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[Casistrophic]

hello!
i've been getting really strange romantic feelings
for my best friend. i don't really want to get into
detail about it. could someone explain? am i just
a quoiromantic? thanks for the help.

I firmly believe that labels for sexual and romantic orientation only work if they are known by more than a handful of people. If someone tried to come up with a different word for every single minute variation in the spectrum of human sexuality, we'd have...well, Tumblr.

You don't need to label yourself or try to fit yourself into the tiniest box possible. Feelings like this are normal, especially when you are growing up. These feelings might just end up being a phase, as they say, or they might not. There is really no explanation outside of the fact that puberty tends to create a lot of emotions and attractions that weren't there before, and it can take some getting used to.

If you want to pursue something with your friend, try to gauge her own orientation and feelings towards you first. If you'd rather not act on this attraction, focus yourself on other activities for a little while and the feelings will more than likely go away on their own in a little while.

[kay.]

Could someone please PM me? Mostly about someone I have liked for a long time and I haven't seen in years but I still can't get over him, and there is a small issue about a boy who I used to have a crush on messing around with my feelings. There will be a lot of words, just a warning.

[trip ♡]

she broke up with me bc it wasn't what she felt she needed in her life right now. which is understandable but it still hurts a lot. who knows how long she's felt like this. i'm in shock. and i don't know how to handle it. i love her so much.

[Keletheryl]

I went on my FIRST DATE EVER on Saturday!
Warning you now, if you wanna read please do! If not, then skip because it's going to be lengthy!


Ok, well first I met him in the food court at the mall, and he admitted to being really nervous even showed me he was shaking, but that’s ok because I was too.
He got food and I got a drink and we sat and ate and talked for a bit then I said I needed to go buy something for Mother’s Day.
So we went to Purdys and we got some chocolate and he helped me pay (idk why, cause I had enough money for it)
And then we walked around the mall and went into different stores and we went into the bay (which is like… an everything store minus groceries) and we tried out the couches/beds until we got dirty looks from the staff and so we left.
and we went into sport check and he told me about how his grandpa taught him how to golf and he did that thing in the movies where they go behind you and put their arms around you and put their hands on your hands and teach you how to hold the golf club/bat correctly. Yeah, he did that!
And then we went outside the mall and he climbed the stop sign haha trying to impress me so basically he’s got really nice arm muscles. Like really nice upper arm strength. Which is something I love.
And then mum was there to pick me up so I had to go so he hugged me goodbye and I left!

And after he said he wanted to see me again so it went really well!

Also I left out a lot of details cause I didnt want to make it too lengthy

[Ssilnah]

I really want to say hi to my crush but he would probably drop dead from shock if I did.

I have really bad social anxiety so I don't really talk to anyone except close friends. Whenever he does make an effort to talk to me, I am almost always rude to him accidentally because I go into panic mode and being within a few meters of him makes me shake. I feel like I have to get away from him but at the same time I want to be right next to him. If I did talk to him he'd guess that something was up and he'd definitely know that I'm crushing on him, not to mention my face would probably go redder than a tomato. =\

[chooch]

Ok so my problem is that a long time ago in 1st Grade I met 2 boys lets just say there names are M and J. So when I first met M and J it was when we were assigned to clean the classroom but they made fun of me for being the smallest in the grade. This made me cry (a lot) So I usually hid behind the globes to cry. until one day one of the teachers told them to stop. Which made things better about the situation and stopped picking on me.

Starting second Grade I realized they were in my class ( M and J are best friends) I got assigned to sit next to M which made me nervous because I was scared he was gonna pick on me like last time. But everything seemed fine and he made me laugh a lot. Which made me feel more comfortable. Then, I got assigned to sit next to J. J also made me laugh a lot. That year was fine. No more picking on me.

The next couple of years went by and now I have M in my class again. But I have grown feelings for J. M still always makes me laugh and we have grown closer in friendship. I like J but M doesn't know and I haven't told any of my friends that I like J but I have a feeling they know. I tried to tell J but I lost my words and walked away. After some time J started to date a girl named L. They dated for a couple of months but then broke up. For a gift when they were dating J got L a bracelet. But then I heard L call it cheap. Than J started to date N. I got really jealous. Me and J never talk cause were not in the same class but I miss him a lot. N and J broke up and he's free. I don't know how I should tell him because I'm afraid he will reject me. I sorta think he has feelings for me and dated L and N to get me jealous (Which worked) But I'm not sure. I just wish he knew how I felt. What should I do?

[Casistrophic]

Ok so my problem is that a long time ago in 1st Grade I met 2 boys lets just say there names are M and J. So when I first met M and J it was when we were assigned to clean the classroom but they made fun of me for being the smallest in the grade. This made me cry (a lot) So I usually hid behind the globes to cry. until one day one of the teachers told them to stop. Which made things better about the situation and stopped picking on me.

Starting second Grade I realized they were in my class ( M and J are best friends) I got assigned to sit next to M which made me nervous because I was scared he was gonna pick on me like last time. But everything seemed fine and he made me laugh a lot. Which made me feel more comfortable. Then, I got assigned to sit next to J. J also made me laugh a lot. That year was fine. No more picking on me.

The next couple of years went by and now I have M in my class again. But I have grown feelings for J. M still always makes me laugh and we have grown closer in friendship. I like J but M doesn't know and I haven't told any of my friends that I like J but I have a feeling they know. I tried to tell J but I lost my words and walked away. After some time J started to date a girl named L. They dated for a couple of months but then broke up. For a gift when they were dating J got L a bracelet. But then I heard L call it cheap. Than J started to date N. I got really jealous. Me and J never talk cause were not in the same class but I miss him a lot. N and J broke up and he's free. I don't know how I should tell him because I'm afraid he will reject me. I sorta think he has feelings for me and dated L and N to get me jealous (Which worked) But I'm not sure. I just wish he knew how I felt. What should I do?

Why are you interested in a guy who you believe would manipulate other girls and toy with their feelings just to make you feel bad?

[chooch]

Ok so my problem is that a long time ago in 1st Grade I met 2 boys lets just say there names are M and J. So when I first met M and J it was when we were assigned to clean the classroom but they made fun of me for being the smallest in the grade. This made me cry (a lot) So I usually hid behind the globes to cry. until one day one of the teachers told them to stop. Which made things better about the situation and stopped picking on me.

Starting second Grade I realized they were in my class ( M and J are best friends) I got assigned to sit next to M which made me nervous because I was scared he was gonna pick on me like last time. But everything seemed fine and he made me laugh a lot. Which made me feel more comfortable. Then, I got assigned to sit next to J. J also made me laugh a lot. That year was fine. No more picking on me.

The next couple of years went by and now I have M in my class again. But I have grown feelings for J. M still always makes me laugh and we have grown closer in friendship. I like J but M doesn't know and I haven't told any of my friends that I like J but I have a feeling they know. I tried to tell J but I lost my words and walked away. After some time J started to date a girl named L. They dated for a couple of months but then broke up. For a gift when they were dating J got L a bracelet. But then I heard L call it cheap. Than J started to date N. I got really jealous. Me and J never talk cause were not in the same class but I miss him a lot. N and J broke up and he's free. I don't know how I should tell him because I'm afraid he will reject me. I sorta think he has feelings for me and dated L and N to get me jealous (Which worked) But I'm not sure. I just wish he knew how I felt. What should I do?

Why are you interested in a guy who you believe would manipulate other girls and toy with their feelings just to make you feel bad?

I just have a feeling he did that. It's just a guess it's probably not true. I like him because there's just something that I can't explain. Something about him.

[broker]

Nemo.@ Well, as grimace worthy of the thought is of doing it is, I think you should just tell him. I can't say it's going to be easy if he turns you down, but I defiantly think it's worth doing now, instead of worrying about it. :)

And hey! If it turns out he does have feelings for you, or he wants to give the idea of a relationship a shot, I'd say it's a win win.

When you do talk to each other, what does he act like around you? feel free to pm me if you'd like

ArtemisWolf@ Ah well, as unnerving the thought is to actually sum up the courage and try and have a conversation, it's worth pursuing!

Try not to think of it as such a big deal, :) he's just another human being like you, or your friends.

Honestly if I was in your circumstance, I'd try and start with a friendship. Just talk with him, the more you're around him, and the better you get to know each other, the more comfortable you'll be. :>

If you're scared that your feelings for him will be obvious, sometimes that's not a terribly bad thing in itself. He'll probably be flattered if he figures you have a crush on him. :)

He's tried to talk with you before? (Did he initiate it?) And out of curiosity, how many times have you been in a conversation with him? c:

CaptainMarvel@ hehehe! that's so cute :D it sounds like it went really well! congratulations <3
is he making plans to meet up again soon? <3

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T (my crush) asked me to a dance.

it's not until after I enthusiastically say yes, and explain that nothing should come up when I realize and fully comprehend the definition of

"dancing"



IT'S NOT LIKE it's a big deal or anything it's a family dance outing and I'm sure he won't do all the dances with me, bUT I'LL BE DANCING WITH HIM?? AS IN MY HANDS WILL BE TOUCHING HIS HANDS AND WE'LL BE CLOSE TOGETHEr brb dying o/////o

how in the world am I going to dance with him if I can't even think about him without getting butterflies

any idea how to die down the nerves? ;o; thanks in advance

[Keletheryl]

CaptainMarvel@ hehehe! that's so cute it sounds like it went really well! congratulations <3
is he making plans to meet up again soon? <3

He wants me to go to a party of his next weekend so i'll be going to that... after that hopefully if things continue to go well, I want to take him to this place I used to work because he loves animals as much as I do and I think he'd really like it.