Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Paranoia]

I'm just upset.
This last like week I've barely gotten any time to talk to my boyfriend.. And we just got back together. These last two days even he hasn't opened my texts. I know he's used his phone, since he's updated his Snapchat story, and I'm trying not to get at him since it is Christmas. But it really hurts because I know he clearly has time to maybe say "Hey. Merry Christmas. I love you" but by now I can't even expect a hey out of him, because he doesn't even look at my messages.
He's not the person that will give me his undivided attention, and I'm the person that needs that type of person to be with so it frustrates me.

[shybiscuit]

My crush is my friend from preschool! >~< Then he moved to a different school at 2nd grade... now, we got reunited at this school... and we are still friends! And each others crushes.... And then a miracle happened! His bus driver like, retired, and now he goes on my bus just like aodnjslnksaldkfjfdsbvjs!

[surfiez]

Yesterday (Christmas eve) my whole family came over and started asking me about my boyfriend XD when I went to escape the madness to text him he told me that his family was asking about me XD it was so funny

[surfiez]

@~jelli~
Yay congrats

[Peppercorn]

Okay, so lets call the first guy I like "Roger". Let's call the guy who's sweet to me "Nick"
So all the time I see all the other girls in my math class flirting with Roger as he's "so" smart. Then I always see Nick trying to impress me making me feel guilty.
Roger occasionally speaks to me or tells me a small joke while Nick complements my outfit, says something nice to me or brings up a conversation. But I truly would rather date Roger then Nick. Roger wouldn't hate me to pieces but Nick has feeling for me, but I don't feel the same about Nick. Also Roger throws in a 'strange' flirt. Which is really annoying (grabbing my hand while touching my hair). So I have no clue who to choose o-o

But Roger is more desirable to others >.<

[Bluemare40]

Okay, so lets call the first guy I like "Roger". Let's call the guy who's sweet to me "Nick"
So all the time I see all the other girls in my math class flirting with Roger as he's "so" smart. Then I always see Nick trying to impress me making me feel guilty.
Roger occasionally speaks to me or tells me a small joke while Nick complements my outfit, says something nice to me or brings up a conversation. But I truly would rather date Roger then Nick. Roger wouldn't hate me to pieces but Nick has feeling for me, but I don't feel the same about Nick. Also Roger throws in a 'strange' flirt. Which is really annoying (grabbing my hand while touching my hair). So I have no clue who to choose o-o

But Roger is more desirable to others >.<

Hmm... well I think it matters as to who you truly like.

It's totally understandable that you don't want to make "Nick" feel bad. But you have to think, is it really worth being unhappy and choosing him just to to spare his feelings?

Also, is "Roger" pretty popular? If so, then this could be something to keep in mind. I once liked a popular guy (we were childhood friends), he was really nice when we were little, but then I think the popularity got to his head. He kind of became a jerk, also, since he girls were all over them, he was kind of-I guess you could say- a player. I wasn't exactly "in the loop", but I'd heard that he dated a bunch and liked a bunch of girls back who also had crushes on him. Now, this of course will not specifically apply to Roger, it's just something I thought I'd just throw out there. But, if you know that Roger genuinely likes you, then this shouldn't be a problem.

Also, I noticed that you said that Roger is more desirable to others. While this could be a plus... it shouldn't be the only reason to choose him.

My point is that you just have to think: Who would I be happiest with? Will they make me laugh? Will I enjoy the moments I spend with them? Will we have a great relationship together? Oh! Also, whomever you choose, the other person should not make you feel any guilt about not choosing them. It is your choice and yours alone.

I hope this helped, I wish you the best of luck and if you ever need anything else don't be afraid to ask!

[surfiez]

Okay, so lets call the first guy I like "Roger". Let's call the guy who's sweet to me "Nick"
So all the time I see all the other girls in my math class flirting with Roger as he's "so" smart. Then I always see Nick trying to impress me making me feel guilty.
Roger occasionally speaks to me or tells me a small joke while Nick complements my outfit, says something nice to me or brings up a conversation. But I truly would rather date Roger then Nick. Roger wouldn't hate me to pieces but Nick has feeling for me, but I don't feel the same about Nick. Also Roger throws in a 'strange' flirt. Which is really annoying (grabbing my hand while touching my hair). So I have no clue who to choose o-o

But Roger is more desirable to others >.<

I literally had the same problem! Okay so go honestly if you like both then go for the one who seems to care more. I am currently dating my guy who was my "Nick". My "Roger" is still a really good friend of mine but I came to the realization that I might never date him. It is upsetting at first but he was always all over girls at parties and even though I felt special around him in the end, "Nick" was the one who cared most. If you have anymore questions please ask me because I just went through the same thing!

[Child_of_Death]

CHEESY PICK-UP LINE BOMB!!!

I lost my number; can I have yours?

You: Hey, can you hold something for a minute?
Crush: Sure.
You: *put your hand in theirs*

I think you're suffering from a lack of vitamin ME.

(If you're a boy) Hey, feel my sweater. It's made of boyfriend material.
Just replace 'boyfriend' with 'girlfriend' if you're a girl.

I'm no photographer, but I can picture us together!

THEY ARE CUTE, GOOFY, HARMLESS, AND IF YOU ARE REJECTED THERE IS NO HARM DONE. PERFECT!

[empunich;]

I'm getting my hair cut from it being long before to it being shoulder length. I don't see my boyfriend till new years, so I can't wait to see what he thinks XD

[Child_of_Death]

FIRST AND FOREMOST
Do not be fooled by my screen name. I am, in fact, a girl. I just LOVE Leo Valdez. Self explanatory.

Now, onto my problem...

I have 2, possibly 3 guys who like me, and I don't like any of them back that way. They are all my friends, but I'm not interested in a boyfriend right now. I am a single pringle, free, and I plan to keep it that way for an extended period of time. How do I dissuade them from liking me?

I also accidentally told my friend's friend who I used to have a crush on (my former crush has a crush on me now, but I don't like him that way anymore), and my friend's friend is a major gossip. Not to be mean, but it's true. I don't trust them at all. How do I stop them from spouting off?

Thanks.