Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[surfiez]

yah same but i wish i was as close to my guy A like your guy 1. guy A hasnt said anything about his feelings yet but i really hope he does X3 my friends want me togo for guy B because they think hes cuter and nicer but id much rather be with guy A. its very strange when it comes to who i like more because it really depends on who i recently hung out with. i also rejected two guys this year! I am very shocked that a lot of people like me this year XD

[Medusa72]

So there's this guy. I've literally seem to have fallen head over hills for. We have known each other since last year which isn't really long, but it feels like forever. I didn't like him crush wise last year really. Just as a friend because of one major issue. He never let me in as in he would never open up to tell me who he truly was. I learned his personality by hanging out with him. When we hang out for some reason it's like a firework waiting to be lit. We shall call him Ty. Well Ty and I are decent friends. We've been talking a lot lately and I haven't seen him since like September. It's been three months. Last time we hung out he kissed me on the cheek and gosh did I cheese and blush! I was playing around and called him and his friends "Thirsty" because a really cute girl walked into the book store and they dragged Ty with them, but Ty yanked away and said, "Why would I need her when I have you?," I don't understand because we aren't dating! I told him I really do miss him and that I was starting to like him. Last year he told me that he loved me.. In what way? I didn't ask. A friend was talking to him through Facebook and told Ty that he loved him, but Ty's response was, "I love you too, Skyy." That's my nickname, so it got really awkward at the fact that he admitted that to someone else. Then they got mad at me. The first time I kissed him was under a dare with our friends, but I don't really feel comfortable kissing in front of like tons of people. It's just weird to me. So when we did kiss, we couldn't let go. I swear it was like a thousand fireworks set off at once. But when we did finally let go we couldn't stop staring into each others eyes. Mind you I'm still in high school and really I'm scared to fall for someone again. We were talking the other day and he told me why he wouldn't let me in last year. He said it was because so many people had hurt him in the past he just built a wall and nobody can break through it. I told him to give me a chance and that I wouldn't hurt him because I care about him too much. Uhg, why am I such a sweetheart. I just love the fact that he put up with me through everything. Through the tears, me being annoying, goofing off, Joking around, romantic moments, my depression he's been there for me. I just need to find a way to start opening up his book, so I can read to find out what and who hurt him. How do I do that? Where do I start? There's more to the story, but I'll save that till after someone replies to this.

Oh my goodness! I'm happy for you that you have what sounds like an awesome opportunity to be with someone who appreciates you!
My advice is this: it sounds like he's super uncomfortable with talking about his past. I think he would open up to you over a long period of time with much support and encouragement. I wouldn't suggest prodding him into talking though.
Ask yourself though: if you love him, does it matter who did what to him?
Whether the answer is yes or no, I think you should just show your support.
Super cute story! Hope this helped!

[Medusa72]

A few things.........
I feel like the only reason I like this guy is because he liked me first. (In love with the idea of love and not the actual person.) How can I be sure, what should I do?

And...

In your opinion, what are some signs that a guy likes you?

[TheSiren]

Oh my goodness! I'm happy for you that you have what sounds like an awesome opportunity to be with someone who appreciates you!
My advice is this: it sounds like he's super uncomfortable with talking about his past. I think he would open up to you over a long period of time with much support and encouragement. I wouldn't suggest prodding him into talking though.
Ask yourself though: if you love him, does it matter who did what to him?
Whether the answer is yes or no, I think you should just show your support.
Super cute story! Hope this helped!

Hehe, thank you. I mean I should take that in consider. I just want him to know that I care a lot. It doesn't matter who did it. I'm here to put the band aid on the boo-boo. I don't blame him I don't go around telling my past either. I just feel I would understand why he acts a certain way if I knew what happened in his past. Well, I have to suck it up and give him some time. Can't force him to speak I'll just find something else to talk about. I feel like this is a very good opportunity. I just need him to come home -he doesn't live with me, but he is out of state- so we can hang out or whatever. Plus what makes him even more golden my siblings who are 6 and 4 absolutely ADORE him and they've only met him once. They never stopped playing with him and when he left they were so upset. I just hope it can be good when he meets my mom. -He has to meet mom in order to be in the house. No strangers allowed in the house. -

In your opinion, what are some signs that a guy likes you?

They play with you, tease you, make jokes, flirt, small pick up lines, treating you different from how they treat others. Smiling can sometimes show a sign, Corny jokes, cheesy phrases, close walking, light shoving, pointless long conversations -you guys can talk and talk about nothing, but still have something to talk about- The first part, Idk what to tell ya. Sowweh.

[trivium]

Sooo, I may or may not be knitting a scarf for this one guy. I hope he wears it ;w; Pretty excited, but I think I might just give it to his sister to give to him. *Queen Awkward*

[Medusa72]

Oh my goodness! I'm happy for you that you have what sounds like an awesome opportunity to be with someone who appreciates you!
My advice is this: it sounds like he's super uncomfortable with talking about his past. I think he would open up to you over a long period of time with much support and encouragement. I wouldn't suggest prodding him into talking though.
Ask yourself though: if you love him, does it matter who did what to him?
Whether the answer is yes or no, I think you should just show your support.
Super cute story! Hope this helped!

Hehe, thank you. I mean I should take that in consider. I just want him to know that I care a lot. It doesn't matter who did it. I'm here to put the band aid on the boo-boo. I don't blame him I don't go around telling my past either. I just feel I would understand why he acts a certain way if I knew what happened in his past. Well, I have to suck it up and give him some time. Can't force him to speak I'll just find something else to talk about. I feel like this is a very good opportunity. I just need him to come home -he doesn't live with me, but he is out of state- so we can hang out or whatever. Plus what makes him even more golden my siblings who are 6 and 4 absolutely ADORE him and they've only met him once. They never stopped playing with him and when he left they were so upset. I just hope it can be good when he meets my mom. -He has to meet mom in order to be in the house. No strangers allowed in the house. -

Oh my gosh! That makes it even more cute!!! I don't know you, but I think you can trust your own judgment. So good luck!

In your opinion, what are some signs that a guy likes you?

They play with you, tease you, make jokes, flirt, small pick up lines, treating you different from how they treat others. Smiling can sometimes show a sign, Corny jokes, cheesy phrases, close walking, light shoving, pointless long conversations -you guys can talk and talk about nothing, but still have something to talk about- The first part, Idk what to tell ya. Sowweh.

Haha, these are great!
It's okay, I'll probably just try to forget about him because I don't want to be in a relationship I'm unsure about.

[kotalicious]

So my crush blocked me on facebook. -_- He told me multiple times that he liked me and he knows I like him. I don't know what I did wrong. He won't text me anymore either and if he does the longest conversation we have is ten minutes. Such a confidence booster -_-

[Nat!]

I play matchmaker to all of my single friends.
I just start shipping and I can't stop...~<3

[JetFNPWind]

So, I'd love if someone could give me some advice for this situation cause It's kinda bothering me and I really don't know what to do and/or how to feel towards it.

Ok, so me and this guy have been friends for a while and he admitted that he liked me over Thanksgiving break. I liked him too, and I told him that. We talked a lot for the next few weeks and suddenly he just disappeared? We'd talk and he text back (Not even a minute later) and then just poof, he was gone? I realize that he works and that may take up a lot of time and such but usually he texts me anyways? And I mean, when he texts me he flirts with me non-stop. I guess I'm just getting mixed messages and don't understand. Can anyone give me any advice on what to do? He's seriously the only person I talk to and is my best friend and I just feel lost without talking to my best friend. We don't really see each other at school considering he's a Junior and I'm a Sophomore and we don't have the same classes but occasionally when we do see each other he'll playfully pick on me (For example, if I'm trying to text someone he'll walk up to me and put his hand over me phone and when he has to turn to go for his class he'll kinda shove me to the side). I am so confused???????

If you'd like to pm me to give me advice I'd appreciate it, and here's a link:
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Thank you so much to anyone who offers to help <3

Any advice on my situation? I'd really like to try and figure it out before school tomorrow in case I run into him, ya know?

[surfiez]

My friends say that he is a partier and goes for the girls who play every guy. I really like him and I think he might like me… he's nice to me and treats me differently than he treats other girls at parties… should I still flirt with him? My friends want me to go for the other guy and he's super nice but I'd rather be with the first guy