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[NopesaurusRexx]

Thanks guys <3. It's really not that big of a situation. I've just had bad luck with a similar situation before, and I have bad luck anyway, so I always get my hopes up on everything and it falls apart before anything can actually happen.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I can only reply to part for now because I'm on mobile.

Your friend.

How can I bring the subject up? I'll probably talk to her over Facebook because usually if we are together in person there are other friends with us.

Ignore below. My mom decided to inform me that they think the people that escaped from prison in New york might be in PA A.K.A. the same state where I live. That's too close to home for my comfort. (Heck, Baltimore is 5 1/2 hours away and it's too close for comfort IMO.)
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I suggest organising a trip out some wear but tell her to come on her own as you want to talk to her in private or if you can go to one another's houses perhaps? If both is not possible then perhaps you should tell her over Facebook or call her as then you will at least hear her voice i hope this helps you

[Starfalling]

I can only reply to part for now because I'm on mobile.

Your friend.

How can I bring the subject up? I'll probably talk to her over Facebook because usually if we are together in person there are other friends with us.

Ignore below. My mom decided to inform me that they think the people that escaped from prison in New york might be in PA A.K.A. the same state where I live. That's too close to home for my comfort. (Heck, Baltimore is 5 1/2 hours away and it's too close for comfort IMO.)
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I suggest organising a trip out some wear but tell her to come on her own as you want to talk to her in private or if you can go to one another's houses perhaps? If both is not possible then perhaps you should tell her over Facebook or call her as then you will at least hear her voice i hope this helps you

We have no way of privatly talking in person because both of our houses always other people in the and in my town "Alone somewhere where no-one ever goes" = "Someone watching you and waiting for things to gossip about.". How can I begin the conversation with her? I have trouble talking to people so I'm not very confident.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I suggest organising a trip out some wear but tell her to come on her own as you want to talk to her in private or if you can go to one another's houses perhaps? If both is not possible then perhaps you should tell her over Facebook or call her as then you will at least hear her voice i hope this helps you

We have no way of privatly talking in person because both of our houses always other people in the and in my town "Alone somewhere where no-one ever goes" = "Someone watching you and waiting for things to gossip about.". How can I begin the conversation with her? I have trouble talking to people so I'm not very confident.[/quote]

I'll pm you some easy steps

[Starfalling]

I suggest organising a trip out some wear but tell her to come on her own as you want to talk to her in private or if you can go to one another's houses perhaps? If both is not possible then perhaps you should tell her over Facebook or call her as then you will at least hear her voice i hope this helps you

We have no way of privatly talking in person because both of our houses always other people in the and in my town "Alone somewhere where no-one ever goes" = "Someone watching you and waiting for things to gossip about.". How can I begin the conversation with her? I have trouble talking to people so I'm not very confident.

I'll pm you some easy steps

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Thank you. I'll read the PM tomarrow because I woke up at 6A.M. and it's almost 10:00 P.M. here now.

[arabella !!]

Thanks guys <3. It's really not that big of a situation. I've just had bad luck with a similar situation before, and I have bad luck anyway, so I always get my hopes up on everything and it falls apart before anything can actually happen.

No problem, good luck with everything hun. <3

[100whitewolf]

I'm confused can someone help me?
I don't mean to bother anyone but I don't know what to do. Please.
I have this guy friend, lets call him K. (The only reason I'm mentioning he's a guy is because as a girl I'm not sure if this would make a difference)
I've known him for a year and a half, we did sports together and became pretty close. How close idk, I thought/think of him as my best friend. Im not sure what he thinks though.
For about the first half of the year I saw him daily, he's a grade above me, at the time we were in the same school and did sports together 4 days a week. We talked daily.
Then summer came around, he left for three months without saying anything. He never showed up for sports, he was completely gone. I wasn't sure what had happened, I was confused and sad but I was beginning to accept his disappearance after the 2nd month. I thought I'd never see him again and I'd just have to deal with it. Then one day he just came back. He had been on vacation, it was a surprise trip. The first thing I asked him when he got back was if he was staying. He told me he was.
This was around maybe last September? Sometime last fall. He started coming to sports less often maybe 2-3 times a week vs 4. I could live with that though, it was expected anyways, since school was back in session. I was just glad to have him back. I got his number something that fall through a friend and we began texting. We didn't text that much since I still saw him 2-3 times a week, for an hour each time. This lasted through out the winter.
Early spring came around and he started going from 2-3 times a week to 0 times or once a week. Baseball and theater were taking up his time and he had no time of his other sports. He started not showing up at all. After a month of not seeing or talking to him I texted him asking him if he was ever coming back, he said he might not. He told me that he just didn't have time. I asked him if I'd ever see him again. He promised me that I would still see him and that he'd "figure it out". He promised me he'd figure it out. After he told me that I cried for about an hour. I was scared of loosing him totally.
Then after not talking to him for about a week and a half I went to the park one day with my neighbors for a baseball thing. I saw him there and we talked for a couple of hours. This made me feel better, he told me to text him. Right before I left he reassured me, yet again, and told me he'd figure it out and that he didn't break his promises.
A week later I got a call from a random number, I didn't answer. The number kept calling me. I finally learned it was his number. His phone broke so he had been calling me from his landline. After than we talked maybe once a week.
I then got to see him for a couple of hours last Thursday.
His phone got fixed that night and he texted me. I texted him the next day and today he texted me.
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He's my best friend but I'm constantly afraid of loosing him. I don't want him to stop talking to me or something. I've already lost him twice, once for three months and the second time for a month. I think about him every single day and constantly but I don't know how much he cares about our friendship. I hate not knowing, I wish I knew how much he cared. He's had two girlfriend since I've known him. The first girlfriend he had, he talked to me before asking her out. He was nervous and texted me for advice, while hanging out with her he texted me. After he asked her out he texted me. He said how happy he was and how excited he was. After getting the first girlfriend he still talked to me. He then got his second and current girlfriend and the day after called me to tell me. I'm happy about him getting another girlfriend, I'm just scared he'll stop talking to me for his girlfriend. I don't get to see him a lot. I just really don't want to lose him. One of my best girl friends and I do almost everything together, but I always feel like she's the better one. We think almost exactly alike, that what makes us best friends and we are almost ALWAYS together. We see each other 6-7 days a week. This means we also have the same friends. She's my best friend but also gives me such a crappy self esteem. I always feel like I'm loosing all my friends to her. With "K" my best guy friend I don't feel that way. I feel like he's the only person who likes me more than her, even though he knows her. The three of us did sports together but I'm closer to him, especially since he's left sports. That's why I'm so afraid of loosing him whether its to his girl friend or my best girl friend. I just don't know how much he cares. I just don't know what to do. I miss him so much even when I get to talk to him every day. Loosing him twice for a long period of time makes me even more scared one day he'll leave for good.
I don't know what advice I'm really looking for but I just don't know what to do. I feel like if I tell him this It'll seem weird or something. I can't say please don't leave me because your the only person who likes me better than my best friend.

Sorry this is so long, its kind of complicated, I get it. If anyone took the time to read the whole thing, thank you so much.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I'm confused can someone help me?
I don't mean to bother anyone but I don't know what to do. Please.
I have this guy friend, lets call him K. (The only reason I'm mentioning he's a guy is because as a girl I'm not sure if this would make a difference)
I've known him for a year and a half, we did sports together and became pretty close. How close idk, I thought/think of him as my best friend. Im not sure what he thinks though.
For about the first half of the year I saw him daily, he's a grade above me, at the time we were in the same school and did sports together 4 days a week. We talked daily.
Then summer came around, he left for three months without saying anything. He never showed up for sports, he was completely gone. I wasn't sure what had happened, I was confused and sad but I was beginning to accept his disappearance after the 2nd month. I thought I'd never see him again and I'd just have to deal with it. Then one day he just came back. He had been on vacation, it was a surprise trip. The first thing I asked him when he got back was if he was staying. He told me he was.
This was around maybe last September? Sometime last fall. He started coming to sports less often maybe 2-3 times a week vs 4. I could live with that though, it was expected anyways, since school was back in session. I was just glad to have him back. I got his number something that fall through a friend and we began texting. We didn't text that much since I still saw him 2-3 times a week, for an hour each time. This lasted through out the winter.
Early spring came around and he started going from 2-3 times a week to 0 times or once a week. Baseball and theater were taking up his time and he had no time of his other sports. He started not showing up at all. After a month of not seeing or talking to him I texted him asking him if he was ever coming back, he said he might not. He told me that he just didn't have time. I asked him if I'd ever see him again. He promised me that I would still see him and that he'd "figure it out". He promised me he'd figure it out. After he told me that I cried for about an hour. I was scared of loosing him totally.
Then after not talking to him for about a week and a half I went to the park one day with my neighbors for a baseball thing. I saw him there and we talked for a couple of hours. This made me feel better, he told me to text him. Right before I left he reassured me, yet again, and told me he'd figure it out and that he didn't break his promises.
A week later I got a call from a random number, I didn't answer. The number kept calling me. I finally learned it was his number. His phone broke so he had been calling me from his landline. After than we talked maybe once a week.
I then got to see him for a couple of hours last Thursday.
His phone got fixed that night and he texted me. I texted him the next day and today he texted me.
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________
He's my best friend but I'm constantly afraid of loosing him. I don't want him to stop talking to me or something. I've already lost him twice, once for three months and the second time for a month. I think about him every single day and constantly but I don't know how much he cares about our friendship. I hate not knowing, I wish I knew how much he cared. He's had two girlfriend since I've known him. The first girlfriend he had, he talked to me before asking her out. He was nervous and texted me for advice, while hanging out with her he texted me. After he asked her out he texted me. He said how happy he was and how excited he was. After getting the first girlfriend he still talked to me. He then got his second and current girlfriend and the day after called me to tell me. I'm happy about him getting another girlfriend, I'm just scared he'll stop talking to me for his girlfriend. I don't get to see him a lot. I just really don't want to lose him. One of my best girl friends and I do almost everything together, but I always feel like she's the better one. We think almost exactly alike, that what makes us best friends and we are almost ALWAYS together. We see each other 6-7 days a week. This means we also have the same friends. She's my best friend but also gives me such a crappy self esteem. I always feel like I'm loosing all my friends to her. With "K" my best guy friend I don't feel that way. I feel like he's the only person who likes me more than her, even though he knows her. The three of us did sports together but I'm closer to him, especially since he's left sports. That's why I'm so afraid of loosing him whether its to his girl friend or my best girl friend. I just don't know how much he cares. I just don't know what to do. I miss him so much even when I get to talk to him every day. Loosing him twice for a long period of time makes me even more scared one day he'll leave for good.
I don't know what advice I'm really looking for but I just don't know what to do. I feel like if I tell him this It'll seem weird or something. I can't say please don't leave me because your the only person who likes me better than my best friend.

Sorry this is so long, its kind of complicated, I get it. If anyone took the time to read the whole thing, thank you so much.

I understand how you feel once i got close to someone like that and i helped them with dating and other things but try to remember that there is so many people out there and one day you will meet someone who will sweep you off your feet and help you to stay positive however on the other hand i don't think it will be weird if you talked to him about it just say your concerned that you might not talk to each other any more and im sure him being a close and good friend to you will understand and try his best to "figure something out" as you said although im sure he wont stop talking to you no matter what as it is hard to completely forget someone who is close to you close enough to even give you relationship advice so i don't think he would just leave you on your own perhaps he might even return the favour and help you find someone like you have done with him i hope this helps your an amazing and beautiful individual and you deserve the world truly and never forget you don't have to go through this alone we will always be here to help you on cs don't give up now because im not giving up on you

[rosedream]

i've been pm'ed, thank you♥

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

ugh
society has done it again
my poor brother,
I feel so bad for him.
his friends called him gay
behind his back.
he got a hair cut today,
a lot shorter than he originally had it
so that he wouldn't look
gay.
I am so pissed off at those people
they were people he hangs out with
yeah
he might hang out with girls more than he does with guys
but that fricken doesn't make him gay
yeah so what he doesn't have a girlfriend right now?
I know plenty of straight guys that don't.
telling a guy that is straight he's gay isn't funny
words hurt
I don't know how he is taking it
but I know he is has depression
he cuts every now and then.
he wasn't always the coolest guy
now he doesn't hang out with the nerds but
the last few years have been hard for him
he never really fit in until 8th grade.
he's going to be a freshman next year,
so I guess he'll get a new start...
but I just feel so
so angered by these people.
I really wish we could move
but I don't think we are anymore.
I have friend issues myself,
and many other conflicting things,
but right now I'm worried about my brother.
he is going to europe for 6 weeks tomorrow,
and I don't want him to get any ideas while he is gone.
I just
don't know what to do...
I'm worried
I'm
scared.
sorry if that was long..
and I really shouldn't be posting this stuff
but//
pm me if you want to reply..

Pm'ing