| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[SnakeBean]

Welp. Just came to the conclusion that I'm not surgender, but demigirl. I'm just so fed up with myself. I constantly change my gender and romantic and sexual orientation because I'm just confused. I think I've got it down now. Biromantic, heterosexual, demigirl, she/her pronouns. I think that sounds right. And great, my annual summer depression is kicking in. Every summer, I away from my group of support, my friends, so I get pretty depressed. UGH PLEASE END.

don't feel fed up with yourself, you can change you sexuality and gender and all that stuff as much as you like until if find the right ones. also im sorry you are depressed, i wish the best for you the rest of the summer. *hugs*

[♥kittyfaith2210♥]

please i need to talk to someone.... again

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

please i need to talk to someone.... again

I'll try although I'm sorry if I don't help that much im very tired

[myth is trash.]

Thank you. I'll try my best to have a good summer, and I think I've got the right sexuality gender, etc. down.

please i need to talk to someone.... again

Ill pm you right now.

[venteux]

so I went to the movies with my friend, and there was this kid who was kinda secretly flirting with us I guess. he won a thing from the claw machine and me and my friend were kinda messing with him, so she asked for it.
the kid says, "sorry, your friend over here is prettier." I literally felt my heart shatter.
the thing is, okay, thanks, but you're not helping her self esteem? she thinks she's the ugliest person in the world and you didn't help. thank you for the compliment, I'm flattered, but think about her feelings please.
idk I just need advice on how to make her know she's pretty.... she didn't really care after, we kept talking to the kid but I felt really bad for her. she's not this gushy person that I can be like, "listen, you're soooo pretty and nothing can change that." because she'll brush it off. I always tell her she's not ugly but she doesn't believe it because she thinks she's fat, (she isn't) she thinks she has ugly hair, (she doesn't) and she thinks she's stupid (she isn't).
so, some advice please? kinda just needed to rant. get it off my chest. :c

[Aaron✦]

@Swiftie firstly I just wanted to say that I think it's really caring and respectable that you want to help your friend out with something so tough, you sound like a great friend!

I think that "gushing" it as you put it can sometimes come off a little fake? Not that it's a bad thing at all, but like, it's just something to say for the sake of saying something.
Self esteem is a lot about your subconscious, so I think a way to help her out, even just a little, is just drop small compliments every now and then, especially about her insecurities.
Something like, when you notice her hair, say something like "Your hair looks really nice today!" very casually and carry on as if it weren't significant.

She might brush it off if you make a big point of it, but I think reassuring her every now and then will help your friend c:

[Kolink]

x

[Goreamir]

sorry if this sounds weird but ughh

so there's this annoying kid at class, and he can be pretty mean (in a weird way) sometimes. For instance, he's really tiny (like 4 feet) compared to everybody else, but this one time he kept on punching my half annoying friend/half annoying enemy who is about 6 feet tall, which is pretty tall for the school I go to. Of course, the tall friend of mine picked him up and dropped him since he wouldn't stop. The teacher even applauded him. But hat bothers me is that he's bullied by almost everybody. (The little kid.) They call him mean names, hurt him physically, and make him do stuff that gets him in trouble. Even my closest friends do it. I often see him crying at lunch, and I don't even know what happened. I'm stuck between him and my friends, and it really stresses me out. He hurts me and my friends, too, though. He once whacked my with a ball, punched my friends arm, and slapped my other friend. He scraped my other friends glasses, is mean to all of the mentally challenged kids, and doesn't stop talking. I know this isn't an advice corner, but I also need a little bit of comfort. Thank you if you read this far...

[Radiation King]

I'm so sick of people saying they'll be here for me.
Or that I'm not alone.
Or that I can always come to them.
Where are they now?
Read my message but never reply...

I hate being alone but I can't risk getting close.
I don't think I wanna let anyone in again.
When they leave, it literally tears me apart.

[[*hugs* I know how it feels. I know it hurts, but if they're treating you like that, they're not really your friends and sometimes it is better to let go. I know there are plenty of wonderful people out there, and I know it can take time to find them. Just keep trying. <3 You can PM me if you ever need it, I'll always try to help however I can.]] :]

sorry if this sounds weird but ughh

so there's this annoying kid at class, and he can be pretty mean (in a weird way) sometimes. For instance, he's really tiny (like 4 feet) compared to everybody else, but this one time he kept on punching my half annoying friend/half annoying enemy who is about 6 feet tall, which is pretty tall for the school I go to. Of course, the tall friend of mine picked him up and dropped him since he wouldn't stop. The teacher even applauded him. But hat bothers me is that he's bullied by almost everybody. (The little kid.) They call him mean names, hurt him physically, and make him do stuff that gets him in trouble. Even my closest friends do it. I often see him crying at lunch, and I don't even know what happened. I'm stuck between him and my friends, and it really stresses me out. He hurts me and my friends, too, though. He once whacked my with a ball, punched my friends arm, and slapped my other friend. He scraped my other friends glasses, is mean to all of the mentally challenged kids, and doesn't stop talking. I know this isn't an advice corner, but I also need a little bit of comfort. Thank you if you read this far...

[[There was a guy like this in my class once as well; he picked on me all the time and even spit all over my jacket once. I never saw the soft side of him though, I never saw him cry, but I'm sure he did. Just don't act out against him, and don't tease him. If you see him crying in public, chances are he's trying to hide it; don't confront him right then because it may draw unwanted attention. I'd suggest talking to him one-on-one, perhaps starting off with something like "Hey, are you okay? I noticed you were crying at lunch, and I want to make sure you're alright." Try to make friends with him. If that doesn't work, and he continues to pick on you, just ignore him and he'll get tired of it. Do try to prevent people from bullying him if you can, though. Things will work out <3]]

[sluiceway]

Ugh, I've had a throbbing headache all day, and it's making it hard for me to focus on trades. I feel so terrible--I keep sending people unfair trades and not realizing it until they point it out ahhhhh >o<
pain meds pls kick in already