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[My Immortal]

Thank you guys! I'm feeling better since I'm at home without a neck brace.

[♥kittyfaith2210♥]

I hope my life gets better, i tried running away from home, didn't work, so angry at my self and depressed

[grapebats]

I found out a couple weeks ago that my dad is seeing someone for the first time since my parents divorced about three years ago. The thing is, though, that he never told me. And yes, I know that he just wanted to get to know her better first, but I'm still upset. I'm very afraid of this because my mom has had a new boyfriend for over a year and I don't like him at all. When I lived close to/with her they would exclude me from everything, and that's why I live hundreds of miles away with my dad. My mom's boyfriend ruined my relationship with my mom. I don't want the same thing to happen with my dad because then I'll be stuck. I'll have nowhere to go where I'll be comfortable and I'll be miserable. I'm afraid I won't like her, too. I did break down yesterday and finally tell him I knew about her. He's at dinner with her as I'm saying all this. I've been asking questions about her just trying to see what she's like, now that he knows I know about her. She seems nice but then again I thought my mom's boyfriend was nice at first too, and now I'd rather die than ever see him again. So yeah, I'm just terrified and mildly angry.

[not a talking cat]

i want to be able to help people and comfort them but i never know what to say.
i wish i knew how to say things more clearly.
i'm so mad at myself because of this.

[My Immortal]

i want to be able to help people and comfort them but i never know what to say.
i wish i knew how to say things more clearly.
i'm so mad at myself because of this.

Don't be mad at yourself! I totally get what you mean. It's okay.

I hope my life gets better, i tried running away from home, didn't work, so angry at my self and depressed

*hugs*
Running away from your problems doesn't work. I can tell you from experience that if you run away and have the police called you'll end up in a mental hospital for about a week. What works better is talking, and using your coping skills. Feel free to pm me if you need anything.

[ghost queen.]

I'm scared. I'm so afraid I'm going to mess up and she's going to leave me. she's been there for me and I don't want her to leave if I mess up. it's scaring me because everyone leaves me after a certain point. I love her to death. she's like my child/sister/mother. she promised she'd never leave me, but everyone breaks that promise to me.

[My Immortal]

I'm scared. I'm so afraid I'm going to mess up and she's going to leave me. she's been there for me and I don't want her to leave if I mess up. it's scaring me because everyone leaves me after a certain point. I love her to death. she's like my child/sister/mother. she promised she'd never leave me, but everyone breaks that promise to me.

*hugs* if she's a true friend, she'll never leave. But I know the feel. I'm always panicking that my friends will leave.

[Starfalling]

Advice/comfort please

Yay new thread!!
At the risk of sounding whiney:

1. I have an ear infection and it hurts a lot to the point where I can barley open my mouth because it also causes my cheekbone and jaw to hurt. My family gets mad because I don't feel like talking since I can't hear or talk all that well.

2. My best friend and the only person that I can talk to easily is graduating in a year but I'm four years younger than her so I'll only be a freshman and I'm afraid we'll never get to talk again after she graduates. How can I bring this up in a Facebook chat? Should I do it now or next year?

3. This weekend would be perfect if I didn't have an ear infection.

4. Sound hurts but I'm going to a movie tomarow night at my church anyways because I'm in the youth group that's sponsering it plus my best friend will be there.

5. I feel like crying and telling someone all my problems but I have social anxitey and don't have the curage to ask anyone IRL for comfort or tell them all my problems.

6. I'm so stressed out about school and I have to work day and night until the end of the month just to pass because this year was rough and I couldn't be bothered to work ll that hard on school or anything else for that matter.

7. I have depressed and S.A.D. as well as multiple types of anxitey. These combine with the fact that I live in rainy, dark Southwester PA to make my life unbearable.

8. I know I keep mentioning my ear but I also keep having anxity attacks because I always need to be in know what's going on all around me and without being able to hear as well + having my headphones in it freaks me out.

9. My family and friends are constantly comforting me but they really on't understand how bad I feel right now or how hard it is just to hve a conversation or ask somebody something.

10. I want to try out for the choir at my church but I'm scared to ask the person that I need to because I don't want to embarress myself in front of them because I've known them since I was 6 or 7.

11. I need to release my frustration through exersise. My grandfather doesn't understand this but he stays with me while my mom is at for for 6-8 hours every other day.

12. Sometimes I just need to be alone. If I walk away or ignore you I'm not being rude, if I stayed I would probably end up screaming at you about something or crying. Nobody understands this, not even my mom or best friend.

13. I just had to go get my braces tightened so basically my whole face hurts and I can't eat, talk, hear, sing, or swim well right now.

14. I wanted my hair cut down to my shoulders and have been looking forwards to it for 7 months. ow I'm probably not allowed.

15. I can't see my youngecousis for 1 1/2 months.

16. I can't sleep and when I do I wake up terrified and crying or in pain and crying because of nightmares or because I slept right side all night and was putting pressure on my infected ear as I slept.

17. I have nightmares everytime I sleep for any amount of time. I never have good dreams.

[♥ fefetasprxte ♥]

Nice... Just nice...
When people set up a fight just to get rid of you... the people who you called friends actually dislike you. the people you trust trash-talking about you behind your back. I just want to stay home tomorrow...

[tenor]

this is really short and i need no comfort or advice or answer, just...

what did i just do....