| TheComfortCorner | v.5

[tenor]

They aren't really there. They just feel like they are.

its okay, love. im here for you.
im right here....
*holds you closely*
ill protect you.

[MoonStone00]

Well..the water park wasn't so bad with the loose bottoms but my boyfriend drove me back to his place and his mom lectured me because I don't have my license yet... I tried to tell her I had no one to take me and the. She yelled at my boyfriend for not getting me outta the house and helping me in his bad car... And now I feel worthless again ;w; I really just want to curl up in a ball and cry. It seems I can't make her happy no matter what I try to do. She makes it seem like I can't do anything. I feel like I can't breathe right now and my joints are locking up and I just feel terrible. Please can somebody give me a huge hug? I feel like she's gonna force us to break up because she literally hates me so much and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now.

[rosedream]

Well..the water park wasn't so bad with the loose bottoms but my boyfriend drove me back to his place and his mom lectured me because I don't have my license yet... I tried to tell her I had no one to take me and the. She yelled at my boyfriend for not getting me outta the house and helping me in his bad car... And now I feel worthless again ;w; I really just want to curl up in a ball and cry. It seems I can't make her happy no matter what I try to do. She makes it seem like I can't do anything. I feel like I can't breathe right now and my joints are locking up and I just feel terrible. Please can somebody give me a huge hug? I feel like she's gonna force us to break up because she literally hates me so much and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now.

I'm so glad that the water park situation worked out! ^-^
but your boyfriend's mom doesn't really seem to like you... *hugs*<3 It might be that she is protective over her son and set high standards, but I'm not sure. Have you tried talking to your boyfriend about his mom to see if there is something going on that you don't know about?

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

Well..the water park wasn't so bad with the loose bottoms but my boyfriend drove me back to his place and his mom lectured me because I don't have my license yet... I tried to tell her I had no one to take me and the. She yelled at my boyfriend for not getting me outta the house and helping me in his bad car... And now I feel worthless again ;w; I really just want to curl up in a ball and cry. It seems I can't make her happy no matter what I try to do. She makes it seem like I can't do anything. I feel like I can't breathe right now and my joints are locking up and I just feel terrible. Please can somebody give me a huge hug? I feel like she's gonna force us to break up because she literally hates me so much and I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now.

I know it may seem hard but try and talk to her together with your boyfriend and tell her about what her actions is having on your relationship, I'm sure she will regret her actions if she wishes the best for her son and loves him. Although never forget that even though she may be pushing you hard to be perfect quite frankly im sure she will have flaws as well so don't let her get to you and never believe that you are worthless just because of her because quite frankly she is no better her self. On the other hand perhaps have a private talk to your boyfriend and just tell him you are worried what could happen im sure he will understand and comfort you and do his best to make sure everything goes okay if he doesn't care then quite frankly he doesn't deserve you. Your an amazing and wonderful person don't ever doubt nor forget this and quite frankly if she cant accept you for who you are then that is her loss because they just lost the opportunity to know a brilliant and kind-hearted individual so don't let her change you because to be frank no one is perfect but you just being you is the closest you could ever get so keep your chin up if you need to talk a little more my Pm's are always open *Hugs* Don't give up now because im not giving up on you

[MoonStone00]

@rose and unity
She is emotionally mean to my boyfriend and won't change at all... She threatens constantly to kick him out and that's not the worst of it. I fear for his saftey so much right now. As we speak he's having to deal with her yelling be at him because I don't have a license. He has horrible anxiety because of her. I have done nothing wrong around her, she literally just hates me because everything is my fault to her.
Sorry if replies are slow... I'm also dealing with trying to talk my boyfriend out of one of his own anxiety attacks.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

@rose and unity
She is emotionally mean to my boyfriend and won't change at all... She threatens constantly to kick him out and that's not the worst of it. I fear for his saftey so much right now. As we speak he's having to deal with her yelling be at him because I don't have a license. He has horrible anxiety because of her. I have done nothing wrong around her, she literally just hates me because everything is my fault to her.
Sorry if replies are slow... I'm also dealing with trying to talk my boyfriend out of one of his own anxiety attacks.

It might be worth organising a family councillor perhaps they may sort it out if not perhaps ask if he could move in with you? Im sorry about the situation *Hugs* stay strong things won't always be like this some day you will be able to be together in your own home with no troubles your a fantastic and wonderful person and you deserve the world truly she will regret her actions its only a matter of time your unbelievably kind and patient to have come this far don't give up now *Hugs*

[Missing-One]

I... I need a hug.
I just did something and I'm not sure what to feel about it.
I loved it but I hated it.
I'm not sure if I should have done it at all...
I feel so... Empty, yet exhilarated at the same time.

*gives you a hug*

Whatever it was, you'll be okay. Keep yourself safe and care about yourself, okay? It'll be okay and you'll figure it out.

[MoonStone00]

@rose and unity
She is emotionally mean to my boyfriend and won't change at all... She threatens constantly to kick him out and that's not the worst of it. I fear for his saftey so much right now. As we speak he's having to deal with her yelling be at him because I don't have a license. He has horrible anxiety because of her. I have done nothing wrong around her, she literally just hates me because everything is my fault to her.
Sorry if replies are slow... I'm also dealing with trying to talk my boyfriend out of one of his own anxiety attacks.

It might be worth organising a family councillor perhaps they may sort it out if not perhaps ask if he could move in with you? Im sorry about the situation *Hugs* stay strong things won't always be like this some day you will be able to be together in your own home with no troubles your a fantastic and wonderful person and you deserve the world truly she will regret her actions its only a matter of time your unbelievably kind and patient to have come this far don't give up now *Hugs*

-huggles tight-
Thank you so much for trying to help me with her but she's so controlling it doesn't seem anything will change. I've gained so much anxiety from listening to the things she says about my behind my back... She talks about my weight and how I don't do anything all day long. I'm at a loss on what to do anymore.

[NopesaurusRexx]

I'm being so silly, but I just need to let this out somewhere. Nothing good ever happens to me, I've accepted that my life is a lot of bad luck, and so I live with it, laugh it off, and move on. And now here is the possibility for something good and I am completely filled wit worry and doubt. As much as I try and relax, it's scary. I'm not used to this feeling, but I am used to being let down. I want this to work, but I can't stop my doubts.

[۵Ʋиιтʏ۵]

It might be worth organising a family councillor perhaps they may sort it out if not perhaps ask if he could move in with you? Im sorry about the situation *Hugs* stay strong things won't always be like this some day you will be able to be together in your own home with no troubles your a fantastic and wonderful person and you deserve the world truly she will regret her actions its only a matter of time your unbelievably kind and patient to have come this far don't give up now *Hugs*

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-huggles tight-
Thank you so much for trying to help me with her but she's so controlling it doesn't seem anything will change. I've gained so much anxiety from listening to the things she says about my behind my back... She talks about my weight and how I don't do anything all day long. I'm at a loss on what to do anymore.[/quote]

Perhaps she's looking for your attention it does happen now and again and if you don't give her the satisfaction of a reaction she might give up and realise her efforts are in vain. Show her how much more mature and wonderful you are and don't let her harsh and immature actions get to you i know you do get some who simply just don't care but everyone has a weakness and she is looking for a reaction so don't give her the satisfaction and stoop to her level your so much better then that and you always will be