Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[spring.]

K so I have a problem.

This guy is my best friends boyfriend. He and I are close friends and when we walk around with out his girlfriend, people think we are dating. One of my teachers thought we were together and another kid "aww"ed us when we were walking out of school together. He and I flirt around but in a sibling kid of way. He used to like me, maybe he still does but he and his girlfriend are meant to be and I think he truly loves her. What do you guys think? All three of us have the same interests but I don't want people to think he and I are dating because I don't want to lose my best friends.

[Child_of_Death]

K so I have a problem.

This guy is my best friends boyfriend. He and I are close friends and when we walk around with out his girlfriend, people think we are dating. One of my teachers thought we were together and another kid "aww"ed us when we were walking out of school together. He and I flirt around but in a sibling kid of way. He used to like me, maybe he still does but he and his girlfriend are meant to be and I think he truly loves her. What do you guys think? All three of us have the same interests but I don't want people to think he and I are dating because I don't want to lose my best friends.

I'd say ignore people who look at you with adoring faces, and if anyone approaches you about it you should correct them. Your best friends know that you two aren't dating, and they know it's not your fault that other people think you are. People are silly; when they see a boy and a girl together, they automatically assume they're dating. It's irritating, but a fact of life. Basically, the fact that you aren't together is a known fact for your friends, and it's their knowledge of this that really counts. It doesn't matter what strangers assume about you.

[kaplantai]

=-= i really like guys that hard core flirt with me since im such an antisocial person. it helps me get comfortable with them easier. but this guy started talking to me a few months ago, and he's either super duper shy or isnt interested in me anymore. im a super quiet person and when i have to do all the talking, i feel awkward. ive done a lot of things to try and start a conversation without having a lot of awkward silences and big tensions between us. ive given him food to try and create a bond, cause that's worked with the rest of my guy friends, but he's still quiet. -v- i decided i want to try and not text first and go over to him to talk during our passing periods for a while to see if he would respond to me playing "hard to get" but he hasn't tried talking to me or texting since half way into winter break. boys are frustrating.

[Anza]

Met the guy of my dreams, but he's taken! Q_Q
I don't want to do that to the other girl, now I'm forced to suffer.

[snowdrake]

Well...Hi ^^'
This is the first time posting on this thread for me...
I have a problem:
Im at my boyfriends house since saturday and he called a friend while I was watching a Pokemon movie because...well I like Pokemon.
His friend asked my bf if I was doing something with Pokemon because he heard Pikachu and he said 'yes'.
Then his friends answer was 'oh my god..' and my bf just said 'yeah I dont know what's wrong with her either'.
Today I was talking with him about that because it wasn't okay for me that he was so mean but then the problem begins:
(First I must say that I am usually a very nice person but if someone gets on my nerves I can get very agressive because of psychical problems and because Im depressive)
So I told him that it wasnt okay and he said that they weren't mean (maybe they weren't but it's still not okay for me) and I asked him why he didn't tell his friend to calm down a little.
His answer: 'But if I tell him he's gonna flip out and Im not going to do that because you're overreacting!' And then me: 'So you dont care about me or what?' He: 'Dont tell me I need to like you more than him!' Me: 'I dont. I just asked you why you would do so many things for him' (He really does like him more than me how it seems) 'and why you're ignoring me all the time when you do something together...'
And then it keeps on and on and on...
The worst thing for me is that he stays calm and seems to laugh at me because I get more angry from time to time.
It's everytime like this and I just dont know what to do anymore...

Can no one help me...? It's always like this when we're seeing each other... ;v;

[Medusa72]

K so I have a problem.

This guy is my best friends boyfriend. He and I are close friends and when we walk around with out his girlfriend, people think we are dating. One of my teachers thought we were together and another kid "aww"ed us when we were walking out of school together. He and I flirt around but in a sibling kid of way. He used to like me, maybe he still does but he and his girlfriend are meant to be and I think he truly loves her. What do you guys think? All three of us have the same interests but I don't want people to think he and I are dating because I don't want to lose my best friends.

I'd say ignore people who look at you with adoring faces, and if anyone approaches you about it you should correct them. Your best friends know that you two aren't dating, and they know it's not your fault that other people think you are. People are silly; when they see a boy and a girl together, they automatically assume they're dating. It's irritating, but a fact of life. Basically, the fact that you aren't together is a known fact for your friends, and it's their knowledge of this that really counts. It doesn't matter what strangers assume about you.

Huntress, that I'd soo true! My brother and I were sitting together on a plane and my brother happened to be sitting in this womans seat and she thought we were a couple... like... uh no, we're siblings lol.

[city of angels;]

So there's this boy that I met last year, he's a year older than me. He's been through a lot in his life, from what I can tell, and he has a very different...lifestyle and set of morals from me, I guess you could say.
Well, recently, I found him on Facebook and sent him a friend request. We started talking, just a little bit here and there. And last night he called me gorgeous and told me I could get any guy I wanted easily. That was a pretty big compliment coming from him.
I know he's not interested, but it really bothers me that I've liked him from the moment I met him...I really shouldn't.
But anyway, I really want to text him again, but I don't want to feel annoying ;n; How do I start a conversation without constantly fretting that I'll annoy him?

[goranski.]

Well...Hi ^^'
This is the first time posting on this thread for me...
I have a problem:
Im at my boyfriends house since saturday and he called a friend while I was watching a Pokemon movie because...well I like Pokemon.
His friend asked my bf if I was doing something with Pokemon because he heard Pikachu and he said 'yes'.
Then his friends answer was 'oh my god..' and my bf just said 'yeah I dont know what's wrong with her either'.
Today I was talking with him about that because it wasn't okay for me that he was so mean but then the problem begins:
(First I must say that I am usually a very nice person but if someone gets on my nerves I can get very agressive because of psychical problems and because Im depressive)
So I told him that it wasnt okay and he said that they weren't mean (maybe they weren't but it's still not okay for me) and I asked him why he didn't tell his friend to calm down a little.
His answer: 'But if I tell him he's gonna flip out and Im not going to do that because you're overreacting!' And then me: 'So you dont care about me or what?' He: 'Dont tell me I need to like you more than him!' Me: 'I dont. I just asked you why you would do so many things for him' (He really does like him more than me how it seems) 'and why you're ignoring me all the time when you do something together...'
And then it keeps on and on and on...
The worst thing for me is that he stays calm and seems to laugh at me because I get more angry from time to time.
It's everytime like this and I just dont know what to do anymore...

Can no one help me...? It's always like this when we're seeing each other... ;v;

Well then. Honestly, its ok if he's doing things for his friend, but not in a mean way. Obviously if he cares about one of his friends more than you, he doesn't care about you enough. IMO you should break up with him or demand change, but its your choice...

[Medusa72]

Well...Hi ^^'
This is the first time posting on this thread for me...
I have a problem:
Im at my boyfriends house since saturday and he called a friend while I was watching a Pokemon movie because...well I like Pokemon.
His friend asked my bf if I was doing something with Pokemon because he heard Pikachu and he said 'yes'.
Then his friends answer was 'oh my god..' and my bf just said 'yeah I dont know what's wrong with her either'.
Today I was talking with him about that because it wasn't okay for me that he was so mean but then the problem begins:
(First I must say that I am usually a very nice person but if someone gets on my nerves I can get very agressive because of psychical problems and because Im depressive)
So I told him that it wasnt okay and he said that they weren't mean (maybe they weren't but it's still not okay for me) and I asked him why he didn't tell his friend to calm down a little.
His answer: 'But if I tell him he's gonna flip out and Im not going to do that because you're overreacting!' And then me: 'So you dont care about me or what?' He: 'Dont tell me I need to like you more than him!' Me: 'I dont. I just asked you why you would do so many things for him' (He really does like him more than me how it seems) 'and why you're ignoring me all the time when you do something together...'
And then it keeps on and on and on...
The worst thing for me is that he stays calm and seems to laugh at me because I get more angry from time to time.
It's everytime like this and I just dont know what to do anymore...

Can no one help me...? It's always like this when we're seeing each other... ;v;

Honestly? This seems like an unhealthy relationship. Now I don't know you or your boyfriend but from the perspective you gave it seems that you two might be a little too different. You might be overreacting just a little bit, and maybe from his perspective not respecting his other friendships.
Please don't get upset by this, I mean no disrespect.
Maybe you should try having a serious talk with him? I've never had this problem so I can't give you very sound advice.

[eli ayase]

my crush and I played truth or dare at his house yesterday for 7 hours and he kiSSED MY EAR AND MY HAND

And i had to sit on his lap o//u//o

and i had to eskimo kiss his belly button oh god his abs