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by malteser » Mon Jul 06, 2015 12:40 am
I'm just insanely over being judged or lectured, I was just talking about how if I did want children I'd adopt them because hearing about my mums story (as an adoptee) was just so heartwarming. And then my friend had to jump in and say things change and all that jazz but oh gosh.
This is the point where I crack it.
I know things change, I want them to change but I know what I want my heart to be set on and with people just going at me the whole time it puts me off so bad.
I ended up coming out so awkward like "I CAN DO WHAT I WANT" but she always tries to use intelligent wits and uhhh
wish you may and wish you might
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by quitting<3 » Mon Jul 06, 2015 1:41 am
.:Mo:. wrote:rose quartz. wrote:I hate coming here for something as stupid as this, but
On the third, My family went to the pool in my grandma's neighborhood and no one was there
so it was kinda perfect.
I swam to the end of the pool where its 9 1/2 ft.deep and I really enjoy swimming.
My sibling followed me and used a big phobia of mine against me which is the fear of drowning.
They pushed me under the water and I had a huge panic attack, but I was also scared to cry in front of my family.
When I surfaced I was still freaking out and I swam away really fast and I am now terrified of putting my head under the
water and I really love swimming.
I tried to swim under the water yesterday but then automatically I felt short of breath and scared,
I dont know how to overcome this rightnow.
Im also having trouble with gender neutral pro-noun remembrance for my trans-gender sibling..
its going to be okay, rose. remember that we are all here for you. it was very mean of them to push you under the water when they knew that it was a fear of yours to drown. and i can believe that you would be quite upset with them. maybe you should talk to them about it? maybe tell them how you feel about that whole thing? im truly sorry it happened, rose. and i do completely understand having troubles with trans-gender pronouns, and remembering them. my younger sibling is having troubles with that right now, and i keep accidentally saying 'he'. anyways, im so sorry, and hope that things will get better. *hugs*
Thank you, Mo. That helped a lot <3
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by aurora❅lights » Mon Jul 06, 2015 2:17 am
lucas. wrote: my dad said he doesn't know if he can trust me.
*hugs*
I can't exactly connect to your issue, but I do have some advice c:
I would try to spend as much time as I could with him, maybe just simply asking
if he could take you somewhere or helping him out at home. When you aren't trusted
by a loved one, I believe that the first step should be to bond with them more. Of course
this isn't exactly like your situation, but let's just say for example I get a new dog. Most
likely, my new pet won't trust me. The dog is surrounded by different everything. Different
house, different food, different people. I would bond with my dog in order to gain trust from
it. Giving treats, going for a walk, playing outside, these are all ways I could bond with a dog.
Now, of course, your not a owner and your dad certainly isn't a dog. Try and have a conversation
with him, and possibly ask why he doesn't trust you. If he can't answer that, just try bonding.
Ask if he can bring you somewhere like a store or something, or ask his opinion on something
your confused about. I hope everything works out for you because you seem like an amazing
person with a wonderful personality and should definitely be trusted. I hope that you have a lovely
day and that everything eventually works out c:
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by arabella !! » Mon Jul 06, 2015 2:24 am
SouthernOcean wrote:I'm just insanely over being judged or lectured, I was just talking about how if I did want children I'd adopt them because hearing about my mums story (as an adoptee) was just so heartwarming. And then my friend had to jump in and say things change and all that jazz but oh gosh.
This is the point where I crack it.
I know things change, I want them to change but I know what I want my heart to be set on and with people just going at me the whole time it puts me off so bad.
I ended up coming out so awkward like "I CAN DO WHAT I WANT" but she always tries to use intelligent wits and uhhh
Aw! -Huggles-. :c I hope things get well for you soon! <3
lucas. wrote: my dad said he doesn't know if he can trust me.
Aww, -huggies-. :c Now why's that? Sometimes parents say that kind of stuff if they are just angry or sad, I'm sure he trusts you all the way but just give it some time. Good luck and I hope everything goes okay for you! <3
The Kraken wrote:I had a really bad night and this day isn't turning out much better
could I just have a hug or something
I don't know
maybe a pm
I'm so exhausted
Yeah, I've been having a tiresome day too. -Huggles- I hope everything goes okay for you at the end! <3
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by ~ V ~ » Mon Jul 06, 2015 2:49 am
I'm an invisible force in this world. I tried, I really did, to communicate with somebody. They looked at me and shoved me away from them, as if I have a deadly sickness. They yelled "Eww," and ran off to class. I should just stop trying, the rumors went wild to fast. They know nothing about me, but they dare to whisper as I pass.
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by ~ V ~ » Mon Jul 06, 2015 2:59 am
junebug. wrote:Panda_Luver wrote:I'm an invisible force in this world. I tried, I really did, to communicate with somebody. They looked at me and shoved me away from them, as if I have a deadly sickness. They yelled "Eww," and ran off to class. I should just stop trying, the rumors went wild to fast. They know nothing about, but they dare to whisper as I pass.
I
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invisable
I'm practically invisible, too. Literally. When I got an award, nobody clapped but my best friend =.= i was just like
SERIOUSLY??
And then there's a problem that I have... This was a WHILE ago, but a really mean girl got the 'Nicest Student' award. I actually almost stood up and said "WHAT???!!!?/W1????" Because she's apparently nice around SOME people, and mean around others. She made one of my closest friends cry just because she couldn't have it her way. And she just HAS to do EVERYTHING EVER! My best friend wanted to collect the folders at chorus but she wouldn't let him because "She usually does it so it 'makes sense.'" EXACTLY! Maybe you should give someone else another chance, power-player!
I don't even have a friend! Your story seems even worse! I'm feel really bad for you ❤️❤️❤️
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by denji3884 » Mon Jul 06, 2015 3:40 am
Panda_Luver wrote:I'm an invisible force in this world. I tried, I really did, to communicate with somebody. They looked at me and shoved me away from them, as if I have a deadly sickness. They yelled "Eww," and ran off to class. I should just stop trying, the rumors went wild to fast. They know nothing about me, but they dare to whisper as I pass.
I
am
invisable
You aren’t invisible. You were put onto this world for a reason, and even though it seems like nothing will get better, it will. You are strong, and I believe in you. You can always message me if you would like to talk about it more c:
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