|TheComfortCorner| v.4

[.m i n y o o n g i]

Unless I raise my hand to answer do not freaking call on me, put yourself in my place, do you really want me to have another breakdown? The last one was your fault anyway.

My teachers are idiots! I get they are trying to get me to be involved. but I have to be comfortable with it, not you. I can't stand it when my teachers pick me when I don't raise my hand. People are raising their hands, pick them, they want to answer.

Sorry, just needed to rant a bit.

[Svel]

I. Am. Breaking. From the inside. It's too much. I don't know if I'll make it. It just hurts. My friends have all ditched me except the wonderful people I meet online. My dog just died on the 17th which is the 4th person close to me I've lost. When I lose someone, all of my past experiences come rushing back at me. I was having trouble with my advanced math homework Wednesday night but my dad took forever to come home and my mom was at my brother's baseball game. My mom told me that my dad was supposed to be home soon when she left so I started my homework. My dad called me about 30 minutes before he came home, asking me what I wanted to eat for dinner. I told him I needed help with math which I NEVER ask for help with homework. He actually came home around 6-8 o'clock pm, dropped of the food, and went to pick up my sister which should have taken 20 minutes. He came back about 1-2 hours later because he decided they'd stay for dinner. By then mom had already come home and I was done for the night. I went to bed and got a 50 point deduction in class for not having my homework which is the policy for late homework in advanced math. I'm still upset at him. I actually ASKED him for help that night and he didn't help me at all because he was to busy doing what he wanted to do. Sorry about the rant. I just needed to get this off my chest.

I'm really sorry about your dog and other experiences you are currently having to undergo. <3 I've lost a few loved ones in the past, including a few pets, definitely feel for you there! We all have expectations of others, and when those people don't meet them, we end up being upset at them. You may feel upset with your dad because you wanted him to help you with your homework, and he didn't. That feeling was further triggered by the fact that you had a point deduction for not having your work. But picture you in your dad's shoes. Tired after a long day at work, and just wanted to have some leisure time. Math probably wasn't the first thing he wanted to do. If you need any help with maths next time, or any other subject for that matter, write a note and leave it for him to read when he comes home, so he may help you with it in the morning ^^ Or, just tell your teacher that you had trouble with maths. I'm sure your teacher will understand c:

I need something to relive the pain in my heart every time I think about everyone who's left. I just... Want to cry... Please... I don't want to lose anyone else...

Don't feel down! Be yourself, be optimistic of the future. Life is never easy, it comes full of hardships. All those who have left you, only prove how strong you are! Despite their leaving, you're still here! So smile, for you have gone through a lot, and no matter what the future brings, realize that you have become stronger in the process.

every single damn night. if it's not tranny dysphoria it's anxiety over every minor social detail imaginable.
if my sentence structure is wrong, i panic. if i use one word wrong, i panic. if it's a minute too late or early, i panic. if i do one thing before the other, i panic. if i put anything in the wrong place, i panic. on the rare occasion when i think i did everything right for once, i start panicking over things i did days or weeks ago instead. logically, i know it doesn't matter. but i still get this repulsive gut-feeling that someone is going to see something out of place and think i'm a total narcissistic assquat.
i just had a nervous fit over the countdown on a frigging easter banner.
what the damn hell. please stop.

Panicking is okay sometimes. It allows you to be the best you can be. Don't mind what people think of you, for those are opinions, You know who your true self is. Perfection is almost never achieved, so don't panic over a wrongdoing you have done. Let it go, and be proud of yourself, for you have come so far, and there will be so much more for you to achieve in the future!

Today was a horrible Monday
and let's just say I feel like a stupid awkward loser right now that nobody likes (which is true, I already got all the boys and half of the girls in my class on my back already)
I mean I seem to mess up
every
single
day
with me being a stupid shy idiot that gets tense easily and has no idea how to interact with others without writing off as a scary or closed-off person

I mean I just want friends, is that so hard to ask for?
Why am I even asking this question? EVERYTHING I ask for is hard to get

This might be the last year I spend in my worst nightmare school if all goes well and I pass my exams
But I feel as if I can't take another day of embarrassment and laughter directed at me
I'm planning to play Toontown later today but now...
I don't even know if the remedy that works best will help right now

ok sorry for ranting I'll head off now

I'm sure someone out there likes you. I assure you someone out there likes you. You just don't know it yet! <3 No one is perfect, no one, so messing up is perfectly normal! (I've messed up loads of times, some messes probably larger then the ones you've made P:) With this in mind, no one has the right to laugh at you. They aren't perfect either! Don't mind what the others think. You're perfect the way you are, and if they can't see the good in you, that's their problem, their loss. Just be yourself, and sooner or later, you'll find yourself with a friend in no time Nothing in life comes easy, but the struggles you overcome show how far you have come to achieve what you have achieved. Smile, and be yourself, and let life take you to your destined path <3

Unless I raise my hand to answer do not freaking call on me, put yourself in my place, do you really want me to have another breakdown? The last one was your fault anyway.

My teachers are idiots! I get they are trying to get me to be involved. but I have to be comfortable with it, not you. I can't stand it when my teachers pick me when I don't raise my hand. People are raising their hands, pick them, they want to answer.

Sorry, just needed to rant a bit.

If you are uncomfortable with teachers calling on you, you can always tell them so whenever you feel comfortable doing so. From past experience, those who usually don't participate in class get picked on most, so if it gets to the point where it is needed, raise your hand and try out an answer! It's okay to not get it right, but it's not okay to not try! Hopefully your teachers will be more understanding in the near future! c:

[Queen Frost]

If ANY of you need a hug just pm me. I'm reading all your posts but it's too much to answer individually, but you're in my prayers.

My step mom's hurting my feelings again
Intentionally
In front of people
I can't stand it
She actually took a stab at my health problems, that she doesn't even understand
I really don't want to say bad things about people, but I really don't know what to do
I really could just use a hug

I'm just bumping this because no ones said anything

It's so wrong when people mock health problems that they have no experience with, or even know what it is. I know how you feel. You didn't specify which type of health problem you have (a mental one, emotional, physical etc.) but I had a disorder last year that caused me to do something unusual, and my mum just told me to 'snap out of it' like it was easy and I was doing it on purpose And she did it front of other family members too which just added to the embarrassment.

I don't know the details of your situation, but just try not to let your stepmom get to you. Health problems are never the person's fault, they just attack some unlucky people at random. Maybe you could find some reliable websites with infomation of your health problem on, and show it to her? Maybe then she'll realize that you can't help it, or control it.

*Virtual hug* You'll be okay bud, just hang in there and if you're ever feeling down send me a PM! :3

(EDIT: Just a quick question to anyone who knows the answer, if I were to make fanart of the mascot Rose, where would I post it? Would I PM it to Pandle?)

[sarapkm]

can someone pm me? i feel so much sadness and everything around me hurts
i need to vent again
self confidence went down the drain

[Zish]

It's so hard to see your friends breaking right in front of you, when you've already said all you could and they refuse to listen to what you have to say. I don't want to be preachy or anything, but I think I know what they need but they refuse to take it. I don't understand what to do from here... how can you help someone who doesn't want help, yet at the same time seems like they want it? What am I supposed to say without telling them what I really think? Am I being to pushy? I just don't know. It's one friend in particular...

~Off CS~

[My Immortal]

I can't hardly even talk to my own friends anymore. I am shutting down. I end up super awkward. And sad and it's just bad. I really wish someone would give me a hug. And just let me talk to them. But at the same time if they did I'd probably be too awkward to handle it.

I'm just super depressed in general. I want someone to care. But I sometimes feel I'm not capable of caring in return. And I don't want to impede on anyone else's life.

Also I fainted yesterday and hit my head so hard it bled. And my mom's so like oh well. Oh well?! I've got blood running down my face!

Sorry for all that...

[nevermind.]

I can't hardly even talk to my own friends anymore. I am shutting down. I end up super awkward. And sad and it's just bad. I really wish someone would give me a hug. And just let me talk to them. But at the same time if they did I'd probably be too awkward to handle it.

I'm just super depressed in general. I want someone to care. But I sometimes feel I'm not capable of caring in return. And I don't want to impede on anyone else's life.

Also I fainted yesterday and hit my head so hard it bled. And my mom's so like oh well. Oh well?! I've got blood running down my face!

Sorry for all that...

You can pm me if you want, dear. ♡
I'm also awkward sometimes, but that really shouldn't prevent you from talking with someone.
It relieves.
Here, have a hug.
*hugs*
And there's really no need to be sorry, this is the comfort corner after all, it's what it's made for. c:



I care about you.

[Sambee]

Hi...i'm pretty much just a suicidal teen struggling with depression, anxiety, and low self esteem. Right now i'm really lonely and pretty much feel like the entire world hates me. Really just need someone to talk to

[My Immortal]

I can't hardly even talk to my own friends anymore. I am shutting down. I end up super awkward. And sad and it's just bad. I really wish someone would give me a hug. And just let me talk to them. But at the same time if they did I'd probably be too awkward to handle it.

I'm just super depressed in general. I want someone to care. But I sometimes feel I'm not capable of caring in return. And I don't want to impede on anyone else's life.

Also I fainted yesterday and hit my head so hard it bled. And my mom's so like oh well. Oh well?! I've got blood running down my face!

Sorry for all that...

You can pm me if you want, dear. ♡
I'm also awkward sometimes, but that really shouldn't prevent you from talking with someone.
It relieves.
Here, have a hug.
*hugs*
And there's really no need to be sorry, this is the comfort corner after all, it's what it's made for. c:



I care about you.

Thank you so much. <3
Its really nice to hear that people care

[nevermind.]

Hi...i'm pretty much just a suicidal teen struggling with depression, anxiety, and low self esteem. Right now i'm really lonely and pretty much feel like the entire world hates me. Really just need someone to talk to

You can talk to me, if you want, on the thread or via pm.
And, believe me, it's impossible for the whole world to hate you.
I could find you at least one person that doesn't, even if that's just me. ♥

Thank you so much. <3
Its really nice to hear that people care

Naww, how could someone not care for you?
You're so cute and nice!