's straight, then I would suggest maybe not telling her because it's really hard to go back to being just friends when love is put on the line. Since I'm straight, I can put myself in the situation. If one of my female friends told me they had a crush on me, things would definitely become awkward between us. It all really depends on the person, but that's my guess.

I hope this helped! I'm not very good when it comes to relationships though. But if you're really ready to go through with it, just tell her. If she is a really good friend, she'll understand whether or not she likes you back like that.

[rosedream]

Ok so I recently just went to a overnight summer camp for a week. And, of course, I started liking one of the guys there. At the end of camp, everyone exchanged numbers, emails, social media, ect. So the guy sent a email to a bunch of people (including me) with his facebook and insta along with his number. He lives I Czech and it costs alot to text him, so I message him over facebook messenger. I talked to him late into the night (over 6 hours) and a lot happened. He mentioned that he wants to meet up soon, maybe get some ice cream. I want to, but I've never really hung out with a guy alone before. My parents are fine with me hanging out with him, but I'm afraid it will be awkward and that I'll get really nervous and anxious. The guy comes every summer to visit his family, but goes back to Czech to go to school, so I really do want to meet up with him before he leaves. Any advice/thoughts on what I should do?

[alleyway]

Recently my boyfriend and I have been playing xbox but he has started to get off earlier then I do and it really sucks because I can't tell him..He really cares about how I feel and does not want to break up with me because he would be loosing his best friend,which is the same for me, he knows I'm unhappy and lately we have done nothing on xbox because I will get bored and not want to play that game. He's tried talking me into watching a movie on Netflix but I just really have not felt like it I guess.
Does anyone have any advice?

[Casistrophic]

Recently my boyfriend and I have been playing xbox but he has started to get off earlier then I do and it really sucks because I can't tell him..He really cares about how I feel and does not want to break up with me because he would be loosing his best friend,which is the same for me, he knows I'm unhappy and lately we have done nothing on xbox because I will get bored and not want to play that game. He's tried talking me into watching a movie on Netflix but I just really have not felt like it I guess.
Does anyone have any advice?

Why are you unhappy in the relationship? If he's not suggesting any activities that you will agree to, it's up to you to come up with something for you both to do.

[alleyway]

Recently my boyfriend and I have been playing xbox but he has started to get off earlier then I do and it really sucks because I can't tell him..He really cares about how I feel and does not want to break up with me because he would be loosing his best friend,which is the same for me, he knows I'm unhappy and lately we have done nothing on xbox because I will get bored and not want to play that game. He's tried talking me into watching a movie on Netflix but I just really have not felt like it I guess.
Does anyone have any advice?

Why are you unhappy in the relationship? If he's not suggesting any activities that you will agree to, it's up to you to come up with something for you both to do.

I am currently not unhappy that was an accident, it's just I get quiet upset when he gets offline, we are playing online right now and we can't come up with anything to play, also today I told him I might not be getting online as I have not got any sleep and he proceeded to tell me to get some rest, I told him okay but I would not be falling asleep because I had just woken up, he then didn't message me the whole day. He just won't talk to me and I'm uncomfortable telling him how I feel :c

[Zeefa]

Recently my boyfriend and I have been playing xbox but he has started to get off earlier then I do and it really sucks because I can't tell him..He really cares about how I feel and does not want to break up with me because he would be loosing his best friend,which is the same for me, he knows I'm unhappy and lately we have done nothing on xbox because I will get bored and not want to play that game. He's tried talking me into watching a movie on Netflix but I just really have not felt like it I guess.
Does anyone have any advice?

People sometimes drift apart. Check out my blog whenlifegivesyousunshine.blogspot.com
My friend Abby and I we talk about best friends and relationships. I is hard and it takes time. But, try get together go for dinner and a walk on the beach or a walk along the lake or something, that will definately bring out that spark you sweetheart are missing.