Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

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[Medusa72]

If your on this fourm seeking advice because you're "confused" What's there to be confused about?
For goodness sakes, if you like someone tell them. It's far better than holding back feelings. If that person is already in a happy relationship with someone, leave them alone. Don't be that person who is so desperate for their attention that you interrupt their happiness for your own.
Don't get overly depressed over a relationship. I know it's depressing but there are so many other things or people that can make you happy. Your career, your family, your friends, getting in the Christmas spirit!
I encourage you to take a step back and see, "is it really that confusing or complicated?"
Also if you don't know what to do, pretend it's a friend in your situation... what advice would you give them? Try using your own judgment first, and then post on here.
Please know that I have the highest respect for you all, and love giving advice.

TheFacilePoet

[Pyrrha Nikos]

If your on this fourm seeking advice because you're "confused" What's there to be confused about?
For goodness sakes, if you like someone tell them. It's far better than holding back feelings. If that person is already in a happy relationship with someone, leave them alone. Don't be that person who is so desperate for their attention that you interrupt their happiness for your own.
Don't get overly depressed over a relationship. I know it's depressing but there are so many other things or people that can make you happy. Your career, your family, your friends, getting in the Christmas spirit!
I encourage you to take a step back and see, "is it really that confusing or complicated?"
Also if you don't know what to do, pretend it's a friend in your situation... what advice would you give them? Try using your own judgment first, and then post on here.
Please know that I have the highest respect for you all, and love giving advice.

TheFacilePoet

Preach! There is nothing worse than really liking somebody, neither of you say anything and then you get over them and BAM! You figure out they like you. Or the other way around. So, say something! Speak up, don't be afraid. You just need 20 seconds of insane courage and I promise you something good will come of it. :3

[Medusa72]

If your on this fourm seeking advice because you're "confused" What's there to be confused about?
For goodness sakes, if you like someone tell them. It's far better than holding back feelings. If that person is already in a happy relationship with someone, leave them alone. Don't be that person who is so desperate for their attention that you interrupt their happiness for your own.
Don't get overly depressed over a relationship. I know it's depressing but there are so many other things or people that can make you happy. Your career, your family, your friends, getting in the Christmas spirit!
I encourage you to take a step back and see, "is it really that confusing or complicated?"
Also if you don't know what to do, pretend it's a friend in your situation... what advice would you give them? Try using your own judgment first, and then post on here.
Please know that I have the highest respect for you all, and love giving advice.

TheFacilePoet

Preach! There is nothing worse than really liking somebody, neither of you say anything and then you get over them and BAM! You figure out they like you. Or the other way around. So, say something! Speak up, don't be afraid. You just need 20 seconds of insane courage and I promise you something good will come of it. :3

Lol.

20 seconds of insane courage...

Love that.

[HRMARCEA]

Meh.... He's sick I couldn't even tell him his new haircut was cute...

[mama2livandty]

Also, if anyone needs some advice or someone to talk to, PM me! I've known my husband for almost 6 years, been with him since August, 2012, and we just recently got married <3 I'd be happy to help anyone who needs it!

[thunderofthedrum]

Also, if anyone needs some advice or someone to talk to, PM me! I've known my husband for almost 6 years, been with him since August, 2012, and we just recently got married <3 I'd be happy to help anyone who needs it!

Isn't life interesting like that?
Sounds like you started dating your husband when I started dating my ex. I was with him for over two years also, and he wanted to marry me.
Except I didn't. (for many reasons that I won't jump into right now)

But you guys were good and mutual and now married, congrats. I doubt I'll be married that quickly; I have a feeling I'll be with someone 2-3 years before even getting engaged, but everyone's different. I wouldn't be surprised if I don't live quite the 'typical' life of my peers and their parents though.
Life is just interesting, and the diversity is refreshing.

[Bluemare40]

Quiiiick question haha.
Sort of a matter of opinion... well sort of.
When do you think it's typical to start dating someone?
Well, the reason I'm wondering is because I just feel like I'm... behind. In high school, everyone just seems to have a boyfriend, or have someone be interested in them. I know that I don't exactly have time for a boyfriend (I have an incredibly busy life), that it's not the most important thing, and that I have plenty of time... I just want to end up alone for some reason.
My mom went to prom with a senior when she was a freshman, and she met my dad at around my age.... I've never even held hands with a guy. I've been told that guys have had crushes on me apparently, but that was when I was little, so that doesn't really count. Idk, sorry if this sounds stupid I just have to kind of vent... I guess.
I know that it's not the most important thing... and that I have time... also, I know to never just be in a relationship just because... I'm just kind of... curious. I don't want to end up being alone until I'm in my sixties.

[Bluemare40]

Quiiiick question haha.
Sort of a matter of opinion... well sort of.
When do you think it's typical to start dating someone?
Well, the reason I'm wondering is because I just feel like I'm... behind. In high school, everyone just seems to have a boyfriend, or have someone be interested in them. I know that I don't exactly have time for a boyfriend (I have an incredibly busy life), that it's not the most important thing, and that I have plenty of time... I just want to end up alone for some reason.
My mom went to prom with a senior when she was a freshman, and she met my dad at around my age.... I've never even held hands with a guy. I've been told that guys have had crushes on me apparently, but that was when I was little, so that doesn't really count. Idk, sorry if this sounds stupid I just have to kind of vent... I guess.
I know that it's not the most important thing... and that I have time... also, I know to never just be in a relationship just because... I'm just kind of... curious. I don't want to end up being alone until I'm in my sixties.

Oh, also, a quick add on. I'm not one of those girls who'd be kissing every guy she met. (I'm actually a bit of a germaphobe )
The most I would do (if I ever even had a boyfriend) was maybe hold hands and talk. That's about it Heck I don't even know if I'm ready to dat. Wow.... that was a lot sorry guys.

[DaydreamNarrator]

Quiiiick question haha.
Sort of a matter of opinion... well sort of.
When do you think it's typical to start dating someone?
Well, the reason I'm wondering is because I just feel like I'm... behind. In high school, everyone just seems to have a boyfriend, or have someone be interested in them. I know that I don't exactly have time for a boyfriend (I have an incredibly busy life), that it's not the most important thing, and that I have plenty of time... I just want to end up alone for some reason.
My mom went to prom with a senior when she was a freshman, and she met my dad at around my age.... I've never even held hands with a guy. I've been told that guys have had crushes on me apparently, but that was when I was little, so that doesn't really count. Idk, sorry if this sounds stupid I just have to kind of vent... I guess.
I know that it's not the most important thing... and that I have time... also, I know to never just be in a relationship just because... I'm just kind of... curious. I don't want to end up being alone until I'm in my sixties.

Oh, also, a quick add on. I'm not one of those girls who'd be kissing every guy she met. (I'm actually a bit of a germaphobe )
The most I would do (if I ever even had a boyfriend) was maybe hold hands and talk. That's about it Heck I don't even know if I'm ready to dat. Wow.... that was a lot sorry guys.

ya know, i was thinking just like you. but once you meet that one person, that will change. Trust me, a year ago, i would've not kissed anyone- but now i have a boyfriend and everything changed^^ a typical age or whatever isn't existing. don't date a guy just because you think you're "behind".