Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[ScarWitch]

First New Years Eve kiss and it was amazing... even if my parents and aunts and uncles were in the same room kissing too XD.

My boyfriend also brought my Christmas presents that he hadn't been able to give me, including a TMNT t-shirt, some really good Lindt chocolate, a a beautiful sterling silver heart necklace.

I love it, but he's in so much trouble for spending that much money on me! >:3

[╱╲╳Unique╱╲╳]

Sometimes I question my sanity falling for him.. for L... Why do I bother? He is the best looking guy in our year.. I mean people from years above and below us are "chasing" after this boy... Im just tomboyish so I make an attempt at being friends with him, which worked out better than I ever thought possible... But hes so careful with who he dates.. He's dated a single girl.. ONE. I find that attractive and I don't know why.. lol.

Ugh this is driving me crazy.. I don't like him, I love him. He's the one who helps me through the tough times and is always there for me.. He still doesn't know I am falling so hard for him... You know when you find that one song that makes you almost want to cry because its like your life with this specific person you fell to hard for?
Well take a look at my siggy... Yep.. Fools Gold - One Direction is that song... wowza...

If anyone can just.. talk to me.. PM me please... <3 Happy new year!

[Medusa72]

I feel SO much more comfortable around JG now that he has a girlfriend. It was awkward for me because I thought he liked me and I knew I wouldn't be able to return those feelings. I feel so much better knowing that we can be just friends.
I think he might be more comfortable around me to, he showed me a pic of his girlfriend and they're pretty cute together. :p

[Mountain Wolf]

Hey I have a question for anyone who's willing to answer: If a guy asks you to go see 50 Shades of Grey, is he asking you out on a date? I have a friend who I've always had a HUGE crush on, and the other day he asked if I wanted to go see it with him when it comes out(which I know is on Valentine's Day). I know the book is really sexual and explicit...is he possibly implying that he wants to be more than friends? because I really hope so

[Dia.]

Hey I have a question for anyone who's willing to answer: If a guy asks you to go see 50 Shades of Grey, is he asking you out on a date? I have a friend who I've always had a HUGE crush on, and the other day he asked if I wanted to go see it with him when it comes out(which I know is on Valentine's Day). I know the book is really sexual and explicit...is he possibly implying that he wants to be more than friends? because I really hope so

Lol that's not a movie I'd want to see with my boyfriend. XD
He could be asking you on a date, or he could be asking you as friends.
You could just ask him when you are there. "So is this a date?" or more directly, "can I call this a date?"

[Ducky_Dearest]

so ive neve had a boyfriend and dont want one soon but i did have a huge crush a year back. Ill call him C. So C and i were on a team togethe for a thing called Odessy of the mind. He was a good friend though we beat eachother up from time to time.... I started getting feelings for him and then i was just hooked on him. No one knew though, but i loved talking to him and just doing stuff with him. Then i went to middle school. He went to a different one. I was so sad that later i had dreams about him. Ya so thats it!

[Clifford95]

Does anyone know how I can get over my crush? I fell for a guy who isn't into girls and got over him, but know I'm right back where I started, crushing on my sister's friend's brother. We aren't allowed to date because his parents have this idea in their heads that if we break up our parents and siblings won't be friends anymore. I see where they are coming from but still...give it a chance at least? I started crushing on him about 4 years ago and for a while we both really liked each other. For 2 years I couldn't get over him and then I moved on but now...I'm right back where I started...any advice would be appreciated and thanks if you took the time to read all this

Edit: I'm also spending this weekend with him, his family, and mine at a big hotel for our sisters' competition and we all share three adjoined rooms...help!!!

[goranski.]

Can somebody just listen to me rant for a sec? Thanks.

So, my crush, we'll just call him T, does not like me. (Or so I think)
I mean, he showed a lot of signs of liking someone before, so when I finally decided to tell him, I wasn't nervous.
And then he stopped talking to me. I'm just really confused right now, because I think I'm over it, but I don't know, and my friend Cleo likes him at the same time, and she has no clue that I kinda sorta like him still... And the worst part is that she has depression, and I'm scared to provoke her. What should I do???

[kay.]

I was about to post this many times but I kept giving up.

In June, I fell in love with this boy I'll call A, and posted about him a few times. I was pretty certain he liked me too, but I never did anything about it, and soon it was the summer break where I didn't see him for 6 weeks. Not sure what happened in those weeks, but when we came back everything changed. We rarely had any moments like we had before even though I kept trying. We started arguing too, before the summer we didn't really argue, and if we did then he usually was the first one to back off (I'm stubborn, he's not), but now I was the one backing off, mostly because I didn't want to ruin anything we had left. Me and my friend, call her R, started arguing too, and our fights were a lot worse because neither of us backed off. All of this was bringing me down quite a bit, but it took a massive turn for the worse on the last three days before the winter break.

I noticed A and R being friends, but didn't think much of it really, the teachers have a thing with putting them next to each other this year, like every single lesson, so they sort of had to get on. In two lessons we sit together, in one it goes me, R, A, and in the other it's me, A, R. On Wednesday (we ended Friday) the two started a horrible joke about me with me there, and at first it wasn't too bad so I left it, but then it escalated until it was out of order so I stood up for myself, and then a fight started between the three of us until I gave up since it was two against one. I had some sort of other disagreement with R, and while it wasn't too bad A jumped in to protect her, which annoyed me as he had nothing to do with it. It all calmed down, but at the end of the lesson R decided to tease me about this other boy (I don't like him just find him attractive , it's a long story) by telling A, and then he started calling the boy stupid, ugly and weak and other things, and I stood up for him and we had a fight until I won. I was still quite oblivious as to why A was so protective of R, until later on I thought about it and realised he might like her.

So Thursday. Before the lesson where we sit me A R, I told R how I felt about the joke on Wednesday, so there was a bit of tension between us two but it actually started off well. Until she decided to tease me and say how she remembers when I liked him, and how I used to talk about him and stuff. I just sat there all bright red while A laughed and went awww, and then I snapped at R how I didn't talk about him because she kept talking about her crush, and then A kept questioning R about it. Then later on he brought up the boy we argued about, and was all like bet you'd love to kiss him etc and then he started to call him names again so I started sticking up for him and then he backed off quite quickly. Anyway that was the end of the lesson and we all seemed fine, me and R got on well for the rest of the day. At lunch, it was me and my other friend (who's supporting me through the whole thing) were talking about my worries about A liking R, and she went up to him and asked him. He said no, but then went up to us and asked why, and if she liked him. Of course we were like no but then he whispered to his friend loudly that he thinks she does, and then we told him she absolutely doesn't and he seemed quite sad.

There isn't much to say for Friday, we got on very well the entire day apart from the occasional tension. The only thing was that I wanted to sort things out with R because I wanted an answer as to why she was being horrible to me, and we had a really big fight about that, A was somewhere else in the room and was about to join in when I mentioned him and how she embarrassed me on Thursday, and he shut up, and I won the argument in the end.

The thing is, I don't understand a lot of things. What happened in the summer? Why has everything changed so much? What have I done? Does he like R? If he hates me so much why does he seem a bit jealous of the other boy, I mean they don't really talk but they never had anything against each other? Why does he find so many things to argue about? Why are they both teaming up with each other to be horrible to me? Will it be the same when we go back? What can I do to change this? So confused and sad :c

[╱╲╳Unique╱╲╳]

School holidays were just turning out to be great! L's sister who is a year younger than him and I sent me heaps of videos and pictures of him via snapchat mucking around at the town lake and OMG I know every time I see a pic or video why i chose to fall in love with L <3 not just appearance, but personality!