♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[surfiez]

So I just had a dream… okay so before I tell you what happened in the dream I just wanna let everyone know that I was between two guys and for about a month now I've been dating the other guy that came along (crush number 2) while I really liked crush number 1. Ok so in the dream we were at a party at a really old hotel kinda house and I was waiting for my boyfriend to show up (it was kinda a blur waiting for him so I don't really know what happened during that period) and then crush 1 was talking to me then took my hand and pulled me into a bathroom. He then confessed that he loved me, and I was so shocked so I asked him when did he start liking me and he said for awhile now. Then I told him that I liked him too and I always have. I think we almost kissed too… then my friends little sister said she need help and tried to get rid of me apparently? So I went back into the party room and my boyfriend was inside with this other girl so I kinda got suspicious. And then some weird stuff happened… next thing I know crush one is battling his friends in a gun fight and I'm with him trying to protect eachother and then we kissed and I woke up…
but this isn't the first time I've had a dream with crush one and we had romance… however this was the first one since I've been dating my boyfriend and he was actually in my dream.

Any idea what this could mean? I mean I've seen crush one once since ive been dating my bf but this is the first time he's poppedd up in my mind while I'm dating…. I have no idea what this means… please help

[Pyrrha Nikos]

I'm really lost. I've been talking to my ex a lot and hanging out with him.. He's been telling me he loves me etc, acting like we never broke up. Yet he says it will be another month before he wants to be in a relationship with me... --And then there is this really nice guy who really wants to be with me, he really likes me and he's really nice... I'm just not interested in him and I don't want to date him... I just don't know what to tell him... I don't want to hurt him.. I told him I'd be friends with him, but he wants to be more than that...

It seems like he's just stringing you along...it's like, he wants to act like you guys never broke up, but still have the freedom of not being in a relationship.
For the second guy, tell him firmly and seriously your not interested. Make it very clear you just want to be friends and nothing more. And you have to be sure about it, don't give him hope where there is none.
(sorry if this comes out like i'm being short with you-I swear i'm not)

[surfiez]

Just call the second guy out. That's what I did to this guy in class

[Pyrrha Nikos]

Just call the second guy out. That's what I did to this guy in class

Well you don't want to be cruel and publicly embarrass him.

[surfiez]

Nicely, I just told him that he's realy nice and I don't like him that way and we should stay friends. It got to a point where he was being annoying and trying to hard

[battymidas]

That sad feeling when you're really head over heels for someone but you're friend zoned.. *sigh*

[jet star]

Can anyone help me? So there's this guy who's my best friend in the world, and I think I've developed feelings for him. But I really don't want to ruin our friendship, and also I'm not allowed to date, and I don't really want to date. (Because in my friend group two people started dating and it made it horribly awkward for all of us, and one of them was my close friend and when that happened he stopped talking to me. So I don't want to do that to anyone else.)
A couple of my girlfriends know I like him, and one's a bit of a blabbermouth and is kind of hinting that I like him, to his face. It really ticks me off, and it's embarrassing. But I don't want to be mean to her, I don't want to ignore him and I don't want to ruin any of the great friendships that took me almost five years to build.
So basically I need help on a few counts. 1. How do I act around him? I don't think he likes me back. 2. I'm really socially awkward and introverted, and I seriously can't flirt. How would someone like me act in a relationship? 3. What do I say to my blabbing friend?
By the way, I don't expect anyone to read all of this. If you did, then, wow. Thank you.

[neuroticism]

Theres this guy I really like but I dontknow if he likes me. I have little hints that he might like, staring at me in socials, smiling reallybig and playing with his nails when hes around me. Im too scared to talk to him though, what if he rejects me?! Hes really popular! Any advice ♡?

[thunderofthedrum]

Theres this guy I really like but I dontknow if he likes me. I have little hints that he might like, staring at me in socials, smiling reallybig and playing with his nails when hes around me. Im too scared to talk to him though, what if he rejects me?! Hes really popular! Any advice ♡?

I would like to point out - EVERYONE is scared of rejection. It's human. You are neither special nor weak for having this concern. Girls often expect guys to do all the work, partially because of societal expectations and partially so that they don't have to take the risk of being rejected (which is entirely unfair). Girls ARE allowed to make the first move! Guys ARE allowed to be shy, nervous, self conscious.

Also, you gave very little information so it's hard to say. Ultimately, it's up to you. Have you ever even talked to him? All you mention is looks. Try saying hi, asking a question, noticing something in common. People assume they should blurt out their feelings when really all you need to do is take a small step in many cases. Start with being friendly and see what happens.

[luxray;]

oh good i have a crush on one of my same-sex friends.
I know that they're pan, but idk if they know that I'm bi.
how do I know if theyre interested in me?