Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[sparrow]

This guy is staying up to talk to me because I'm bored, even though he says he's super tired. C:

Is that a sign of a crush?

[peachypunk]

So our school lets us buy holiday grams/cards to write things on and it comes with like a bell necklace. Then they send it to that person 6th period. I have this huge crush on a boy so I thought I'd get him one. I could never admit to his face that I like him so this seemed like a good way to express my feelings.
Keep in mind that this boy probably doesn't have the slightest idea of who I am. We just have P.E class together and we play soccer all the time together. There were a few moments where I was staring at him and he caught me staring and we looked into each others eyes for a bit, or the one time I accidentally swung my arm back to far and my hand managed to touch him somewhere in the lower regions and I'm not even sure where down there.
Now back to the holiday grams. I wrote him this ridiculous message and then I put my number in the corner very small, but just big enough so it was noticeable and still readable. I had a small hope he'd text me. And he hasn't yet. This has me in wallowing in sorrow even though I knew I had very little chance with him. I basically shot myself in the foot.

[~Graceful Fox~]

I find this ironic.
I don't mean to point a finger at you in particular but rather use this as an example.

Why do guys always have to make the move? I so often see girls posting about how they are too nervous or worried about rejection.
Guys get nervous and worry about being turned down also!
I just find it very unfair that guys are expected to take all the risk and do all the work.
I'd love to hear from others - why do you expect guys to make the first move, do you think that's fair, do you think you'd ever have the courage to try it yourself, etc? What have been your experiences with asking a guy out or making the first move? How did the rejection feel? Was it worth it?

Yes, my guy made the effort as well. I'd just like to think that since then I have also pulled my weight. It's a team, a partnership.

Speaking of girls making the first move I actually done that before. I really liked this one guy in my art class but I was too shy to say anything as he was classified as " the cool kid " one of his close friend told me that he really wanted to go out with me but was too shy as well. Everyday day at art class I waited for him to say something anything just to give me a hint about how he felt about me but nothing was every said. It was then that I took matters into my own hand and decided that I was tired of waiting. I asked his friend to bring him by my locker so I could ask him those magical six words ( will you go out with me ) I saw him approaching and braced myself just in case I was declined. He came up to me and looked me in the eye and asked me what I needed, I would of backed out if my heart was screaming to tell him how I felt. I took a deep breath and asked him " will you go out with me? " he looked shocked and was quiet for a moment, then he looked left and right as if searching for support then turned and faced me. Although what he sad wasn't bad it's glued inside my Brain echoing as I bring up this story now. He said: " sorry but no, we can be friends but nothing more " then he walked away. Now thinking about this story now I still don't understand why he said no to me, maybe because of the pressure? Or that he wasn't ready? I may never know and I'm ok with that because I at least had the courage to do something most girls would even dream of doing

[Wolf freak...]

I have this crush on a guy named Joel he is my bestie but one of my friends like him but he hates her guts so yeah his of limits.

[Wolfie...]

I like my ex boyfriend and i think he might like me too but i'm scared that if i ask him out he will say NO!

[Dia.]

I like my ex boyfriend and i think he might like me too but i'm scared that if i ask him out he will say NO!

He's your ex for a reason.

[nightbeat]

is it weird to have a dream about confessing to your crush because,

[buddha -]

is it weird to have a dream about confessing to your crush because,


that dream could be reality follow ur dreams tabbie

[J-Hope]

This guy is staying up to talk to me because I'm bored, even though he says he's super tired. C:

Is that a sign of a crush?

Probs, or that he just really enjoys talking to you. c: both signs are good for a start of a great relationship. ^^

[Pyrrha Nikos]

um haha its been a bit since I've been here, but i have issues again xD

right now, i know that 3 different guys like me (J, T and W)...

J is one of my best friends, but not many people like him (he is extremely mean to some people, but SUPER nice to me) I talk to him all the time, in school and out of school, and we dated for a short period of time. I broke up with him because he was being mean to T. I still kind of like him.

T is my best friend, by far. He and I are always talking, hanging out and laughing. His sister is also my best friend and we do stuff together all the time. T hates J and is best friends with W. He likes me and I like him.. the only problem is that he is such a good friend to W and feels that if he and I dated that it would hurt his best friend.

W is the quiet, shy guy. He is really awkward around girls, is always forgetful and is T's best friend... he told me that he liked me last year and has made it obvious that he still likes me.

J and T are both obviously jealous of each other's time with me. In front of each other, they will do things like try to put their arm around me while the other is watching. It makes me feel really awkward and uncomfortable being around them both at the same time.

Question is: I have no idea who I should like (J or T) or both? I mean, how could i possibly choose between two of my best friends?

If it didn't work out with 'J' before, I doubt it will work again (I speak from experience)
If 'J' is mean to other people but nice to you, that doesn't make it right. He is nice to you because he is your friend, and because he likes you. That's it.
"If you want to see the true measure of a man, watch how he treats his inferiors, not his equals." I think that kind of goes for this situation.
And going down to your last paragraph, what they are doing is obviously very immature. *frowns* I understand being around both of them makes you feel awkward/uncomfortable, but if it makes you awkward when your single, how will that change when/if you are dating one of them? If you are best friends with both of them, whomever you choose is going to still be jealous of the time you spend with the other.
I guess from the information you gave me I would choose to go for 'T'. The choosing who to like is all up to you. Those are your feelings, and judging from this, I think you like both of them.