Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Mari_hadalittlelamb]

90% sure that I just asked someone out
Hngh
I am so nervous
I've never actually been in a relationship? Definitely never asked someone out before
ESPECIALLY not my best friend
But here I am
Oh dang I've got all sorts of flutters and knots going on inside my stomach and my heart
I'm so nervous, what if he thinks I'm weird? Or if our friendship gets all weird
I'm not scared of being rejected
I mean
I literally have nothing to lose
I'm just scared that if I DO get rejected, it'll put a weird dent in our friendship
which would kill me
Because I care about him soooo much
Urgh
I dunno anymore

I don't really need any advice? Just a rant. <3
(Although if anyone has advice, I'm willing to listen)

I'm willing to listen c:

[ⓒⓞⓝⓣⓡⓐⓑⓐⓢⓢ]

hnggg i really miss my crush right now :c
...darn Christmas Break

[DoctorDraca]

My boyfriend is kinda pushing me into this relasionship to fast. Like, he said he liked me, and then 5 minutes later he said he loved me. I felt really pushed and I felt bad if I didnt say it back, so I said it too, but I'm questioning this relasionship, I think it's only because how much he pushed me.

But don't get me wrong, I do like him, but maybe I don't love him?

[Casistrophic]

My boyfriend is kinda pushing me into this relasionship to fast. Like, he said he liked me, and then 5 minutes later he said he loved me. I felt really pushed and I felt bad if I didnt say it back, so I said it too, but I'm questioning this relasionship, I think it's only because how much he pushed me.

He says he loves you? That can maybe be excused if he's in his early teens and being an eager beaver, but anything older than maybe 15 and I'd definitely raise an eyebrow. Either way, nothing wrong with setting a boundary and telling him to slow his roll. My boyfriend dropped the "I love you" before I was ready too, and I waited until I was comfortable to say it back. Good communication is the absolute cornerstone of any relationship; it doesn't have to be a super serious doom-sounding talk, but I'd sit him down and tell him that things are going a little too fast for you and you're responding because you feel pressured.

[Dia.]

Even the second time, a midnight kiss on New Years Eve is perfect. <3

[Krycifer]

I just
I try to make my crush laugh
And she calls me a weirdo
Like
Come onnnnn it's 2015 nowwwww
She's killing me insiiiiide but I liebe her.
And I think she knows
But she's straight
And she's not into chicks
BUT
THAT won't stop me
But I need some advice- is it a bad idea to go after someone I'll never get? uwu

[╱╲╳Unique╱╲╳]

Sometimes I question my sanity falling for him.. for L... Why do I bother? He is the best looking guy in our year.. I mean people from years above and below us are "chasing" after this boy... Im just tomboyish so I make an attempt at being friends with him, which worked out better than I ever thought possible... But hes so careful with who he dates.. He's dated a single girl.. ONE. I find that attractive and I don't know why.. lol.

Ugh this is driving me crazy.. I don't like him, I love him. He's the one who helps me through the tough times and is always there for me.. He still doesn't know I am falling so hard for him... You know when you find that one song that makes you almost want to cry because its like your life with this specific person you fell to hard for?
Well take a look at my siggy... Yep.. Fools Gold - One Direction is that song... wowza...

If anyone can just.. talk to me.. PM me please... <3 Happy new year!

[Shadowcookie22]

I just
I try to make my crush laugh
And she calls me a weirdo
Like
Come onnnnn it's 2015 nowwwww
She's killing me insiiiiide but I liebe her.
And I think she knows
But she's straight
And she's not into chicks
BUT
THAT won't stop me
But I need some advice- is it a bad idea to go after someone I'll never get? uwu

I would say it's not a good idea. I've been there before, and it typically ends in pain. I've also been on the receiving end of such, same situation as you, me being straight and my friend liking me, and it ends up hurting the person you like as well as you. It can be tough, and stopping liking someone is a good deal harder than starting. I'd recommend to perhaps find someone else to like, something to take your mind off of her, think of things other than this person. It can be rough, but it will ultimately be better for you to stop chasing a person who doesn't return your feelings (as long as you know for sure that she is straight and not interested). I hope I don't sound harsh; I most definitely don't want to be. I do however, want to help you avoid some heartbreak and pain that I have experienced. Don't worry, there are other people out there, and there's sure to be someone else who will like you just the same way you like them.

[Krycifer]

I just
I try to make my crush laugh
And she calls me a weirdo
Like
Come onnnnn it's 2015 nowwwww
She's killing me insiiiiide but I liebe her.
And I think she knows
But she's straight
And she's not into chicks
BUT
THAT won't stop me
But I need some advice- is it a bad idea to go after someone I'll never get? uwu

I would say it's not a good idea. I've been there before, and it typically ends in pain. I've also been on the receiving end of such, same situation as you, me being straight and my friend liking me, and it ends up hurting the person you like as well as you. It can be tough, and stopping liking someone is a good deal harder than starting. I'd recommend to perhaps find someone else to like, something to take your mind off of her, think of things other than this person. It can be rough, but it will ultimately be better for you to stop chasing a person who doesn't return your feelings (as long as you know for sure that she is straight and not interested). I hope I don't sound harsh; I most definitely don't want to be. I do however, want to help you avoid some heartbreak and pain that I have experienced. Don't worry, there are other people out there, and there's sure to be someone else who will like you just the same way you like them.

Alright. uwu You don't sound harsh at all. I think getting over her won't be absolutely impossible.. There are plenty of other people out there, and this I do understand. I appreciate the advice, and it shall be heeded.

[JustDucky]

Well my boyfriend came over for new years. My mom dared us to make out. What kind of mom dose that?
So we went from those beautiful, soft kisses to a full blown make out. In front of my mom. She didn't think we would actually do it, so her expression was priceless.
I didn't make it to midnight, but we kissed anyway saying it was midnight somewhere.
It's amazing how far we've come since we were best friends.
Edit:
My older sister told me she was jealous of our relationship, and she wants me to help her find a girlfriend, because she's bi.
I'm not good at talking to girls, though.
She said that she just wanted someone who will love her like my boyfriend dose me.
(And then my boyfriend told her he knows that feeling. He felt that way before, but then he found me. It was cute, but obviously didn't make her feel better)
Anyway. I need advice on being a wingman. And advice on talking to girls.