♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[JustDucky]

So my boyfriend...or now my ex boyfriend just had a huge fight today. He took something I said the wrong way, and asked me if it meant it was over. v.v I was mad enough to say "Why not?" Everyone says it isn't my fault. I didn't do anything but bring it up.
He said his ex girlfriend hacked his snapchat, and added herself as 'Babe'.
I was never once saved in his phone as that....
Not to mention he never tried. I was according to everyone else the best girlfriend ever to him. He rarely called me, and never texted me. Most of the time when he did call it was when he wanted something. When he was around me he practically ignored me.
After he left I texted him, and told him everything he did wrong. Then I asked if he even cared that I broke up with him, and he said he did nothing wrong.
Everyone but him sees what he did wrong. I even told him. I somewhere deep inside hope this gets worked out, because I love him, but if he don't feel the same, then I am better off without him.
He was my best friend. I would have done anything for him, but I doubt he would have done the same. He was the one who told me he liked me. He was so sweet at first, but then I guess I got a little moody, and he started ignoring me.

It gets annoying doesn't it? but if he didn't straighten up when you said something about it then it's no good... he most likely won't change... It stinks alot i know but things can only get better that means you are one person closer to finding your true one... there are only so many people who are going to be jerks to you and about you it'll get easier with every break up but know that in the end it means you are closer and that you will never be alone even if you never do setle down in the end you still have tons of friends and you shouldn't waste hose friendships you'll find someof them will last you forever

I'm sorry that this happened to you.
Well, one thing I know about people is that they change (for the better, or for the worse.)
And, hey, if it doesn't work out there is always someone better just around the corner!
I hope that everything will get better for you soon! If you ever need to talk feel free to PM me!

I don't know. This is exactly why I never dated anyone before him. I have terrible trust issues. I want to trust him. I love him. Feelings never really go away either. I doubt he's going to call me today, or try and fix things. That makes it hurt alot more. I want to be with him. But I'm just hurting him, because i don't really trust him.
Edit; He now refuses to let me break up with him.

[ExplodingInk]

Prepare yourselves for a ramble.

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Personally, I would leave it up to him. It was a great weekend, if he really does like you, he will contact you somehow. If he doesn't add you in about a week or so, then maybe add him on facebook. Just to show, you're not in a rush because it sounds to me like you're friend is more in a rush for this to happen than you are. Which I am not saying anything bad against your friend, I am just saying to watch. You don't want to rush into something you aren't ready for.

That date range is just things people say to get you to feel like you need to have a significant other. There really is no right age group, it all depends on how comfortable you are with dating. Being in a relationship can be a lot of work, so ease into it c: Enjoy the small moments and don't rush yourself!

I hope that helped c: If you ever need to talk about something, don't be shy, PM me.
x ~ Ink

[Jaaay]

I don't know what to do anymore. My fiancé of 4 years left me on the 31 of December, and it's almost been 3 weeks. I've been trying to move on and talk to other guys, I have a date on Monday with this guy I'm talking to, so I'm really trying to move on. But it just doesn't feel right, I am not happy... I'm not happy when I'm talking to these guys... They're really nice guys, it's just I miss my ex... I don't like talking to these guys, I'm so used to just being around my ex. I really did love him, he meant everything to me... 3 days before he broke up with me we were talking about our wedding, etc... I just don't know how to be happy with someone else.

Sounds, to me anyway, like you need to take some time off. Dating someone, especially after getting over a serious relationship, can be even more heartbreaking. Dating other people, won't lessen the feelings you have for him but strengthen them - which could really hurt the person you begin dating. The best medicine is time, let yourself heal and get over him before entering the dating world again. He wasn't the one for you and that's okay - just try to give yourself some room to breathe.

If you ever need to talk, don't be shy, PM me.

Thank you for your response. I want to take time off, but friends and family are pushing me to see new people. And I really dont like it. I just dont want to disappoint everyone. I know it isn't right dating people so soon.but everyone says its time to find someone new. Etc...---- I told the guy that I just wanted to be friends... So I'm not dating anyone.

[kierran.]

Can someone please pm me? Thanks (:

[ExplodingInk]

Thank you for your response. I want to take time off, but friends and family are pushing me to see new people. And I really dont like it. I just dont want to disappoint everyone. I know it isn't right dating people so soon.but everyone says its time to find someone new. Etc...---- I told the guy that I just wanted to be friends... So I'm not dating anyone.

Just so you know I changed my name from Hysteric_Willow back to ExplodingInk XD
I am very happy for you, taking your time! Friends and family just need to relax,
you need your own time to heal, good for you !
x ~ Ink

[Retrouvailles]

So me and my best friend got together Jan. 18th of this year, and I found out what love means. But one time he said 'BrB' and I said 'Alright', when he comes back he says 'Sorry, baby I'm back.' At first I didn't like that he called me baby but I'm slowly warming up to it. Sometimes I will call him babe but it doesn't feel right, maybe I just don't like nicknames? I don't exactly know.

[ExplodingInk]

So me and my best friend got together Jan. 18th of this year, and I found out what love means. But one time he said 'BrB' and I said 'Alright', when he comes back he says 'Sorry, baby I'm back.' At first I didn't like that he called me baby but I'm slowly warming up to it. Sometimes I will call him babe but it doesn't feel right, maybe I just don't like nicknames? I don't exactly know.

It could just be that the nickname doesn't 'fit' for you. Which is completely fine, my boyfriend - he doesn't like being called 'baby' or 'babe' - it doesn't make him feel good about himself. However, he loves when I call him, hun. Sometimes nicknames just don't fit a person c: but you don't need a nickname to make a relationship, so if you don't want to be called 'baby' just let him know, "hey, I am not really comfortable being called baby, I'm not sure why but it feels weird to me" Of course that is just an example of how to tell him if you don't want to be called that. It has to be in your own words c:

There are loads of pet names x3 If nicknames/pet names are in the equation for you, maybe a different one will suit your relationship c:

Hope that helped a little
x ~ Ink

[Retrouvailles]

So me and my best friend got together Jan. 18th of this year, and I found out what love means. But one time he said 'BrB' and I said 'Alright', when he comes back he says 'Sorry, baby I'm back.' At first I didn't like that he called me baby but I'm slowly warming up to it. Sometimes I will call him babe but it doesn't feel right, maybe I just don't like nicknames? I don't exactly know.

It could just be that the nickname doesn't 'fit' for you. Which is completely fine, my boyfriend - he doesn't like being called 'baby' or 'babe' - it doesn't make him feel good about himself. However, he loves when I call him, hun. Sometimes nicknames just don't fit a person c: but you don't need a nickname to make a relationship, so if you don't want to be called 'baby' just let him know, "hey, I am not really comfortable being called baby, I'm not sure why but it feels weird to me" Of course that is just an example of how to tell him if you don't want to be called that. It has to be in your own words c:

There are loads of pet names x3 If nicknames/pet names are in the equation for you, maybe a different one will suit your relationship c:

Hope that helped a little
x ~ Ink

Yeah, thank you a lot! This explains why it feels weird, but he's calling me 'Babe' now and oh my gosh I love that nickname. I dunno why but it feels right. He doesn't call me baby unless I'm scared or sad, which I'm slowly warming up to.

[ExplodingInk]

Yeah, thank you a lot! This explains why it feels weird, but he's calling me 'Babe' now and oh my gosh I love that nickname. I dunno why but it feels right. He doesn't call me baby unless I'm scared or sad, which I'm slowly warming up to.

Some nicknames/pet names just make you feel good c: They also differ from relationship to relationship. For instance if in a past relationship someone called you something like let's say 'sweetie' that could be a reason why you may or may not like it in the present. For me it was always, I never wanted to re-use a pet name for my boyfriends - but sometimes it is just inevitable and fits the relationship c:

[Kajaru]

Today was just.. wonderful.
Every tuesday and thursday my boyfriend is staying at my house from 1 p.m. till 5 p.m.
We are sleeping most of the time that we are at my house, because I'm always tired after school. but today was different.
We weren't sleeping because he was tickling me the whole time and we laughed so much togheter. He made me so many compliments, was cuddling and kissing me. We talked about our last 9 month. The day that I told him that I had a crush on him and all the wonderful memories that we shared in the past. After that he started crying, cuddling me even harder and told me that he is proud of me because I'm fighting against my depressions really hard. He is just such a wonderful person. He is my motivation to life.

And after he got home we were playing Saints Row 4.
Oh god, it was so embarrasing for me because I'm not the shooter/third person fan. But we had so much fun and we laughed so much.
Even though I was lagging so hard and just crashed against every wall with my car. XD

I'll just leave that here. I wanted to talk all my current feelings out. I'm really happy. ♡