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[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

idk man
now that i've accepted im genderfluid i'm not sure if i should show it at school
its not that i'll get picked on, i won't my school is chill about this stuff
but i'm scared the guy i like, whom likes me back will stop talking to me if i tell him
but if i don't i feel like i'm lying to him for some reason

ugh stupid feelings. stupid problems. why can't i just stick to one freaking gender
i hate myself so much rn like can i just not be genderfluid that would be very helpful self

also what the crap why do i have a new problem every freaking hour

Don't be Mad at yourself you can't help how you are and its perfectly natural and you have every right to be how you want to be so don't hide away and if he really does like you he will accept you no matter how you are so try not to hide away for him you deserve to express how you are no matter what and if he cares about you he will accept whatever decision you make

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I recently dumped my boyfriend because he was acting like a butt. He also said some offending
things about my father, but I thought they were getting along just fine! ;-;

Now all of a sudden I have a crush on my neighbor and he catches me by surprise ( hint hint, he
asked me out ). Of course I said yes, but I'm afraid of my ex. What should I do?!
I'm terrified of the thought that my ex would see me out on the date, and I'm getting stressed up
over it, almost to the point of where I cry... Its confusing, and so annoying! why can't I do anything
right in my life? why do I even care?! Help me... please.

I want a hug ;-;

*hugs* hey don't worry about it the only thing that matters right now is that your happy and you have every right to go out with your boyfriend and not be afraid and if your ex really loved you he would respect the fact that your happy now however don't hide away because of him he hurt you enough already and you deserve to go out and be happy no matter what

Thank you Unity, and I'll do exactly what you said,
i'll have fun and be happy. Thank you ever so much <3

Good thing its a day until the date, I still have time to
pick out a dress or something.

Where would I be without this thread, I have no idea.

Your always welcome I hope you have a wonderful time and Im sure the dress will be beautiful

[Guest]

So on another website I'm very active one, I have my best friend in the whole world. We'll call her A. I'd pretty much do.anything for her, and she'd do the same for me. We're very close like that.
Then there's this other girl. Let's called her B. She used to be really nice and all, and she was friends with A and I. About seven months ago, though, she caused a lot of drama on the site and ended up quitting when she wouldn't admit she was rude to a lot of people, including A and I. Now she's back (and has been reported for several broken rules on her part) and getting mad at me because I'm friends with A and would pretty much do anything for her. She says I'm a jerk for ranting a lot, when I actually have no one else to go to. She says I ignore her problems, when really I'm just tired of her dramatic arguments over silly little opinions. She pretty much hates me now and wants to take A away from me. I don't know how to handle this.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

So on another website I'm very active one, I have my best friend in the whole world. We'll call her A. I'd pretty much do.anything for her, and she'd do the same for me. We're very close like that.
Then there's this other girl. Let's called her B. She used to be really nice and all, and she was friends with A and I. About seven months ago, though, she caused a lot of drama on the site and ended up quitting when she wouldn't admit she was rude to a lot of people, including A and I. Now she's back (and has been reported for several broken rules on her part) and getting mad at me because I'm friends with A and would pretty much do anything for her. She says I'm a jerk for ranting a lot, when I actually have no one else to go to. She says I ignore her problems, when really I'm just tired of her dramatic arguments over silly little opinions. She pretty much hates me now and wants to take A away from me. I don't know how to handle this.

Firstly A will never leave you that kind of love and care won't ever be forgotten no matter what happens and your not a jerk for needing help a few times its perfectly natural and nothing to be ashamed of so don't let her get to you and I'm sure A will realise what is going on in their own time and won't leave you and will be cautious about being around her and she knows how she is like from the argument before and as for her problems I understand how you feel however if you need a break from her then take one as you could end up getting stressed and snapping when you don't mean to and no matter what happens try to remember that A won't ever leave you as that kind of friendship cannot be replaced or forgotten and you will always have a place in their heart and you can always pm me if you would like

[Ethulai]

I've noticed a trend in this thread over the past few days.

Yes, we've shut down the TTAY thread and the TRT thread. That does not mean you come onto the Comfort Corner and vent your frustrations here.

The second rule of the CC states;

Naming and shaming; anonymous and hatin'
While you might not get along with everyone on Chickensmoothie, this is not a place to discuss on site incidents involving other users. This is how gossip and witch-hunts begin and nobody wants that. Please, keep other users out of your posts.

That means you can not in any way, shape or form mention other CS users on this thread. No matter what.

Do not use this thread to vent your frustrations about CS matters that involve other users.

From here on in, warnings will be given.

My final reminder. I expect regular users to report rule-breaking posts because they should be very familiar with the rules. Also, if you want to continue speaking about a topic you started on here, perhaps PMing is a better idea otherwise you are spamming the thread.
DO NOT mention other CS users.
DO NOT use the Comfort Corner as a substitute Trade Rant Thread.

[Deano]

So on another website I'm very active one, I have my best friend in the whole world. We'll call her A. I'd pretty much do.anything for her, and she'd do the same for me. We're very close like that.
Then there's this other girl. Let's called her B. She used to be really nice and all, and she was friends with A and I. About seven months ago, though, she caused a lot of drama on the site and ended up quitting when she wouldn't admit she was rude to a lot of people, including A and I. Now she's back (and has been reported for several broken rules on her part) and getting mad at me because I'm friends with A and would pretty much do anything for her. She says I'm a jerk for ranting a lot, when I actually have no one else to go to. She says I ignore her problems, when really I'm just tired of her dramatic arguments over silly little opinions. She pretty much hates me now and wants to take A away from me. I don't know how to handle this.

im guessing B probably got pretty jealous of you and A's friendship. people like that dont deserve to be friends with you, or A. id say talk to A and see what they think about it all, maybe they're noticing it too. hang out with A after school and things. a friendship and love like that cant just be torn apart. dont worry. you two will work this out. it must get pretty annoying listening to B complain all the time anyway. a toxic person doesnt deserve to be a part of such a strong friendship. <3

[chooch]

I'm sorry I can't take it. my mother never believes me . She thinks I lie about about everything when I don't she always yells at me and says everything bad about me. I want to hide in a corner and cry. My escape is here but she just thinks I don 't listen to her. But I do I always listen. I am helping people on here mom. Ands sometimes I forget things that you tell me mom I am sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. You just don't understand.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I'm sorry I can't take it. my mother never believes me . She thinks I lie about about everything when I don't she always yells at me and says everything bad about me. I want to hide in a corner and cry. My escape is here but she just thinks I don 't listen to her. But I do I always listen. I am helping people on here mom. Ands sometimes I forget things that you tell me mom I am sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. You just don't understand.

As long as you know your telling the truth that's all that matters so don't let her bring you down your so much better than that and you deserve far better than this however don't give up your wonderful and amazing in every way possible and you deserve the world for everything you have done to try and help others and I'm proud of you for doing so and I think your very kind hearted to carry on loving her despite what she says but don't cry don't let a single tear slip because you deserve to be happy and smiling no matter what and you always have so keep being that brilliant and wonderful person that I know you are and don't give up

[i♡me.]

Alright.. let me get this over with.
I had a great friend. The nicest friend you could ever have. I had a crush on her. And let me make this clear, I am a girl. So, I loved to make her laugh. When she laughed, I smiled. But I knew she was a serious christian and I knew she would never love me back. But I didn't care. And now, She has moved away. I will never see her again..
It's making me really stressed, unbalanced, and I feel like my heart was just broken like hitting glass with a giant hammer.

[chooch]

I'm sorry I can't take it. my mother never believes me . She thinks I lie about about everything when I don't she always yells at me and says everything bad about me. I want to hide in a corner and cry. My escape is here but she just thinks I don 't listen to her. But I do I always listen. I am helping people on here mom. Ands sometimes I forget things that you tell me mom I am sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. You just don't understand.

As long as you know your telling the truth that's all that matters so don't let her bring you down your so much better than that and you deserve far better than this however don't give up your wonderful and amazing in every way possible and you deserve the world for everything you have done to try and help others and I'm proud of you for doing so and I think your very kind hearted to carry on loving her despite what she says but don't cry don't let a single tear slip because you deserve to be happy and smiling no matter what and you always have so keep being that brilliant and wonderful person that I know you are and don't give up

Thank you so much,