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[soymonky]

Ok, so 3 days ago, my Dad was on his computer and out of the blue he asked me "Can you find me the remote?" I was being normal and I went to find it. I spent 10 minutes trying to find it and I finally said I couldn't. Then he said to keep looking. My mom was sitting by and then said " Well why does she have to find it if you are always the one watching TV?" Then he heard and yelled at her" WHY DON'T YOU JUST SHUT YOUR MOUTH I WASN'T TALKING TO YOU" I froze there and just, disgusted and horrified because she does literally everything for him. I started to cry and just locked my self away from the room he was in. Please help

[gravestones]

Ok, so 3 days ago, my Dad was on his computer and out of the blue he asked me "Can you find me the remote?" I was being normal and I went to find it. I spent 10 minutes trying to find it and I finally said I couldn't. Then he said to keep looking. My mom was sitting by and then said " Well why does she have to find it if you are always the one watching TV?" Then he heard and yelled at her" WHY DON'T YOU JUST SHUT YOUR MOUTH I WASN'T TALKING TO YOU" I froze there and just, disgusted and horrified because she does literally everything for him. I started to cry and just locked my self away from the room he was in. Please help

/pats gently

I'm really sorry that happened with you right there. It's always traumatic when parental figures lash out or go severely out of line. I don't have a dad... but I had a similar experience with one of my mothers boyfriends when I was eight. He would yell at her over something stupid and she'd just accept it like it was her fault. I was overwhelmed with disgust because I knew my mother was stronger than that and didn't deserve it. I assumed they worked it out when I wasn't around because it got a bit better and she seemed happier.

So, I guess my best advice is to stay out of arguments and things like that, like you said you did. If you're open with your mom you could ask her if she was okay later or maybe even ask your dad why he was so snappy that day (if it's out of character for him). But a lot of times it's their problem to work out. It will be okay, though. Sometimes you just have to soldier on and get through it and avoid it as much as possible when you can. I fancy putting in earbuds and listening to music to drown out arguing or my mind when it's too loud.

I hope I helped some. If you need anyone to talk to if this happens again, feel free to PM me.

edit;; It's fathers day.... and the only father figure I have at all in my life is states away in prison. I hate the "daddy issues" I've been having lately but I just... don't know what to do...

[αunчѕt♡‬]

First of all, I just wanted to thank you for making this forum! It means a lot to know that there are people who you can talk to

Well, I might even just want to talk to someone about this. But, on the last week of school my crush who is also my best friend (He's a boy) told me that he liked me (I'm a girl). Later, on the last day of school I finally told him my feelings! Yay! He gave me a hug and we gave each other our emails so we can still chat during the summer. After a few weeks of summer, it seems like he doesn't want to even talk to me anymore? I'm just worried and confuzzled (He likes to say that word ) I don't want to lose my best friend. I guess I don't need advice otherwise I would have gone to the "Relationship Advice" thread...I guess I just needed to get all the stress off of my shoulders and tell someone. Thanks

[vaska]

edit;; It's fathers day.... and the only father figure I have at all in my life is states away in prison. I hate the "daddy issues" I've been having lately but I just... don't know what to do...

- pats back -
Hey, I've got the same thing. It sucks; especially when people throw you pity parties, or find a way to rub it in your face. Or both. Either way; it really sucks. I get what you're going through; and let me tell you something.
I've never celebrated fathers day.
I always forget it.
fathers day isn't all that important
You can create father's day any day. Youcan give your father/father figure a card whenever you want, or take him out for lunch. So father's day is just a day more scheduled, I suppose. Plan a trip; maybe see if you can visit him.
I'm not much help, but if you ever want to talk, please message me. <<3
Good luck!

[Articuno218]

Ive told you I love you about three times today. Im sorry church made me depressed and Ive maybe said it more than most days and Im sorry I have seperation anxeity and worry because you finally have a car now and could easily be hit and killed.
Im scared and worried about you. Thats why I say it.
Its not because I love you romantically.
I love you platonically. I tell you it because I dont know what could happen to me or you when I wake up in the morning.

Jusy say it back.
Please
I know I mean as much to you as you mean to me.
Im the only one who listens and is there....
Please.

Edit: I tried to say I cared about you and you ignored that too?
Thanks.
Freaking thanks.

[samm.]

There is a really nasty storm coming my way and its supposed to be really bad. Like hurricane force wind speeds, hail, and the possibility of multiple tornado's. I'm literally freaking out right now, I can't breathe, and i'm on the verge of tears. Severe storms scare me, more so when there is a higher chance for tornado's. I'm trying to keep calm, but its just so hard to do. Hugs anyone? Maybe some comforting words? I'll take anything at this point =/

[idiosyncrasy]

There is a really nasty storm coming my way and its supposed to be really bad. Like hurricane force wind speeds, hail, and the possibility of multiple tornado's. I'm literally freaking out right now, I can't breathe, and i'm on the verge of tears. Severe storms scare me, more so when there is a higher chance for tornado's. I'm trying to keep calm, but its just so hard to do. Hugs anyone? Maybe some comforting words? I'll take anything at this point =/

Oh god, that is scary. Well just make sure to be extra safe! Er.. maybe you can look up what to do.. ---hugs- just try to be calm!~ good luck honey!~

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I'm sorry I wasn't there for people when they would have needed someone to talk to its just I had to go early yesterday without a option and now I just feel guilty I'm sorry..

[emoji movie]

Please
I need help

Please.

I want to cry

[blue neighbourhood]

Please
I need help

Please.

I want to cry

I'm so sorry for whatever's bothering you <3 Feel free to PM me, my messages are always open! Things will get better, I promise <3