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[Jaaay]

So update on my last post (about some popular boy presumably trying to "get my attention"), he spoke to me today for the first time. It was just something really simple, he came up and asked for my pencil and smiled the whole time and kept trying to make eye contact with me. Then he went back to his seat and I heard his friends giggling and saying, "Do it, do it!" and literally five seconds after that, I got a friend request from him on Facebook.

So I think he's messing with me ._. Which is really rude and stupid and would be hurtful if I liked him, but I thankfully do not.

The question is, how do I make him stop? It's really annoying, actually.

Ive had this happen to me before. Its rude and hurtful. I just kept ignoring the boy and he eventually left me alone. Thats just me though.. You probably need to stand up to him and tell him to leave you alone if it continues.

[[x]]

Ok, well, there is this guy (obviously), who I think might like me.
Lots of times I will look over at him and notice him staring/looking at me. He’s also been a lot more talkative around me. I mean, it’s not like we NEVER talked before, seen as he’s my best friend’s cousin, but our chats have been a lot more frequent.
One day on the bus (we take the same bus) he said hello to me as I walked on, which he has never done before. After our greeting we talked a bit, and then a kid a year younger than us said something. I told him to be quiet, then the guy suggested gagging him as a joke to make him be quiet. He ‘gagged’ him with his sweater sleeve and we continued talking.
Today in science our class had to dissect a sheep’s eyeball. Two of my best friend’s and I refused to do it. I was terrified- and when I’m scared, I cry. He tried reassuring me that it wasn’t as bad as it seemed, but I still didn’t do it. My friends and I went to the teacher’s classroom to study for our socials test two blocks later, and he came in after the first bell (It was a double block). We asked him some questions about the project, and after answering he- jokingly- asked if we wanted him to tell us what happened in detail. We all exchanged little jokes, and I think he was looking at me after each one?!

This isn’t everything that has happened between us, but all that I can remember at this moment. I’m not sure if he likes me or not, and I’m not sure if I like him or not… but advice would be appreciated!

[alienboy]

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[Wolven]

Ok, well, there is this guy (obviously), who I think might like me.
Lots of times I will look over at him and notice him staring/looking at me. He’s also been a lot more talkative around me. I mean, it’s not like we NEVER talked before, seen as he’s my best friend’s cousin, but our chats have been a lot more frequent.
One day on the bus (we take the same bus) he said hello to me as I walked on, which he has never done before. After our greeting we talked a bit, and then a kid a year younger than us said something. I told him to be quiet, then the guy suggested gagging him as a joke to make him be quiet. He ‘gagged’ him with his sweater sleeve and we continued talking.
Today in science our class had to dissect a sheep’s eyeball. Two of my best friend’s and I refused to do it. I was terrified- and when I’m scared, I cry. He tried reassuring me that it wasn’t as bad as it seemed, but I still didn’t do it. My friends and I went to the teacher’s classroom to study for our socials test two blocks later, and he came in after the first bell (It was a double block). We asked him some questions about the project, and after answering he- jokingly- asked if we wanted him to tell us what happened in detail. We all exchanged little jokes, and I think he was looking at me after each one?!

This isn’t everything that has happened between us, but all that I can remember at this moment. I’m not sure if he likes me or not, and I’m not sure if I like him or not… but advice would be appreciated!

Mk, I got your back. I'm having around the same experience your having, but a tad different. Something I, personally, would do, is ask a close friend of yours to ask him how he feels about you. Make him/her ask in a jokingly way. Most guys communicate with jokes and immature pranks, so it'll be easier if you have your friend ask in a round-a-bout way. Also, if he does happen to have feelings for you, don't make a big deal out of it~!

If you don't like him, then you don't. If you do like him, then you do! Don't try and force feelings that aren't there.
~Wolven~

[VintageSongBird]

*Cough cough* help?

I think he likes me!

So heres the deal. This guy does not go to my school, but he goes to my church. I usualy only saw him sitting in the back of the service, and I thought he was really handsome. Then, my church put together a youth choir, and we are both in it. Now let me tell you, Singing. is. my. life. And the fact that he has a beautiful voice just made me like him so much more. And I have talked with him a few times, just casual conversation, and he is so nice! Welllately he has started to come to sunday school and youth group as well. I find myself waiting for sunday just to see him, even if we dont really talk or anything. Of course I should probably mention I catch him looking at me a lot. At first I thought I was just imagining, wishfull thinking you could say, but two of my friends have agreed he seems to look at me a lot. I talked to him yesterday for like 15 minutes, just casual,and when we were done talking I felt like I was floating on a cloud. I was thinking about giving him a note on valentines day, (or week or whatev) that simply says "I'd like to get to know you better." since we have only talked to him a few times to telling him I liked him would be kind of premature. I dont know, What do you guys think about all of this?

[Retrouvailles]

Hello. （＾ｖ＾）

So me and my boyfriend got together Janurary 18th this year. When we're first met each other we completely hated each other, but after two months of talking we became closer and closer to each other. 3 months ago we became best friends, and we told each other everything. I love that I know everything about him. I know that I found love, he is my love. My first ever love, and hopefully my only. Anyways, so for my birthday me and him were going to go somewhere, but my family wants to come, which I understand why. Does anyone know any romantic, but you know kid friendly places? Thanks in advanced! ❤

[Jaaay]

I guess you can say I'm back with my ex... Technically we are because we've been hanging out, and when we hang out we're exchanging I love yous, kissing, hugging... And then when he goes home, he face times me and we FaceTime all night. While we're in school he's talking to me all day, which he never used to do.. He talks to me more and treats me better than he ever did, yet says he's not ready to be in a relationship with me yet. I'm just confused. I mean honestly I'm not ready either.. So I'm ok with waiting but just confused with how we've been acting together the last couple days..

[;LEVIATHAN;]

So I have this crush. Actually, two crushes on two entirely different people. I'll start with the boy first.

Boy Problem: There's this guy at school I like. Duh. But I've never actually ever interacted with him. The closest we've come to talking is when I dropped my chapstick in the stairwell and asked him to pick it up without knowing it was him. I've liked him since last year and frankly, it's becoming an obsession. I've somehow memorized his schedule. We have gym together, which is torture because while he looks gorgeous in his gym clothes, I feel like a hairy, beached whale in mine. My shop teacher, when I accidentally let on that I liked the guy, gave me some pointers about how to start a conversation with him but that was a week ago. I'm just too scared to do it! Next year, he'll probably be going to the private school, too, while I go to the public high school. How do I talk to him without seeming like a creepy stalker girl?

Girl Problems: I'm also really in love with this girl. She feels the same, but while I'm in 8th grade, she's in 12th, lives in Florida, and has a boyfriend. We talk to each other about our crushes and out problems, and she was even there for me when my ex girlfriend (our friend) cheated on/broke up with me. I feel really strongly about her but I just feel like a toddler whenever we talk about, like, loving each other because of our age difference. Am I being too optimistic about this or is it okay to feel this way?

And no, I wouldn't date both of them at the same time, if I was ever that lucky to have that opportunity cx I have just have a big heart I guess. And sorry for any typos or mistakes made in this post. I'm really tired ^~^'

[Casistrophic]

So I have this crush. Actually, two crushes on two entirely different people. I'll start with the boy first.

Boy Problem: There's this guy at school I like. Duh. But I've never actually ever interacted with him. The closest we've come to talking is when I dropped my chapstick in the stairwell and asked him to pick it up without knowing it was him. I've liked him since last year and frankly, it's becoming an obsession. I've somehow memorized his schedule. We have gym together, which is torture because while he looks gorgeous in his gym clothes, I feel like a hairy, beached whale in mine. My shop teacher, when I accidentally let on that I liked the guy, gave me some pointers about how to start a conversation with him but that was a week ago. I'm just too scared to do it! Next year, he'll probably be going to the private school, too, while I go to the public high school. How do I talk to him without seeming like a creepy stalker girl?

Girl Problems: I'm also really in love with this girl. She feels the same, but while I'm in 8th grade, she's in 12th, lives in Florida, and has a boyfriend. We talk to each other about our crushes and out problems, and she was even there for me when my ex girlfriend (our friend) cheated on/broke up with me. I feel really strongly about her but I just feel like a toddler whenever we talk about, like, loving each other because of our age difference. Am I being too optimistic about this or is it okay to feel this way?

And no, I wouldn't date both of them at the same time, if I was ever that lucky to have that opportunity cx I have just have a big heart I guess. And sorry for any typos or mistakes made in this post. I'm really tired ^~^'

I would pursue the boy. The girl is too far away, too old for you, and you would have to break her up with her boyfriend to be with her, which is scummy. I had a long distance relationship before and I thought it was just fine, but when I got my next boyfriend I realized exactly how much less ideal an LDR is. Being able to see your SO every day or even most days makes a HUGE difference. Not that an LDR will never work or that it's never worth it, but usually they work when a couple starts out together and then one moves away. You need a strong and familiar base for the relationship to work. All the potential for a good relationship point toward the boy.

[Retrouvailles]

Hello. （＾ｖ＾）

So me and my boyfriend got together Janurary 18th this year. When we're first met each other we completely hated each other, but after two months of talking we became closer and closer to each other. 3 months ago we became best friends, and we told each other everything. I love that I know everything about him. I know that I found love, he is my love. My first ever love, and hopefully my only. Anyways, so for my birthday me and him were going to go somewhere, but my family wants to come, which I understand why. Does anyone know any romantic, but you know kid friendly places? Thanks in advanced! ❤