Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[ardentsongbird]

I found out my ex-boyfriend (whom I wanted to be friends with again) didn't want anything to do with me. My friend tried to tell him I wanted to be friends again, but he ignored the subject. I finally decided to move on, no matter how hard it hurts. For some, odd reason, I still have feelings for him. He cared for me, like no one else, but I guess it didn't matter at all in the end. So, now I'm stuck alone. I want to tell my best guy friend about my problems, but I don't think he'll take it seriously enough to help. Oh well, though luck, I guess.

Sorry for ranting, but I just need to let my feelings out.

[Prince Endymion]

So I have had an interesting day with crushes today... my friends,A, a trans-bisexual man, even though in school we call him a her because, school... K, a bisexual female and C a panromantic lesbian were talking today and somehow the idea of me being shipped with A came up. Of course, it was a joke and I took no notice of it. But later on, K told me that A might actually have feelings for me. I was surprised, but wasn't like dying on the ground. We all tease A and he's a very interesting person to say the least. We joke around, and he knows it! K asked me if I'd ever go out with A and I said, 'Maybe I don't have feelings for him yet... though, later on I might!" So now, my Avatar OC Mika Mizuno and A's OC Kurro Baka are now secretly being shipped, saying how... I'm not supposed to know about A's crush! Kurrika is a cute name though! Later on I asked my straight friend L is she could ever see me shipped with someone for real and she said she shipped me with my bisexual friend S who everyone thinks is my boyfriend...

So yeah! I am being shipped with two of my friends!

And to help that, I was Jasmine in Aladdin. I once had a dream that at the wedding scene the Aladdin, was A instead of the boy who was supposed to be Aladdin!

I also can't talk to A with out feeling like I'm flirting even though I'm not. I feel that because K told me about this, everytime I speak to A I'm giving away the fact that I know about the crush. I don't feel that way towards A YET and I mean yet because I'm Demisexual. A crush might form... It feels weird... Can someone help me with this last part?

Can someone help me with the last part?

[amethyst,]

Ok thanks ;> I've been really nervous because we haven't even kissed yet and I haven't really ever kissed anyone 0-0 so I'm not sure what to do

Any tips? Do I just give him a peck or …???? And how long should it be

@surfiez: this is just a suggestion, seeing the matter is obviously up to you. but i'd suggest, for a first kiss, no tongue but not necessarily a peck, if that makes sense. maybe just a 2 or 3 second long kiss? c:



my crush asked me out yesterday <333



@thunder shibe: yay, i'm happy for you! c:

[surfiez]

Thank you :> ^

[kboys]

thank you so much for all the replies and the positivity , I really appreciate it ! I'll try to become more of an accepting person to myself , thank you !

Also I accidentally crashed into him , he apologized
even though it was my fault , he's really sweet.

[itsdemonnxoxo]

Guys, I need help right now.. I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year now. Anyways, the past week I haven't heard hardly anything from him. I talked to him maximum 3 minutes yesterday! He literally doesn't tell me anything anymore. If he usually goes somewhere or hangs out with a friend he'll tell me.. But, lately he hasn't been telling me anything! It's really starting to bother me, a lot.. I honestly don't know what to do.. Help please?

[spring.]

I need lots and lots of help as usual.

I think I have a crush on this guy, but I catch him looking at me all the time. My friend said it's just him not paying attention in class or he is looking past me. But I look over at him because I feel eyes on me. Even in the moment of eye contact, he doesn't look away. Usually I look away because I don't want to seem weird or start blushing or anything. Usually I will look over 5 minutes later and he is still staring. It's a but scary but I kind of like it. Idk I think I have a crush on him.

But I also still have a ton of feelings for my ex. I mean I get a high every time he talks to me. But I don't know what to do because I have been extremely depressed as of late and even him talking to me doesn't help.

What do you think? This is more towards the first thing.

[goranski.]

Ok. So, Internet is a big part of my life. Just saying. But today, on my crushes Instagram, his friend B put T and I's usernames together in a comment, then did the smirk emoji... You know, THAT ONE. And a month ago, I would have flipped with excitement, but this time I flipped in.... Anger. See, I still like T, and it's obvious that there IS something there, but I'm sick of people acting like we're something that we aren't. People walk up to me in the halls and go *insert "ship name" here*, and hint on social media. I'm just done with it! We aren't dating, he hasn't asked me out, and as far as I know, isn't planning to. I just don't know what to do right now, it's so annoying.

[Medusa72]

thank you so much for all the replies and the positivity , I really appreciate it ! I'll try to become more of an accepting person to myself , thank you !

Also I accidentally crashed into him , he apologized
even though it was my fault , he's really sweet.

Anytime!
I used to bump into this one guy ALL the time. It was so awkward! Lol, but kind of funny at the same time. Collisions are the best conversation starters!

Guys, I need help right now.. I've been with my boyfriend for well over a year now. Anyways, the past week I haven't heard hardly anything from him. I talked to him maximum 3 minutes yesterday! He literally doesn't tell me anything anymore. If he usually goes somewhere or hangs out with a friend he'll tell me.. But, lately he hasn't been telling me anything! It's really starting to bother me, a lot.. I honestly don't know what to do.. Help please?

Something must be bothering him. It might be something he's not comfortable speaking to you about, I know that must be hard to hear but all you can do is let him know you support him and then wait it out.
OR...
Just ask him what's wrong :p or even better meet with him in person (go on a a date) because talking face to face is just so much better than stupid texting.

I need lots and lots of help as usual.

I think I have a crush on this guy, but I catch him looking at me all the time. My friend said it's just him not paying attention in class or he is looking past me. But I look over at him because I feel eyes on me. Even in the moment of eye contact, he doesn't look away. Usually I look away because I don't want to seem weird or start blushing or anything. Usually I will look over 5 minutes later and he is still staring. It's a but scary but I kind of like it. Idk I think I have a crush on him.

But I also still have a ton of feelings for my ex. I mean I get a high every time he talks to me. But I don't know what to do because I have been extremely depressed as of late and even him talking to me doesn't help.

What do you think? This is more towards the first thing.

So this guy obviously likes you, or likes looking at you because your so pretty! Try talking to him! It sounds like your ex is weighing you down. Please please please don't be depressed, it's a horrible road that you need to get yourself off of! Surround yourself with people and try exercising! Trust me, these two things help big time.
Hope this helped! Sending you some love from my corner of the world.

Ok. So, Internet is a big part of my life. Just saying. But today, on my crushes Instagram, his friend B put T and I's usernames together in a comment, then did the smirk emoji... You know, THAT ONE. And a month ago, I would have flipped with excitement, but this time I flipped in.... Anger. See, I still like T, and it's obvious that there IS something there, but I'm sick of people acting like we're something that we aren't. People walk up to me in the halls and go *insert "ship name" here*, and hint on social media. I'm just done with it! We aren't dating, he hasn't asked me out, and as far as I know, isn't planning to. I just don't know what to do right now, it's so annoying.

Ah, high school. Don't ya just love it? Jk, I've had the same problem. It eventually just faded out. People forgot, moved on, matured enough that they didn't bother me anymore. No worries! You'll be ok, and don't tell me you haven't ever shipped a couple before. it's just all fun and games.
But if it really annoys you that much just calmly smile and explain that y'all aren't dating. People probably do it because they know it gets a rise out of you. If you be the one to change that they'll stop.

[╱╲╳Unique╱╲╳]

Um... Prepare yourselves... That is the only thing I can say...




Well.. Help?

I discovered that I still vaguely have feelings for my ex-boyfriend I was with for around four years... That was by far the most serious relationship I've ever been in, and you know, I'm a teenager for crying out loud... But.. Heres the catch, he cheated on me once, so we ended it but then he knew it was wrong and ended that with the girl who was supposed to be my best friend... Anyway, we got back together for the remaining time we were together.. and then we went to different schools, but we still live really close to each other in the same town! So i'm slightly lost about it all, I've dated two other guys and the longest was 2 months but he dumped me so yeah

My point is...
I have a disappointing feeling that I like him again. He's taken me to the circus when we were in town, but we've done this ever since we began dating four years ago (before splitting up ) ... He randomly sent me a message asking if we should go together, and he HAS a girlfriend... I really don't want him to like me because I would end up liking him, thats just the type of girl I am unfortunately.. But his girlfriend is so nice and they are a good match...

Ugh. Why, why , why are girls so difficult and so much drama?


On another note,
I started talking to N again... and it went okay, I just have to be careful, he doesn't seem to get a grip on the fact that he used me...

And.. ON ANOTHER NOTE lol...
I've been trying to get my best guy friend and one of my female friends to date, and I know the girl has wanted to for over two years kind of, B is the guy... B and I are absolutely best friends and we play basketball together, I'm a huge tomboy type so I kick the football (australian football) with him and his mates and several of his mates flirt with me but thats just typical guys right... !

But I know B long enough to know when he wants to date someone or not because of how close we are, almost like brother and sister to be honest, we liked each other for a year but nothing happened, which is a little lucky I guess, but I can tell that B doesn't really wanna date anyone at the moment, but I know from the past that the girl thats my friend has made him purposely tell her that he loves her and stuff like that for her sake when he doesn't so I already sorted that drama out, ugh, I'm sick of it already, but I'm here for both of them nonetheless !