The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

[Mysterious_Viking]

Hmm...I guess I'll give this a shot.

I'm actually going through my first major crush. At the end of 8th grade I realized that I really liked this guy. I shall just call him "Bob" for now. x3 So. I've known "Bob" since 1st grade (I am a freshman) and I think I may or may not of had a playground crush on him. I don' quite remember.

I'm not quite sure why I like him. He can be a bit annoying at times. But we have a lot in the way of similarities. I'd list them, but I don't want to bore you guys. "Bob" has no idea I like him and I don't plan on telling him. I mean, both my sister and my best friend find my crush on him amusing. Ech.

I'm not quite sure what to do.

Try and be a better friend and hang out with him more. Then you two will get to know each other better, he might start to like you. But remember, don't push it and be around him 24/7. If you do, then he'll know you like him. Instead, say hi and smile when you walk by each other. If you two have a chance to talk and have a common interest, let's say it's football, then talk about football. If it's drawing, then talk about drawing. Basically, talk about anything you both enjoy. Then in a few months, you should know if he likes you or not.

I'm posting this here too.

I would have had a boyfriend today.

If my ex best friend hadn't been mad at me for moving tables to sit with someone else, because I was having no fun, and was being ignored. Would you guys like to hear the events on how I ended up and broke down crying? I don't care. I'm going to explain anyway.

My ex best friend, Let's call her.. 'R'. Last night R made a huge deal about this morning. How something was going to happen. Yet, I had no idea what. So I instantly assumed the worst. Guess what? Nothing happened this morning. So yeah, you would be a little ticked too. So then there was lunch. As I explained earlier, I sat with someone else today because I was ignored and not feeing very welcome. So my punishment? My friggin punishment was that: She told him, told him, not to ask me out. She told him not to. Because I was pissed. So now, why am I here? My best friend is now my ex friend, and now my crush won't talk to me. Great. Whoop-dee-doo. What a great day. I miss talking to him already. I'm hurt. I've been crying. She really went too far this time. After all the crud she pulled, this is by far the worst. Because it was just mean. I am SO hurt. And now she's trying to blame it one me. No.

What do I do about my crush?

Explain to your crush what was going on. If he was going to ask you out in the first place, after you explain it to him and he understands, he should ask you out again. If he's avoiding you too, then get one of your friends to tell him or find a way so he'll have to lisen to you. If he won't talk and isn't avoiding you, then all you have to do is find him and tell him. The fact that he was going to ask you out in the first place means he likes you back, and he'll probably want to listen to you and go out with you.

[|Hype|]

Ok I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and now i think i am starting to like him again...... I also like this other guy but he doesnt like me. My ex has been being really rude to me but on the bus on friday the other guy i kinda like told me (and his friend also told me) that my ex is going to start asking me out again. Now my ex has licked me since 1st grade but we dated (and broke up) like 10 times and i am the one that keeps breaking up with him!

Now the other that doesn't like me but i kinda like him..... he always gives me candy (well gives me and my friend candy) I told my friend to ask him if he likes me but he said he doesn't. and he always throws wrappers at me.

Do either of them actually like me?

[Mysterious_Viking]

Ok I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and now i think i am starting to like him again...... I also like this other guy but he doesnt like me. My ex has been being really rude to me but on the bus on friday the other guy i kinda like told me (and his friend also told me) that my ex is going to start asking me out again. Now my ex has licked me since 1st grade but we dated (and broke up) like 10 times and i am the one that keeps breaking up with him!

Now the other that doesn't like me but i kinda like him..... he always gives me candy (well gives me and my friend candy) I told my friend to ask him if he likes me but he said he doesn't. and he always throws wrappers at me.

Do either of them actually like me?

Your Ex:
It depends on his personality. If he's usually perverted, rude, selfish, etc., then I think he doesn't like you and is only dating you just to date. If he's usually nice and polite, then he does like you.

The Guy You Kind of Like:
I don't think he likes you; he's just trying to be a friend (assuming you two are friends.) If you two barely know each other and almost never talk, then he might like you a little bit.

[marshmallowmoo]

Um, I have a teeny-tiny crush (super teeny-tiny) crush. Tiny. He is 6 months older than me and in secondary school (and I'm not). I fought with him all the time when we were little, but now I'm not sure if he likes me or not. Plus, I go to an all-girl school and he goes to a mixed school. Should I try to start something? Please help.

[Mysterious_Viking]

Um, I have a teeny-tiny crush (super teeny-tiny) crush. Tiny. He is 6 months older than me and in secondary school (and I'm not). I fought with him all the time when we were little, but now I'm not sure if he likes me or not. Plus, I go to an all-girl school and he goes to a mixed school. Should I try to start something? Please help.

First, find out if he likes you or already has a girlfriend. Ask his friends or even him himself. If you're to nervous, get one of your friends to ask one of his friends to ask him. If you find out he does like you and doesn't have a girlfriend, then great, go for it! If he likes you but has a girlfriend, then wait for them to beak up, then go for it or wait for him to make a move. If he doesn't like you but doesn't have a girlfriend, then try to be his friend and get to know him better, then he might start to like you. If he doesn't like you and has a girlfriend, then wait for them to break up and then be his friend and get to know him better.

[marshmallowmoo]

Okay, thank you for your help!

[blue.]

Well there''s this boy, let's call him J and me E.

Well, I think he likes me, but I can't be sure.

When we were sitting at our tables, this is the conversation we had:

*Random Funny Jokes then*

E: Who are you going to the dance with, Oh I know, A jammy dodger
*He laughs {You had to be there *
J: No one, you?
E: No one, I will probably just go with my friends.
J: What?
E: I said No one and I will robably just go with my friends if no one asks me.
J: Oh
Then he looks at me like he wants to ask me something then looks away.

But he is basically the only boy in my year that is round about my height, I'm the tallest in my year . He used to have a crush on my best friend when they were like 5 though.

He makes me laugh and gives me butterflies and I make him laugh, We share a few jokes from time to time when his jerk of a friend is not there. This jerk of a friend and me are worst enemys and he always calls me ugly and I am scared that J will not ask me because of his friend.

Also if I ask him and he says no or yes, I will be so embarassed because his mum and my mum are friends and he has been over to my house before because of this and also all the boys in my year will be like 'J and E are in love, whit woo' and worser things.

Help

[Mysterious_Viking]

Well there''s this boy, let's call him J and me E.

Well, I think he likes me, but I can't be sure.

When we were sitting at our tables, this is the conversation we had:

*Random Funny Jokes then*

E: Who are you going to the dance with, Oh I know, A jammy dodger
*He laughs {You had to be there *
J: No one, you?
E: No one, I will probably just go with my friends.
J: What?
E: I said No one and I will robably just go with my friends if no one asks me.
J: Oh
Then he looks at me like he wants to ask me something then looks away.

But he is basically the only boy in my year that is round about my height, I'm the tallest in my year . He used to have a crush on my best friend when they were like 5 though.

He makes me laugh and gives me butterflies and I make him laugh, We share a few jokes from time to time when his jerk of a friend is not there. This jerk of a friend and me are worst enemys and he always calls me ugly and I am scared that J will not ask me because of his friend.

Also if I ask him and he says no or yes, I will be so embarassed because his mum and my mum are friends and he has been over to my house before because of this and also all the boys in my year will be like 'J and E are in love, whit woo' and worser things.

Help

It's up to you. If you think you two going out is worth your moms, enemy, and everybody else knowing, then go for it. If he's too nervous to ask you out, then you ask him out. Most people think it's weird for the girl to ask out the guy, but it's not. It's just more common for the guy to ask out the girl.

[blue.]

Thank you , he might. I will see, there is still 5 or 6 months left

[KoolAid&Cyanide]

Ok, so I don't have really a problem (ok, actually, i have humongous guy problems, but that's not what I need help with, I'm sorting them out on my own for now), so much as something I would like some advice on. So here's my predicament:

So there's this guy in my class, Logan, and we both used to really like each other two years ago (we never told each other, but it was obvious he liked me and I really liked him), and I still like him a tiny tiny bit. Well, anyways, I was in the classroom at lunch time, and Dylan, one of my guy friends, told me that Logan likes me. It wasn't really a just kind of straight-up "Logan likes you", it was more, well, why don't I just explain it? It was just me and Dylan in the classroom, not an unusual occurence, especially under the current circumstances (which I will not take the time to explain). Dylan was explaining how our seating arrangement would be in a perfect world. He put himself by Lexi, the girl he likes, and me and Logan beside each other. Why I asked why he did that, he said, "Because he likes you.", rather matter-of-factly. I was kind of in shock for a couple of seconds, because I honestly didn't think Logan was interested in me anymore, but then I thought about it, and it did explain some things, not all of them directly having to do with Logan (again, not going into detail).
Ok, so anyways, after all that explaining here's the situation: I want to ask Logan if he actually does like me, just so I can know for sure. I don't really need advice on how to bring it up, I'm pretty sure I'll be able to bring it up out of nowhere at some time when it's just us (which should happen sometime soon, i mean, we're in the same class, we both lifeguard), but my problem is rather how to phrase it. My original thought was to mention that Dyl brought it up, but that could get Logan ticked at Dylan, and I wouldn't want to be the cause of that. So I was just wondering what would work best, if I asked "Dylan mentioned you like me, is that true?", or instead, "I heard ypu like me, is that true?", or "Someone said you like me, is that true?", or just straight-up " Do you like me?". Straight-up do you like me?" is kind of direct and really catches a person off-guard, in my opinion, but "i heard you like me" sounds kinda like it could be a rumour or something. I know I'm probablh fretting too much over little details, but I think the right wording really counts to get the right answer, and I want advice from someone who's probably been there.