i don't either. though, the mods obviously do. she's been warned multiple times, and has PMed me about it, upset and distressed. if she doesn't want to be warned, she should tone down the blood and gore. someone twisting like a strand of licorice and cracking their neck could be seen as cartoon violence by younger children, since i don't include gruesome details about how she appears doing it; i mainly describe sounds and actions, rather than the image, which can give enough detail to understand what the character is doing. yeah, it might be disturbing, but it's not realistic. shoving a fist down someone's throat, looking at images of people with their necks and throats ripped open, and slicing open the mid-section of a zombie, all scenes i've experienced roleplaying with frank, and all in immense detail, can be seen as being more realistic and gruesome than having hyper-extended bones.
i hope you understand what i'm saying because it's hard to explain. though that's my opinion.