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[arabella !!]

We're not supposed to really talk about my problem on CS, so I won't say anything about it, I just need to vent. Just ignore it
It hurts
It hurts
It hurts worse than anything I've ever felt
I never knew someone could have pain like this
It hurts
Jesus please help me
I have no one to talk to right now and I am dying
Please talk to me
I need you
Please help

Aw, I'm sorry for whatever is hurting you I hope it gets better for you. <3 -Huggies-

father, i understand that all parents have this perfect image of their children. what i don't understand is why you can't let go of the image you have of me as a small child, when i'm nearly an adult now. it hurts me in many ways, especially this one - you expecting me to be perfectly skinny and not have half an inch of fat. i was severely underweight as a kid, but it was not caused by disease or lack of money to buy enough food. i simply didn't like to eat much, and that was unhealthy. now i'm much older, and yet you still harbor that image of me. i eat normally now, but apparently just because my ribs and spine aren't poking out of my skin anymore, i'm 'fat' to you. and i was under that impression for so, so long. i hated myself for it. but slowly i realized that this was not true. let me tell you one thing, i am still below average weight for my height. i have never been called fat in school where teenagers tend to notice and pick on anyone who is even a little overweight. by medical standards i am perfectly healthy. so father, please stop bugging me about something that's not even true. father, please put aside these unrealistic, unhealthy exceptions of me. you yourself said some time ago that the 'skinny fashion' is stupid. then why do you still expect it from me? you contradict your own words at times. it hurts me a lot when you say these things. i still manage to hold on against this, but with the terrible mental state i have been in for almost a decade, i'm not sure how much longer until i acquiesce.

Aww! -Huggies- :c It seems like you are a changed person, but it's just that your father hasn't overcome your old state yet. I want you to know that whatever happens, you are still beautiful on the inside and out. <3 I think your father hasn't got used to you being perfectly healthy now, and he just hasn't let go. But that doesn't mean he has the right to verbally hurt you. Your body is your body, and not his. And it seems like you weren't unhealthy like before! That's great! C: But maybe your father always had an image of you being skinny, and he just didn't accept you for who you are yet. Give him some time to remember that you are still his daughter, and nothing has changed but you're very healthy now which is a good thing, your dad doesn't see it yet. Maybe you should talk to him, as a daughter he would understand if you explained to him how much he's hurting you and that you are perfectly fine, and even though I'm not the "skinny fashion" anymore, that doesn't mean you can hurt me like that. Good luck sweetie, I hope everything gose well for you soon! <3

My dad called me pathetic today

Aw! -Hugs- <3 Words can hurt, can they? :c Whatever the reason why he called you pathetic, you are not. You are an amazing person, and you shouldn't let these words pull you down. Maybe you should talk to him, tell him how you feeling, and maybe you guys can sort out the problem! Good luck! c:

dammit.
I'm not sure what happened but it went like this:
I think I had an anxiety attack on the field when I was playing soccer cause I kept thinking
I dont know what to do and, god I'm just messing this up for everyone
I'd rather let someone who knows what theyre doing play
And so dad kept telling me to play but I couldnt breathe well and I was holding back because I thought I was just so bad ;-;
So I asked the coach to substitute me because I couldnt play like that dude DX
As I said it dad was like 'NO.." and was gonna say some other stuff but I cut him off sorta rapidly saying
"I WANT TO COME OFF SO LET ME." (This was directed to my dad) I wasnt like ignorant, no, I was doing it for others and my own good. But when I was about to come off (The coach had said OK) he was walking off.
HE LEGIT JUST WALKED OFF.
I WANTED TO CRY.
He didnt come back, not even when the game was over and because he had to drive me home I needed to go over to HIM.
HE WAS SILENT AND TRIED TO KEEP DISTANCE BECAUSE I GET IT.
ALL THIS TIME I THOUGHT HE WOULD BE ENCOURAGING OF MY DECISIONS, LIFE IS HARD FOR ME OK, AND IT AS CLEAR AS damn DAYLIGHT.
HE DOESNT LIKE A FAIL.
AND APPARENTLY THATS EXACTLY WHAT I AM
A DEPRESSED TEEN THAT HAS HUGE ANXIETY AND ALL ROUND TROUBLE.

Aww... -Hugs- :c It seems like your dad has not accepted your decision on not playing for the team because of your attack, and he left you!? That's terrible! I hope you are okay from the incident though. c: You're right, you made a great decision for not playing the game anymore because of what happened... Which is perfectly fine, but your dad needs to know how important your health is as well. Maybe he doesn't feel like talking right now, give it some time and then you can explain to him how you were feeling when he ditched you. As a daughter, your father will understand and hopefully the problem could be solved there. <3 He has no right to ditch you, and your decision was fair. I want you to know that he should be helping you with your decisions, and not leave them. You are not a sign of trouble, you are awesome for standing up to what you believed in! C: Good luck with everything! <3

Okay so I'm feeling really sick.....all I had to eat today was like half a little bacon egg and cheese wrap and a box of candy....I couldn't eat dinner cause I was worried sick about something and now I can't even get up to get something cause when I do I feel like I'm gonna pass out

Oh no! :c -Hugs- Aw, this sounds horrible! Have you contacted with your family about this? Maybe they could take you the doctor, to get a check up and see what's really going on or you're just feeling light-headed today. Whatever it is, I hope you'll feel better soon! <3

[My Immortal]

I feel like no one gets me.
Or what is really like to lose a friend.
And sometimes I want to give a few people that feeling.
In my cruel, shriveled, heart, I want to hurt my best friends.
What is wrong with me?!
I don't really want that.
I just want to be understood.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I feel like no one gets me.
Or what is really like to lose a friend.
And sometimes I want to give a few people that feeling.
In my cruel, shriveled, heart, I want to hurt my best friends.
What is wrong with me?!
I don't really want that.
I just want to be understood.

Firstly your not cruel you are a wonderful and amazing person whom is simply just angry this is natural but it doesn't mean that you are cruel your better then that in every way and i know that losing a friend can be hard i lost my nan but she was more than my nan she was a friend someone who i could cry on and talk too and when i see other people with their nan's i get jealous sometimes of the time that was stolen from us ever more so since my last nan i had died.. But this feeling is natural as of course you will miss them and i understand this but this doesn't make you cruel nor me and i know at times it seems that no one understands but trust me their will be thousands of people who have been in the same situation and they will understand how you feel so never think that you are alone because you are not no ever will be and if you need to talk my pm box is always open

[Starfalling]

Advice/comfort please

Yay new thread!!
At the risk of sounding whiney:

1. I have an ear infection and it hurts a lot to the point where I can barley open my mouth because it also causes my cheekbone and jaw to hurt. My family gets mad because I don't feel like talking since I can't hear or talk all that well.

2. My best friend and the only person that I can talk to easily is graduating in a year but I'm four years younger than her so I'll only be a freshman and I'm afraid we'll never get to talk again after she graduates. How can I bring this up in a Facebook chat? Should I do it now or next year?

3. This weekend would be perfect if I didn't have an ear infection.

4. Sound hurts but I'm going to a movie tomarow night at my church anyways because I'm in the youth group that's sponsering it plus my best friend will be there.

5. I feel like crying and telling someone all my problems but I have social anxitey and don't have the curage to ask anyone IRL for comfort or tell them all my problems.

6. I'm so stressed out about school and I have to work day and night until the end of the month just to pass because this year was rough and I couldn't be bothered to work ll that hard on school or anything else for that matter.

7. I have depressed and S.A.D. as well as multiple types of anxitey. These combine with the fact that I live in rainy, dark Southwester PA to make my life unbearable.

8. I know I keep mentioning my ear but I also keep having anxity attacks because I always need to be in know what's going on all around me and without being able to hear as well + having my headphones in it freaks me out.

9. My family and friends are constantly comforting me but they really on't understand how bad I feel right now or how hard it is just to hve a conversation or ask somebody something.

10. I want to try out for the choir at my church but I'm scared to ask the person that I need to because I don't want to embarress myself in front of them because I've known them since I was 6 or 7.

11. I need to release my frustration through exersise. My grandfather doesn't understand this but he stays with me while my mom is at for for 6-8 hours every other day.

12. Sometimes I just need to be alone. If I walk away or ignore you I'm not being rude, if I stayed I would probably end up screaming at you about something or crying. Nobody understands this, not even my mom or best friend.

13. I just had to go get my braces tightened so basically my whole face hurts and I can't eat, talk, hear, sing, or swim well right now.

14. I wanted my hair cut down to my shoulders and have been looking forwards to it for 7 months. ow I'm probably not allowed.

15. I can't see my youngecousis for 1 1/2 months.

16. I can't sleep and when I do I wake up terrified and crying or in pain and crying because of nightmares or because I slept right side all night and was putting pressure on my infected ear as I slept.

17. I have nightmares everytime I sleep for any amount of time. I never have good dreams.

[idiosyncrasy]

Advice/comfort please

Yay new thread!!
At the risk of sounding whiney:

1. I have an ear infection and it hurts a lot to the point where I can barley open my mouth because it also causes my cheekbone and jaw to hurt. My family gets mad because I don't feel like talking since I can't hear or talk all that well.

2. My best friend and the only person that I can talk to easily is graduating in a year but I'm four years younger than her so I'll only be a freshman and I'm afraid we'll never get to talk again after she graduates. How can I bring this up in a Facebook chat? Should I do it now or next year?

3. This weekend would be perfect if I didn't have an ear infection.

4. Sound hurts but I'm going to a movie tomarow night at my church anyways because I'm in the youth group that's sponsering it plus my best friend will be there.

5. I feel like crying and telling someone all my problems but I have social anxitey and don't have the curage to ask anyone IRL for comfort or tell them all my problems.

6. I'm so stressed out about school and I have to work day and night until the end of the month just to pass because this year was rough and I couldn't be bothered to work ll that hard on school or anything else for that matter.

7. I have depressed and S.A.D. as well as multiple types of anxitey. These combine with the fact that I live in rainy, dark Southwester PA to make my life unbearable.

8. I know I keep mentioning my ear but I also keep having anxity attacks because I always need to be in know what's going on all around me and without being able to hear as well + having my headphones in it freaks me out.

9. My family and friends are constantly comforting me but they really on't understand how bad I feel right now or how hard it is just to hve a conversation or ask somebody something.

10. I want to try out for the choir at my church but I'm scared to ask the person that I need to because I don't want to embarress myself in front of them because I've known them since I was 6 or 7.

11. I need to release my frustration through exersise. My grandfather doesn't understand this but he stays with me while my mom is at for for 6-8 hours every other day.

12. Sometimes I just need to be alone. If I walk away or ignore you I'm not being rude, if I stayed I would probably end up screaming at you about something or crying. Nobody understands this, not even my mom or best friend.

13. I just had to go get my braces tightened so basically my whole face hurts and I can't eat, talk, hear, sing, or swim well right now.

14. I wanted my hair cut down to my shoulders and have been looking forwards to it for 7 months. ow I'm probably not allowed.

15. I can't see my youngecousis for 1 1/2 months.

16. I can't sleep and when I do I wake up terrified and crying or in pain and crying because of nightmares or because I slept right side all night and was putting pressure on my infected ear as I slept.

17. I have nightmares everytime I sleep for any amount of time. I never have good dreams.


Try going to the hospital or doc. for the ear thing, also you can pm me! Try sleeping on your back and take a sleeping pill, also you can contact your friend by email, phone or social websites. Also try to make those nightmares funny, i hope i helped! yes, i am bipolar, i have anxiety too, mabye medicine will work! Therapy is also good for this, im sorry about all of this sweetie, remember to smile!~

[blue neighbourhood]

Okay.
Last post here for a while.
I promise. Maybe.

Today is my dog's birthday, which is fine, until I realize she is seven.
S e v e n.
49 in dog years.
Collies only live 'till they're 13-16
So she's half way through her life

I love her too much
and I'm already thinking about her death
I have a wonderful mind
I love her ;-;

[idiosyncrasy]

Ermagersh, well cherish what you you have left, everyday is a gift. ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

Advice/comfort please

Yay new thread!!
At the risk of sounding whiney:

1. I have an ear infection and it hurts a lot to the point where I can barley open my mouth because it also causes my cheekbone and jaw to hurt. My family gets mad because I don't feel like talking since I can't hear or talk all that well.

2. My best friend and the only person that I can talk to easily is graduating in a year but I'm four years younger than her so I'll only be a freshman and I'm afraid we'll never get to talk again after she graduates. How can I bring this up in a Facebook chat? Should I do it now or next year?

3. This weekend would be perfect if I didn't have an ear infection.

4. Sound hurts but I'm going to a movie tomarow night at my church anyways because I'm in the youth group that's sponsering it plus my best friend will be there.

5. I feel like crying and telling someone all my problems but I have social anxitey and don't have the curage to ask anyone IRL for comfort or tell them all my problems.

6. I'm so stressed out about school and I have to work day and night until the end of the month just to pass because this year was rough and I couldn't be bothered to work ll that hard on school or anything else for that matter.

7. I have depressed and S.A.D. as well as multiple types of anxitey. These combine with the fact that I live in rainy, dark Southwester PA to make my life unbearable.

8. I know I keep mentioning my ear but I also keep having anxity attacks because I always need to be in know what's going on all around me and without being able to hear as well + having my headphones in it freaks me out.

9. My family and friends are constantly comforting me but they really on't understand how bad I feel right now or how hard it is just to hve a conversation or ask somebody something.

10. I want to try out for the choir at my church but I'm scared to ask the person that I need to because I don't want to embarress myself in front of them because I've known them since I was 6 or 7.

11. I need to release my frustration through exersise. My grandfather doesn't understand this but he stays with me while my mom is at for for 6-8 hours every other day.

12. Sometimes I just need to be alone. If I walk away or ignore you I'm not being rude, if I stayed I would probably end up screaming at you about something or crying. Nobody understands this, not even my mom or best friend.

13. I just had to go get my braces tightened so basically my whole face hurts and I can't eat, talk, hear, sing, or swim well right now.

14. I wanted my hair cut down to my shoulders and have been looking forwards to it for 7 months. ow I'm probably not allowed.

15. I can't see my youngecousis for 1 1/2 months.

16. I can't sleep and when I do I wake up terrified and crying or in pain and crying because of nightmares or because I slept right side all night and was putting pressure on my infected ear as I slept.

17. I have nightmares everytime I sleep for any amount of time. I never have good dreams.

I will divide this into sectors so its a little easier to handle
The ear infection.
Have you seen a doctor about it? If not that perhaps you should however if you have already i know that pain can limit our everyday lives especially when it stops you communicating however when i lost my voice i could hardly breath but i knew that i still had to communicate as it is important in every day lives so i found the easiest way to communicate without hurting myself was to write everything down this way you can still communicate and your family might not be mad with you any more and perhaps just having a little mini conversation might take your mind off the ear infection

Your friend.
I understand how you feel i felt scared when my brother left high school while i moved in i felt like i had no one but trust me you will adjust to high school life quicker than you think and you will soon find others with things in common with you and you wont have to rely on your older friend however i still understand that it is hard to make new friends and that you might miss your older friend once she graduates but school is not the end of friendships trust me you can still arrange things outside of school even if its just something like shopping or getting a drink your friendship does not have to come to an end and i would advice you telling her how you feel sooner than later as you might be able to organise things like day outs between you both and she can give you adive about school as she has already been through it

The weekend.
I know that injuries can ruin days sometimes but make a list about all the things you want to do once your ear infection has gone then use this determination to do things to get better and do everything you possibly can to get better take your medicine and rest and drink lots of water and i promise you that you will be better before you know it and once you are use the list and do everything you wanted to do as a reward for being patient while you was ill

The movie.
Perhaps take some painkillers before you go to the movie and also take some with you just in case however don't forget that sometimes your own needs come first before others especially if it impacts your health and that you have every right to not go to that movie and if she really is your friend then she will understand and support your choice

Emotions.
Emotions can be hard to put across to other people in person but remember that sometimes it is best to tell others your emotions as then you wont be keeping them in any more which can make you feel worse i advice you tell whoever you are closest too perhaps your older friend as you can trust her and im sure she will understand

School.
With me just finishing my exams believe me i know how you feel and i still have results day to come yet but just remember school doesn't decide how the rest of your life will go colleges have many places for people no matter there grades so try to take it easy and just take life as it goes don't push your self too hard as this can be unhealthy for you and it scientifically proven that you work better once you have had a break

Depression.
I know that life can be tough at the moment but just remember that you don't have to go through it alone and even though you may have a variety of types of anxiety many others will have too and you never be alone going through your struggles your an amazing and beautiful individual and you should never listen to anyone who says otherwise and they will always be wrong no matter what and you will always be better than them

The ear infection(2)
I understand how you feel im the same when i get water in my ear it does throw you off guard sometimes and can make you feel vulnerable but just try to take deep breaths and remember the infection wont last forever and you will get better sooner than you think just take it steady going through daily life until you get better and don't forget to do the things that you love or doing something different as it will take your mind off the infection and you will feel a whole lot better and again don't forget that you don't have to go through this alone.

Family + Friends.
I understand that sometimes comforting can make people feel worse but they are only doing because they love you and they are reminding you that they are there for you no matter what happens and if they love you this much you should never be scared to ask them something because clearly they care about you and they will help no matter the request

Choir.
Go for it. If you don't then perhaps you will forever wondering what could have happened and it you could have made it or not and believe me nothing is worse than wondering and you simply will never know how it would have went and at least then you can say i did it. I went for it and i was brave. I know this can be hard but if they embarrass you then quite frankly that is their loss not yours because they just missed a chance to meet an amazing and brilliant person like you and at least you can say you was braver than them and actually went for it

Exercise
Perhaps it might be worth talking to your mom about organising classes that works for you both or maybe even make up a home exercise such as sit-ups and such at least then you will still be doing exercise and be with your grandfather However spend every moment wisely because i miss my granddad dearly so and trust me if i could i would spend every waking moment with him and i know sometimes it can seem hard to spend time with them but with the things you discover and the memories you make you will never regret it i promise

Braces.
Perhaps just take it steady until you get used to them and take painkillers this will help with your ear infection and your braces.

Haircut.
I understand how you feel however sometimes hair can look good if you let it grow and perhaps you might be able to find a new style and like it even better than your old one or just have more time to think about how you want it however if your certain perhaps have a talk with your mom and see if you can after all you never know what may happen

Sleeping.
It may be worth using things such as camomile tea or other natural drinks that can help you relax and sleep or maybe look for a specialised cushion as sometimes there are some that can help your position as you sleep and again i suggest taking painkillers before you sleep.

Good dreams.
Perhaps it might be worth trying something new like taking a walk for example in places that you love and just in general supplying your mind with newer more happy memories and this may take your mind off the nightmares.
Im sorry if i have missed anything out i may have to edit this however i hope this helps

[lαмe ѕнeep ѕιlvα]

My grand parent who i'm surprised lived this long will die in less than 2 years... im crying because I love him too much to let him go...

[blue neighbourhood]

Ermagersh, well cherish what you you have left, everyday is a gift. ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°

I will <3 You're awesome because your profile picture scared the life out of me. It's half twelve in the morning shhh xD