Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[surfiez]

@besy ask him yourself. I did that last night and now I have a boyfriend

[surfiez]

My boyfriend met my dad today and things went really well :3 but my mom told the WHOLE FAMILY last night they won't stop bothering me about it and it's annoying XD

[pawzandfangz]

Hello ^.^ I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. For the past few weeks I feel like she has been ignoring me, or sort of just doesn't love me anymore. I still love her a ton, but I'm not sure if she still likes me and asdfghjkl I need some reassuring because what if she is just busy <.> I have tried to talk to her about it and she said that she reads my messages and wants to reply to them, but doesn't have time or can't. I don't know if I should trust her on that though. We also haven't been doing the normal hang outs and lovey dovey romantic stuff we usually do...
Please help D:

[narwhallama]

@besy ask him yourself. I did that last night and now I have a boyfriend

I would, but a. I don't know where he lives and b. I won't be seeing him until after the holidays, when he'll be surrounded by all his friends. (and they're all like, "GO OUT WITH HIM HE FANCIES YOUUUUU OMG" so it won't exactly be the best time to ask him out)
...
he is kinda cute though, so I'll try.

[❝steℓℓar❞]

Well my guy best friend/crush was talking about this "anonymous girl" who he liked.. I was really curious and it took a while to find out who it was.. It was me... And I really like him and I always have. Last night, I sent him a picture that said "I really like u" and he sent it back to me and said "Ditto".. This morning I texted him and asked him out. I would rather do it in person but he's out of state for a while and I couldn't wait. I haven't gotten a reply for more than three hours and I'm really confused. He knows how I feel and he feels the same. I kind of feel let down and I don't know what to do. Should I text him again? Let him be? I don't know... ):

I know how you feel ;w;

Just wait for him, and don't stress too much about it. He's probably busy at the moment or he's just panicking and not sure what to say. I'm sure he's really happy that you feel the same way as him. Just wait a few more minutes or how long it might take. If that doesn't work and he still doesn't reply, then when you guys meet again, maybe you could tell him then. Of course, don't suddenly go up to him and be like "remember the text?", just casually slip the topic when you guys are conversing or when he asks you about the text.

I've once had a similar experience too a couple years ago. This guy bullied me and hated me until one year, we were the only two who were in the same grade on this one bus, so we kept talking to each other until my friends started suspecting he liked me. I honestly didn't know how I felt. By coincidence, we were also having a truth, dare or fire in the barn championship. So one morning, he chose truth and I asked him (my friends wanted to know...) "Do you like me?"

And he hesitated a little, and tried to look away, it was pretty awkward for the poor guy. ;-; Then he banged his head on the seat etc. He said "you already know." but that wasn't a yes or no answer so I kept asking him the question, I was feeling honestly flustered at the moment. However he then finally muttered a yes.

So after I rejected him (stupid me ;-;), we went our own ways for about one year, but then on a school trip, we started talking to each other again and we became besties and etc etc hugged, walked, said our apologies etc. etc. he dated a girl last year, broke up, single, comes to me, still single, many ships.... My point is: you just need to be patient with love

Of course, all guys are different but they probably panic at one point of their lives.

Well I've waited a while.. Still no reply, I texted him merry Christmas Eve not too long ago..

[nimuulap]

Hello ^.^ I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. For the past few weeks I feel like she has been ignoring me, or sort of just doesn't love me anymore. I still love her a ton, but I'm not sure if she still likes me and asdfghjkl I need some reassuring because what if she is just busy <.> I have tried to talk to her about it and she said that she reads my messages and wants to reply to them, but doesn't have time or can't. I don't know if I should trust her on that though. We also haven't been doing the normal hang outs and lovey dovey romantic stuff we usually do...
Please help D:

Hello!

It's a good thing that you're worrying about her, it shows that you care about her! Anyway, it could be either one. Probably she's just busy or something. If not, you can ask her if something's wrong through text or a way of contacting her. If she still doesn't reply, then try to ask her in person. Don't demand the question, just give her a nice smile and ask her nicely if something is wrong. If she's just having trouble in life or something happened between her family, just try your best to make her happy or anything that can make her smile ^-^
Just show that you really care about her and you'll love her no matter what.



Maybe give her a gift! It's the holidays anyway
(image not mine)

[nimuulap]

Well I've waited a while.. Still no reply, I texted him merry Christmas Eve not too long ago..

;-;
Don't feel depressed about it *pat pat*, maybe try telling him in person?
You can't really tell someone's expression through text or technology, but you can in person!
Maybe once you see him again, ask him if he really meant what he said or ask him to go out with you again. He probably lost his phone or something if the message wasn't read. But don't lose hope! I'm sure he'll go out with you after you ask him in person.

Don't tell it to him straight, just slip it in a conversation. And don't ask it in a harsh tone, ask him in a calm tone so that you don't scare him and accuse him. Anything could've happened.

Well, of course that's my opinion but I hope it helps ^-^

[pawzandfangz]

Hello ^.^ I am a girl and I have a girlfriend. For the past few weeks I feel like she has been ignoring me, or sort of just doesn't love me anymore. I still love her a ton, but I'm not sure if she still likes me and asdfghjkl I need some reassuring because what if she is just busy <.> I have tried to talk to her about it and she said that she reads my messages and wants to reply to them, but doesn't have time or can't. I don't know if I should trust her on that though. We also haven't been doing the normal hang outs and lovey dovey romantic stuff we usually do...
Please help D:

Hello!

It's a good thing that you're worrying about her, it shows that you care about her! Anyway, it could be either one. Probably she's just busy or something. If not, you can ask her if something's wrong through text or a way of contacting her. If she still doesn't reply, then try to ask her in person. Don't demand the question, just give her a nice smile and ask her nicely if something is wrong. If she's just having trouble in life or something happened between her family, just try your best to make her happy or anything that can make her smile ^-^
Just show that you really care about her and you'll love her no matter what.



Maybe give her a gift! It's the holidays anyway
(image not mine)

Thanks I will ask her about it and do anything to make her smile :3 Thanks so much

[hev]

Hey guys! I'd love to help you with your problems but sometimes the forum goes a little too fast for me to keep up. If you need advice, feel free to PM me with your story and what you should do! Cheers.

[X-Cat]

So, there is a boy in my class I really like. I got all my friend christmas presents exceot him and felt a little guilty, so I write this long note. It basically said everything I've ever wanted to say to him but couldn't. So I gave it to him ans he started reading it and then some other kid in my class took the note read the first half out loud and whe I asked for it back he ripped it to shreds. So my crush who I was somewhere after school asked me about the note and I was just like stuttering like an idiot, god what do I do, he probably knows how I feel about him it's so embarrassing. But I think he likes me I mean he's always looking at me and texting me. I just don't even know though.