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by ayomi » Mon Jun 15, 2015 7:40 am
I found out yesterday that my friend did something very stupid, and it'll affect me more than it will her, and she's trying to guilt me into thinking that what's gonna happen isn't her fault (even tried to make me think it was mine).
A pm or a hug would be great
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by nyacinth » Mon Jun 15, 2015 8:37 am
I can't stop crying
I'm so worried about someone and I want to be able to help but I can't do anything
I'm terrible with emotional advice and a few things I've said have made things worse
I just want to help so, so much but I can't
My best friend on the game's been upset all day and someone I admire is blaming himself, putting himself down and thinks we all hate him
He's trying to push everyone away and I'm sure it's hurting him as well
I don't know what to say to either of them
I just want everyone to be happy again, I hate this.
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by The One & Only Vapor » Mon Jun 15, 2015 9:12 am
my best friend and i are dangerously close to breaking apart.
it's extremely personal; we're almost startlingly close to each other, but today...it all fell apart. she started yelling, i started getting upset at that, she yelled more....then, i tried to be assertive and failed. i failed miserably. i insulted her horribly and...oh, i hope this relationship isn't damaged beyond repair, i literally don't know what i would do without her. i'm absolutely shattered and guilty, she's still furious and hurt, and neither of us know what to do. we are dangerously, terrifyingly close to splitting up.
all i want to do is fix this, but i have no clue how....
hello there! i'm the...
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by notactive » Mon Jun 15, 2015 9:17 am
The One & Only Vapor wrote:my best friend and i are dangerously close to breaking apart.
it's extremely personal; we're almost startlingly close to each other, but today...it all fell apart. she started yelling, i started getting upset at that, she yelled more....then, i tried to be assertive and failed. i failed miserably. i insulted her horribly and...oh, i hope this relationship isn't damaged beyond repair, i literally don't know what i would do without her. i'm absolutely shattered and guilty, she's still furious and hurt, and neither of us know what to do. we are dangerously, terrifyingly close to splitting up.
all i want to do is fix this, but i have no clue how....
losing friends is horrible, i've been there.
just try to find a good time to talk to her, and try to work out the problem. if you need to, take a break for a couple days and take a swing at it then, I wouldn't suggest trying until you feel ready. just remember if you've been friends for a long time, it may just be unlikely you'll break apart forever. good luck, you can pm me if you need any help ;u;
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by znu » Mon Jun 15, 2015 11:06 am
I'm done.
This is it.
I no longer want to deal with anything or anyone.
I'm so sick of my stepdad and I honestly hate it when he comes home from work. I don't want to hate him, he has been my stepdad for my whole life.
But I just can't like him.
please don't pm me about this, talking about this anymore is going to make me vomit
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by emerson royale, » Mon Jun 15, 2015 11:07 am
zen. wrote:I'm done.
This is it.
I no longer want to deal with anything or anyone.
I'm so sick of my stepdad and I honestly hate it when he comes home from work. I don't want to hate him, he has been my stepdad for my whole life.
But I just can't like him.
please don't pm me about this, talking about this anymore is going to make me vomit
~Hug~
You clearly don't want to talk about it, but have a hug.
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by I r o n. » Mon Jun 15, 2015 11:13 am
Seiko Shinohara wrote:I r o n. wrote:Seiko Shinohara wrote:I have no idea why I still think about my dog.
He's been dead since the day after Valentine's day a year ago. I saw a mini schnauzer earlier. It wasn't even the right colors, and it was a female, but just looking at it made me think of Buddy. I just started crying so hard. I miss him so much still, I don't even know how to say it. He was with me since I was born, and one day, he just decided to die the day after my dad's birthday, and I wasn't even there to say goodbye to my dog. Even as I'm typing this in crying.
I miss him so much... I wish he was still here to sit on my lap.
He was so calm... he never bit anyone, and he loved everybody. He would follow me around the whole house, and when I would take a nap, he would be right beside me.
My mom tells me to get over it. but it's not that easy, mom. I can't just 'get over it's Buddy was like my best friend. He would listen to me when I was sad, and he would lick my hand when he knew I wasn't feeling well.
I'm sorry, Buddy. I.wish I was there to.at least pet you one more time before you had to leave me.
oh my, i feel you..
my dog was just like you'res.. i feel like if he was a human, we would be <3 I was a baby when he was a puppy, I would let him drink my bottle, i would sleep with him in his dog bed, under a little desk. his name was broudise. my mom made a grave mistake in selling him, and we all mourn over him now he's dead.
i have even more stories to tell (a recent one) but i don't wanna make you feel worse, i'm so sorry, but it's natrul for things to grow old and evantually pass away. just remember he is still with you in spirit.
p.s luna, koda, and broudise we're exactly like Buddy, weird.. 
Hey, you wanna pm me and maybe we could talk about them...? I find it easier to talk about Buddy to someone because it helps get some of the sadness off my chest...
sorry for the slow reply, but I disabled my pm's, perhaps we coudl talk in trades? (its what I normally do to talk with people)
im quitting this game, i dont even enjoy it anymore, but i really did while it lasted!
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