♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[luxray;]

oh wow you asked her out? i would never have enough confidence to do that ^^'
i don't really know how to tell her i like her? i don't want to ruin our friendship but we're always. flirting. maybe she doesn't know it but she does it all. the. time.

yep, didn't do me much good though,things probably won't be quite the same between us, which sucks. Yeah it was the same with me and her, I guess we were the kind of "really close girlfriends" that just messed with each other and I took it the wrong way or whatever

[thunderofthedrum]

Ok so,

I'm in need of advice. This guy has had a crush on me for the past two or three years, which I was fully aware of. At first it was fun teasing, then developed. He's asked me out a couple of times, and I've said I'm not ready for a relationship. Truth was, I wasn't too fond of him. I just wanted to be friends, ya know?

Recently though, he's taking liking to a new girl. He's only known her a week, but loves her so much. She left to do community service this week, and he told me he can't wait for her to come back.

That part is fine with me, the thing that buggs me is this;
He still texts me, but in a different way. I feel like he's trying to make me jealous. All he does is talk about 'her'. I told him I honestly don't care, but he thinks I'm lieing. What should I do?

Thanks for any advice~

what I would do is this; I'd play along with his little game, if it even is one. I'd start acting like I genuinely care about what he says about her. he'll either get confused because of the 'two can play at this game' little trick, or mad because you aren't jealous.
does this help? ouo

Another route is simply to tell him you'd like to talk about something else, or even saying that the conversation constantly revolving around her is uncomfortable or awkward. Maybe it's because you don't know her well, or maybe you feel that he is telling you things that he shouldn't be sharing (as in, they are private and she wouldn't appreciate it). Or even hinting at saying he's changed, or obsessed, or whatever.

[;LEVIATHAN;]

just asked out my best friend.

AND NOW I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND HOLLA

but she lives in Florida ;^; any advice on how to deal with long-distance?

[Sharkie.]

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[nuclearmelons.]

O man, I still have a crush on this guy even though we said like only 5 words to each other, iN ONLY A WHOLE DANG YEAR! He used to be really nice and somewhat a nerd (which im rlly into idk why), but after I left to go to a family reunion in the Philipines for a whole month... ;-; I can't even explain what he's like now. Now he's like every other boy; skateboards, cussing, probably one of the most innapropriate guys at school (besides me and my group cx). Before I left, I JUST HAD TO TRIP ON HIS DANG SHOE. Aww man... I was so embarrased. But he was all like, "Hey, are you okay?". I mean he was quiet and every thing but he never asked anyone if they were ok in a somewhat concerned voice. Eh I was probably so freaked out I thought he was saying that in a concerted voice. I think I was so freaked out I froze for a few seconds and then got up. Why am I so clumsy???? After that I just got up and sprinted away in the weird way I do when I get freaked out. Also, he texted me saying, "Hello, say Google". Then I responded saying, "Hi, says Siri". UGGHHH.... okay back to talking about when he was .. errrmmm ughhh idk, plain douchebag? (sorry if dat is inna pro-pro) So my "friend" thats all pretty and talented ended up liking him after becoming a douchebag and started wearing contacts. In my mind I'm all like, "gurrlll this is like yo 5th crush dis year. I think u got problems" sHE EVEN ACTED LIKE SHE WAS HIS GIRLFRIEND ALREADY. A few weeks ago he texted me again saying "Herro!" *ahem the new trend of saying hello in their group* After that I responded to him saying, "Herro! c:" Just like the last time he texted me, He didn't respond again. I mean, when look at him and stuff I catch him looking at me... But I'm just not sure, Does he like me or not? T-T

[lacebunnie]

not too long after school ended, i easily got over my crush. no problem. it didn't feel right to like someone i hardly knew, even though he truly is a nice guy.

one of my friends became friends with another boy, and i normally end up knowing all my friends new friends. so one day he got my number somehow and we only texted " hey " and " what's up. " i thought he wasn't interested in having a conversation with me. the same short conversation repeated one more time before tonight.

i was on his ask.fm and he answered a question that read " likers get compliment. " so being me, i liked it and got a really sweet compliment from him. and then i got the same question, so he liked it and i told him to text me at the end of the compliment. so he did. and then he started asking me questions over text. first they were small questions like " what's your favorite class " or " who are your best friends. " then they evolved into " who have you dated " and " who is your crush " he completely trusted me and told me his crush and since i no longer have a crush i told him my old crush. but anyways the questions finally evolved into what our insecurities were. and i mentioned not being socially acceptable and being rejected. the conversation went on for hours.

we had a really deep conversation. then he got on to the subject of how him and my old crush are going to the beach together on saturday so i asked him not to say anything because i feel like my old crush would say " oh that creepy weird ugly girl? ew " in response he said i was none of those things. he said i was an amazing girl and i was pretty and it just made me so happy. he is the sweetest person i have ever met and the only boy who has openly called me pretty. the purpose of this is, i think i might be developing feelings for him

any advice?

[hermytail]

not too long after school ended, i easily got over my crush. no problem. it didn't feel right to like someone i hardly knew, even though he truly is a nice guy.

one of my friends became friends with another boy, and i normally end up knowing all my friends new friends. so one day he got my number somehow and we only texted " hey " and " what's up. " i thought he wasn't interested in having a conversation with me. the same short conversation repeated one more time before tonight.

i was on his ask.fm and he answered a question that read " likers get compliment. " so being me, i liked it and got a really sweet compliment from him. and then i got the same question, so he liked it and i told him to text me at the end of the compliment. so he did. and then he started asking me questions over text. first they were small questions like " what's your favorite class " or " who are your best friends. " then they evolved into " who have you dated " and " who is your crush " he completely trusted me and told me his crush and since i no longer have a crush i told him my old crush. but anyways the questions finally evolved into what our insecurities were. and i mentioned not being socially acceptable and being rejected. the conversation went on for hours.

we had a really deep conversation. then he got on to the subject of how him and my old crush are going to the beach together on saturday so i asked him not to say anything because i feel like my old crush would say " oh that creepy weird ugly girl? ew " in response he said i was none of those things. he said i was an amazing girl and i was pretty and it just made me so happy. he is the sweetest person i have ever met and the only boy who has openly called me pretty. the purpose of this is, i think i might be developing feelings for him

any advice?

Don't focus on your feelings that are starting. I've been in this same exact situation. Just continue acting the way you have been with him, and keep being yourself. Keep things simple and easy, and watch as things progress on their own.

[Sharkie.]

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[Apyrisol]

Grr... I asked you guys for help about one guy and you said to leave him. I JUST CAN'T GET OVER HIM! He passed by my house a few days ago and I had just gotten back from the beach (#Summer). I couldn't even bring up the courage to say 'hey'! I FEEL SO ASHAMED! EVEN THOUGH YOU SAID TO LEAVE HIM! I TRY NOT TO THINK ABOUT HIM BUT ALL THE TIME I DO!







It make's me wanna claw my eyes out...

[littleminicooper]

Hi! Please help. I have a huge problem. My parents are very strict about my boyfriend and I. No touching, kissing, ect. I understand not wanting me to do anything but we don't. I can understand not wanting me to kiss him and I'll respect that one(Although we still do) but I like to cuddle him while watching scary movies and they just won't allow it. I also like to fall asleep and take naps in his arms because it comforts me. I have really bad anxiety and depression. When we cuddle or I am able to fall asleep I can listen to his heartbeat which really calms me down. I don't think my parents understand that. What can I do to make this easier for all of us?