Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Emma Swan]

I need to get this off my chest, some advice would be great. There's this guy I like, he doesn't go to my school, but he lives close to me. He likes me and I like him which is great, but it all comes down to he only dates Christian girls. I am not Christian, I am not really anything, so it doesn't mean I can't become Christian. I haven't been raised that way, though. I really like him though and he said Christianity could help me with some of my problems. I'm not sure I can do it though. If I can't, I can't be with him...

Sorry, just had to get it off my chest. If you have some advice please PM me. Thank you.

[surfiez]

So my boyfriend and I haven't kissed yet… and Im really nervous because I've never really kissed a guy before… I mean I have in like middle school but now that I'm in high school and those boyfriends didn't count. (Middle school romance eck >_<) anyway I've just been hugging him when we leave eachother like when he walks me to my class or leaves school ect… every time we hang out outside of school my dad is there and he's always surfing with us. And it's kinda awkward when we are surfing together because it's an independent sport so normally it's really quiet in the water, and at school I don't want people looking at us when we do kiss… ugh I don't know when or how we should do it… I mean do I just do a peck kiss or ????? Like how long should it be XD HELP PLEASE

[~IronRose~]

Does anyone believe in love at frist sight?
Well I experience probably the greatest feeling and moment inmy life so far!
This morning I was waiting outside the school for my step dad to drop off my mother's keys she forgot at home that she needs to unlock her classroom. And as I'm standing out there in my huge winter coat I see two guys walk past me, one to which I found to be quite attractive looks as though he checked me out, like glanced at me, my face, then looked down. Thinking that they were just a couple of freshmen I'd never see again I stare straight ahead and convey no emotion. I thought that was it, I was never to see that cute guy again.
Later in the day I walk into fifth period, which happens to my mother's class and there he is, the cute guy from that morning in front of the school, talking to my mom. (He also seemed just as surprised to see me as I was to see him). Apparently he is a senior, who is joining the Speech and Debate team and class I happen to be a part of. In that moment I forgot about how upset I was that my ex that I was still in love with was dating a friend of mine. I completely forgot about him.
I don't know if it's fate or destiny, but one of my friends (a guy) after I had talked to the new, handsome, guy whispered to me "I ship it". I still have butterflies.
how should I paly this, I thinking I should just take it slow the next few days

[surfiez]

Congrats!^ and yes I do believe at love at first sight XD I've only known my current boyfriend for like 4 months? The first time I met him was the first month of school and we would ocasionaly catch eyes in class XD so after the bell rung we started talking and stuff and I hung out with him at surf contests and at the beach and stuff X3

[❝steℓℓar❞]

I... I just don't know right now.
I feel like my guy isn't even mine.
I understand that he wants to date me when he's ready
He's pretty much "dating" me like a promise we will escalate to a higher level when he's ready but he could still talk to me.
He's always busy when I try to text him and he doesn't really hang out with me at school.
He wanted to keep the relationship a bit of a secret, only telling people we totally trust and all but it really can't be kept a secret when we start actually dating.
I feel like talking to him about it but I don't want to risk losing him
I wish we had the relationship we had when he was dating my former best friend. Texting for three hours straight... Facetiming all the time.
Should I talk to him about this? ;-;
Sorry things are all over the place.. I just feel I need to get it all out...

[thunderofthedrum]

I... I just don't know right now.
I feel like my guy isn't even mine.
I understand that he wants to date me when he's ready
He's pretty much "dating" me like a promise we will escalate to a higher level when he's ready but he could still talk to me.
He's always busy when I try to text him and he doesn't really hang out with me at school.
He wanted to keep the relationship a bit of a secret, only telling people we totally trust and all but it really can't be kept a secret when we start actually dating.
I feel like talking to him about it but I don't want to risk losing him
I wish we had the relationship we had when he was dating my former best friend. Texting for three hours straight... Facetiming all the time.
Should I talk to him about this? ;-;
Sorry things are all over the place.. I just feel I need to get it all out...

This does sound weird to me. Clearly he had no issues talking to you before. What changed?
And I'm confused, so you guys are or are not dating?
Simply wanting to talk to him and make sure you guys are on the same page should NOT have you so worried you would lose him over it. It sounds like you are confused and don't understand why he now spends so little time with you, and that sounds perfectly reasonable to me. Definitely bring it up to him - just don't accuse him. Ask where you guys stand, what he feels your relationship is, does he see it moving forward, and is there any way you guys can schedule more time together.

[kotalicious]

I need some serious help right now -_-
I went to see my boyfriend last Tuesday. I stayed with him for the whole and we did some..... things I guess. I had a wonderful time and was extremely happy. We texted each other the whole night after I got home. The next day he didn't really talk to me, and he hasn't since then. I mean, we still talk but its not a lot. Maybe an hour tops. We don't even say we love each other anymore. When I told him I loved him he never replied. I was stressing out wicked bad yesterday because of it so I decided to talk to him. I asked him if I did something wrong or if he was losing his feelings for me. He said it wasn't like that. He told me he was just sick and extremely stressed. He told me he was thinking about moving ti Cali which is waaaaay across the US from me. I asked him if he wanted to break up with me and he said "no. not now." I was hoping talking to him would make me feel better but now I feel even worse. He said he still loved me but there's no doubt that he's going to break up with me before he goes to Cali. I know I will get over it eventually as I seem to get over things way too easily, but I still don't want it to happen. I love him and don't want to lose him but he won't tell me what he's stressing about and he won't let me help him. My best friend told me to dump him before he dumped me to save me from the hurt, but I think that would hurt me even more. I like him more than I've liked anyone before and I just don't know what to do. Some advice would be wonderful right now.

Edit: and now he's blocked me on facebook -_-

[thunderofthedrum]

I need some serious help right now -_-
I went to see my boyfriend last Tuesday. I stayed with him for the whole and we did some..... things I guess. I had a wonderful time and was extremely happy. We texted each other the whole night after I got home. The next day he didn't really talk to me, and he hasn't since then. I mean, we still talk but its not a lot. Maybe an hour tops. We don't even say we love each other anymore. When I told him I loved him he never replied. I was stressing out wicked bad yesterday because of it so I decided to talk to him. I asked him if I did something wrong or if he was losing his feelings for me. He said it wasn't like that. He told me he was just sick and extremely stressed. He told me he was thinking about moving ti Cali which is waaaaay across the US from me. I asked him if he wanted to break up with me and he said "no. not now." I was hoping talking to him would make me feel better but now I feel even worse. He said he still loved me but there's no doubt that he's going to break up with me before he goes to Cali. I know I will get over it eventually as I seem to get over things way too easily, but I still don't want it to happen. I love him and don't want to lose him but he won't tell me what he's stressing about and he won't let me help him. My best friend told me to dump him before he dumped me to save me from the hurt, but I think that would hurt me even more. I like him more than I've liked anyone before and I just don't know what to do. Some advice would be wonderful right now.

Edit: and now he's blocked me on facebook -_-

Well think hard on how you guys have been interacting. Were you possibly messaging him too much to the point where he just wanted some space? Sometimes even just asking 'are you okay' too many times can get on someone's nerves. Or have you not inquired much yet are suddenly blocked on facebook? Being blocked on that site by the person you are dating just seems like a red flag to me; I don't understand what could have happened to warrant that.

If you said 'I love you' just once and he never replied, it could be a fluke. It's hard to say. It could be unusual, or it could be a one time thing. It's just impossible to say since it only happened once.

The possibility of moving may play a very large role in this. There's no way to know for sure yet. But think about it from his perspective - if a parent suddenly dropped that bomb on him that he might be moving, he might be freaking out. He may be panicking, unsure of what to do. California sounds exciting but it would mean leaving behind everything he knows. He may not be sure how to handle it with you. He may be trying to distance himself because he's scared to break up but scared to do long distance and it trying to step back from the relationship a little bit to figure things out and to just keep himself from getting more attached to you. I don't know.

I don't know what 'things' you did; that's very vague though I understand it's private and you likely don't want to share it with the internet, but I do want to say - I hope you felt comfortable, were smart and used protection whenever applicable, and were not rushed or pressured in any way.

[princess yona.]

i think i have a crush on somebody and im to scared to go and talk to him
i need some help at the moment i wont even sit at the same table as him

[surfiez]

^ just make small talk… find something in common and become friends :> if he doesn't even know you then the only way anything will happen for you is if you go talk to him

P.s. Can anyone help me with my prob? ^^^ it's at the top ^