thunderofthedrum wrote:Barmy Smarmy wrote:shoprite Eric's fb page status says single. but my friend request is unseen? maybe he does not use it 1 hour every day
but i am wondering if i might be demiromantic and that is an awful and akward way to flirt. "I think i'd like to like you, but maybe relationships also terrorfy me, and i am unsure i am capible of those feelings, and it's deplorable to ask if you can be practice"
Well perhaps not say that haha.. Not everyone dates with the intention of getting married. You can just date to see if you enjoy it and like the person. Even if you decide you wouldn't marry them, it's not the end of the world to stay with them for a while as long as they don't have their heart set on marrying you (in which case that would be definitely leading them on and not cool). To be fair, I kind of did that to someone. He'd been dropping some pretty obvious hints that he saw long term potential with me and I didn't set him straight when I decided I felt differently.
Regarding facebook, not sure what the connection was supposed to be between his relationship status and your friend request to him. I know plenty of people who like to keep their relationship status off of facebook (myself included) and even more to ignore friend requests, whether because they don't remember to look, haven't decided on you, don't want to but feel bad clicking 'ignore', etc.
I dated a guy and he put our relationship on facebook (which I really hadn't predicted of him) and now I'm with a guy who doesn't like his personal information on the internet. And that's fine with me; I'm private and I don't think it's everyone's business that we're together. This Eric guy could totally be single or he could simply just never change his status, even when he IS in a relationship.
I do not drive and cannot go o shoprite just to "have a flirt", in any way websites suggest you act for that, and if they don't , act like some dingus girl in a romantic comedy movie. so i had gotten his name by using my parifieal visions, and checked to see what Eric was doing, as i had not been with stepfather food shopping for several weeks, and almost forgot Eric existed and his thing says he is single now, so i can move "in for the kill". so if he is going to go to the fb, and see communication attempts. i can communicate without waiting to see if i am at the shoprite when he is working. because it is not cool to do that. unless you are the adults, and someone is working, and they are a flirty bartender or barastia, or wait tables, you don't chase down the "I do many things at the supermarket" person.
so i thought he was homosexual for a while, because i would try to smile and wave, and he would not notice me. but then I saw his fb and he had a girlfriend. so in the perfect world, if he would of liked me, he would wink back or something right? in the store. I was almost going to be a fool and crash into him, like the girlygoo websites suggest, "get a guy's attention and walk into him"
but i guess then he would have 0 intrest. saying hi with a nod is being a "I am a good guy who knows how to work in the public" in a perfect world, they would always have little notes on their person, so "oh hey it's you, here's my number" or "hey I need to help the new employe bag, but I'm going to have a flirt with you =D"
when i had checked back and he had a new photo, and then i look at the info because the side bar lacked the relationship status. his eyes in the photo looked a lot differnt, so maybe then they did and are sad eyes. so i guess then that is why he looked a bit differnt. maybe it was on the other end. I dont know.
i am under the impression most other people feel attraction 9 out of 10 eye glazes, and if i am in the social place, I never really see anyone with "I want to have talk, and wow i like this look" or maybe people are joking when they are "i went shopping and to a party today, there were 40 very good looking people i wanted to flirt up with"
