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[Jessi.]

I'm so sorry.
I know you all try hard to make me happy.
I know I take you for granted.
I know I'm disgusting and greedy and needy.
I don't believe a single one of you when you tell me I'm appreciated or wanted, because I know I'm not.
Not at home.
Not at school.
Not on CS.
I don't want me, and I bet you all don't want me.
I might as well just quit forever.

Reply to this is PM if you reply at all, please v.v

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

I'm so sorry.
I know you all try hard to make me happy.
I know I take you for granted.
I know I'm disgusting and greedy and needy.
I don't believe a single one of you when you tell me I'm appreciated or wanted, because I know I'm not.
Not at home.
Not at school.
Not on CS.
I don't want me, and I bet you all don't want me.
I might as well just quit forever.

Reply to this is PM if you reply at all, please v.v

Pm'ing i will do my best to help and understand

[arabella !!]

Why is it so hard to do nice things for people? Not that I don't like to but sometimes It hurts to do a certain thing but you know it will make the person happy and I'm just upset

Hi there! -Hugs- c: I'm so proud of you for doing something that's kind to other people, that's very thoughtful of you. <3 Sometimes, everyone needs a break once in a while from doing kind deeds. I hope you feel better soon, and keep up what you're doing because you're doing great! c:

I'm feeling especially down about my first real relationship right now. It's been over for months and I don't really feel anything for her anymore but I miss the memories and being able to trust each other and laugh together and being able to talk about our problems. I miss being the one who had access to all the dark crevices in her mind. I miss putting letters in each other's lockers. I miss us looking at each other from across the classroom until the other one of us noticed and we would both smile. I miss hugging her and loving that she's a few inches shorter than me. I miss thinking about how special she is. I miss the one real date we ever went on. It was one of the best nights I've ever had, and then I stayed over with her and we watched movies and talked until we fell asleep. I just really miss the way we used to be.

Aww!!! -Huggies-. <3 Loosing your first love could be tough, especially the one you just described. It sounds like this relationship was a good one, and you never thought it would end. I'm so sorry that this happened, but It's perfectly normal for everyone and sometimes this just makes you stronger! c: Though, you really loved her, eh? I'm sure that there are more people out there, maybe as special as her or maybe not... But there are more out there. Maybe take a break from all this stuff, and just relax and grieve. Good luck sweetie! ^^

[grapebats]

Thank you guys. <3

[Dismal.]

Why.. why is it so hard for me to help my friends. I'm too selfish to gift them, and far too dumb to help them with words. They are far too amazing to be stuck with dead weight such as myself. Just leave me.. I as much as in pains me to utter those words, I know it would benefit them..

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

Why.. why is it so hard for me to help my friends. I'm too selfish to gift them, and far too dumb to help them with words. They are far too amazing to be stuck with dead weight such as myself. Just leave me.. I as much as in pains me to utter those words, I know it would benefit them..

Your friends are with you because they love who you are and what you do and even though you may think that all your efforts of help is worthless to them it is priceless as it shows you care about them and that their not alone and this is best form of help anyone could ask for just knowing their is someone to listen to them someone to acknowledge them so don't think for a second your help is worthless because it is most certainly not your a wonderful and amazing person never doubt this and you deserve the world with your efforts to help others

[ProudHufflepuff]

Why is it so hard to do nice things for people? Not that I don't like to but sometimes It hurts to do a certain thing but you know it will make the person happy and I'm just upset

I know sometimes it can be hard to put others happiness before your own as sometimes you do need a break and you do need to be uplifted now and again but try to remember the fact that you deserve a break too and you do need to put your own happiness before others even if you don't agree with it as if you are constantly working to help others and make them happy but get no happiness back it can cause stress and even end up hurting the person you wanted to make happy, however never forget that you are a wonderful and beautiful individual and you deserve so much for making others happy at your own free will and even though sometimes it can seem that perhaps you are not appreciated for the brilliant work you do trust me you are as every act of kindness you generously and patiently give creates wonderful and loving memories in which can never be forgotten or priced. Be proud of all the amazing and loving work you do because quite frankly its beautiful people like you that gives hope to the world and warmth in others hearts *Hugs* i hope this helps you deserve the world truly and if you need to talk a little my Pm box is always open

Thank you....
Like I know this person appreciates it they always thank me like a thousand times and like I know they really need it sometimes so I feel bad if I don't do it....and after I do it and they're happy I usually feel better but idk it's bothering me tonight

[Starfalling]

Advice/comfort please

Yay new thread!!
At the risk of sounding whiney:

1. I have an ear infection and it hurts a lot to the point where I can barley open my mouth because it also causes my cheekbone and jaw to hurt. My family gets mad because I don't feel like talking since I can't hear or talk all that well.

2. My best friend and the only person that I can talk to easily is graduating in a year but I'm four years younger than her so I'll only be a freshman and I'm afraid we'll never get to talk again after she graduates. How can I bring this up in a Facebook chat? Should I do it now or next year?

3. This weekend would be perfect if I didn't have an ear infection.

4. Sound hurts but I'm going to a movie tomarow night at my church anyways because I'm in the youth group that's sponsering it plus my best friend will be there.

5. I feel like crying and telling someone all my problems but I have social anxitey and don't have the curage to ask anyone IRL for comfort or tell them all my problems.

6. I'm so stressed out about school and I have to work day and night until the end of the month just to pass because this year was rough and I couldn't be bothered to work ll that hard on school or anything else for that matter.

7. I have depressed and S.A.D. as well as multiple types of anxitey. These combine with the fact that I live in rainy, dark Southwester PA to make my life unbearable.

8. I know I keep mentioning my ear but I also keep having anxity attacks because I always need to be in know what's going on all around me and without being able to hear as well + having my headphones in it freaks me out.

9. My family and friends are constantly comforting me but they really on't understand how bad I feel right now or how hard it is just to hve a conversation or ask somebody something.

10. I want to try out for the choir at my church but I'm scared to ask the person that I need to because I don't want to embarress myself in front of them because I've known them since I was 6 or 7.

11. I need to release my frustration through exersise. My grandfather doesn't understand this but he stays with me while my mom is at for for 6-8 hours every other day.

12. Sometimes I just need to be alone. If I walk away or ignore you I'm not being rude, if I stayed I would probably end up screaming at you about something or crying. Nobody understands this, not even my mom or best friend.

13. I just had to go get my braces tightened so basically my whole face hurts and I can't eat, talk, hear, sing, or swim well right now.

14. I wanted my hair cut down to my shoulders and have been looking forwards to it for 7 months. ow I'm probably not allowed.

15. I can't see my youngecousis for 1 1/2 months.

16. I can't sleep and when I do I wake up terrified and crying or in pain and crying because of nightmares or because I slept right side all night and was putting pressure on my infected ear as I slept.

17. I have nightmares everytime I sleep for any amount of time. I never have good dreams.

[venteux]

Advice/comfort please

Yay new thread!!
At the risk of sounding whiney:

1. I have an ear infection and it hurts a lot to the point where I can barley open my mouth because it also causes my cheekbone and jaw to hurt. My family gets mad because I don't feel like talking since I can't hear or talk all that well.

2. My best friend and the only person that I can talk to easily is graduating in a year but I'm four years younger than her so I'll only be a freshman and I'm afraid we'll never get to talk again after she graduates. How can I bring this up in a Facebook chat? Should I do it now or next year?

3. This weekend would be perfect if I didn't have an ear infection.

4. Sound hurts but I'm going to a movie tomarow night at my church anyways because I'm in the youth group that's sponsering it plus my best friend will be there.

5. I feel like crying and telling someone all my problems but I have social anxitey and don't have the curage to ask anyone IRL for comfort or tell them all my problems.

6. I'm so stressed out about school and I have to work day and night until the end of the month just to pass because this year was rough and I couldn't be bothered to work ll that hard on school or anything else for that matter.

7. I have depressed and S.A.D. as well as multiple types of anxitey. These combine with the fact that I live in rainy, dark Southwester PA to make my life unbearable.

8. I know I keep mentioning my ear but I also keep having anxity attacks because I always need to be in know what's going on all around me and without being able to hear as well + having my headphones in it freaks me out.

9. My family and friends are constantly comforting me but they really on't understand how bad I feel right now or how hard it is just to hve a conversation or ask somebody something.

10. I want to try out for the choir at my church but I'm scared to ask the person that I need to because I don't want to embarress myself in front of them because I've known them since I was 6 or 7.

11. I need to release my frustration through exersise. My grandfather doesn't understand this but he stays with me while my mom is at for for 6-8 hours every other day.

12. Sometimes I just need to be alone. If I walk away or ignore you I'm not being rude, if I stayed I would probably end up screaming at you about something or crying. Nobody understands this, not even my mom or best friend.

13. I just had to go get my braces tightened so basically my whole face hurts and I can't eat, talk, hear, sing, or swim well right now.

14. I wanted my hair cut down to my shoulders and have been looking forwards to it for 7 months. ow I'm probably not allowed.

15. I can't see my youngecousis for 1 1/2 months.

16. I can't sleep and when I do I wake up terrified and crying or in pain and crying because of nightmares or because I slept right side all night and was putting pressure on my infected ear as I slept.

17. I have nightmares everytime I sleep for any amount of time. I never have good dreams.

I'm sorry. I hope you feel better soon, PM me if you need to talk.

[CarmillaTheCreampuff]

So NOW you see that there is something wrong with me
I've been telling you for weeks that this isn't normal
Weeks.
You waited until it spread. You waited and refused to take me to get checked out
And now its literally everywhere.
Yeah great youre taking me to the doctor now
It could have been prevented weeks ago.
Stop pretending like im some idiot or some drama queen
I freaking know when something is wrong with my body.