Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[JetFNPWind]

So, I'd love if someone could give me some advice for this situation cause It's kinda bothering me and I really don't know what to do and/or how to feel towards it.

Ok, so me and this guy have been friends for a while and he admitted that he liked me over Thanksgiving break. I liked him too, and I told him that. We talked a lot for the next few weeks and suddenly he just disappeared? We'd talk and he text back (Not even a minute later) and then just poof, he was gone? I realize that he works and that may take up a lot of time and such but usually he texts me anyways? And I mean, when he texts me he flirts with me non-stop. I guess I'm just getting mixed messages and don't understand. Can anyone give me any advice on what to do? He's seriously the only person I talk to and is my best friend and I just feel lost without talking to my best friend. We don't really see each other at school considering he's a Junior and I'm a Sophomore and we don't have the same classes but occasionally when we do see each other he'll playfully pick on me (For example, if I'm trying to text someone he'll walk up to me and put his hand over me phone and when he has to turn to go for his class he'll kinda shove me to the side). I am so confused???????

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Any advice on my situation? I'd really like to try and figure it out before school tomorrow in case I run into him, ya know?

[TheSiren]

So there's this guy. I've literally seem to have fallen head over hills for. We have known each other since last year which isn't really long, but it feels like forever. I didn't like him crush wise last year really. Just as a friend because of one major issue. He never let me in as in he would never open up to tell me who he truly was. I learned his personality by hanging out with him. When we hang out for some reason it's like a firework waiting to be lit. We shall call him Ty. Well Ty and I are decent friends. We've been talking a lot lately and I haven't seen him since like September. It's been three months. Last time we hung out he kissed me on the cheek and gosh did I cheese and blush! I was playing around and called him and his friends "Thirsty" because a really cute girl walked into the book store and they dragged Ty with them, but Ty yanked away and said, "Why would I need her when I have you?," I don't understand because we aren't dating! I told him I really do miss him and that I was starting to like him. Last year he told me that he loved me.. In what way? I didn't ask. A friend was talking to him through Facebook and told Ty that he loved him, but Ty's response was, "I love you too, Skyy." That's my nickname, so it got really awkward at the fact that he admitted that to someone else. Then they got mad at me. The first time I kissed him was under a dare with our friends, but I don't really feel comfortable kissing in front of like tons of people. It's just weird to me. So when we did kiss, we couldn't let go. I swear it was like a thousand fireworks set off at once. But when we did finally let go we couldn't stop staring into each others eyes. Mind you I'm still in high school and really I'm scared to fall for someone again. We were talking the other day and he told me why he wouldn't let me in last year. He said it was because so many people had hurt him in the past he just built a wall and nobody can break through it. I told him to give me a chance and that I wouldn't hurt him because I care about him too much. Uhg, why am I such a sweetheart. I just love the fact that he put up with me through everything. Through the tears, me being annoying, goofing off, Joking around, romantic moments, my depression he's been there for me. I just need to find a way to start opening up his book, so I can read to find out what and who hurt him. How do I do that? Where do I start? There's more to the story, but I'll save that till after someone replies to this.

[surfiez]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling…he loves animals like me and my friends say that he's like a guy version of me XD UPDATE! : spent the day at the surf contest with guy A and he was super funny XD he kept coming over to me and my friends and making us laugh. He saw I was paddling out so he ran with me into the water and we talked the whole paddle out. We are always sarcastic around each other when it comes to surfing and it's really fun! However my friends occasionally catch him looking at me a few times when we are around eachother… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Just to make sure but do you think they actually like me? Any opinions on this and what should be the next move?

thanks @Tsumi!
Looking for more opinions... feel free to pm me

[Hano]

Ok so I've liked this one guy for awhile and he's super nice and kind (guy A) I think he likes me but I'm not sure… anyway I met (guy B) at school this year and he is nice and kind too and Im pretty sure he likes me… they both have my must haves in a guy (blonde surfer) but I don't know who I should go for… guy A was my first crush and he's amazing and I'd choose him over guy B but recently I hung out with guy B and he offered me his jacket when I was cold and he faked pushed me and scared me XD… however me and guy A have some moments too… he gives me his waves when we surf together and I always catch him looking at me and smiling…he loves animals like me and my friends say that he's like a guy version of me XD UPDATE! : spent the day at the surf contest with guy A and he was super funny XD he kept coming over to me and my friends and making us laugh. He saw I was paddling out so he ran with me into the water and we talked the whole paddle out. We are always sarcastic around each other when it comes to surfing and it's really fun! However my friends occasionally catch him looking at me a few times when we are around eachother… ugh I have no idea they are both amazing ;-; I'm pretty sure they both like me but do you think they do? UPDATE! Recently surfed with guy B and had a great time… I also saw him today at school and I noticed an occasional glance at me now and then... His friends also made fun of him when I asked for some paper… they said "guy B will give you some because he loves you!" I don't know if that was a joke or trying to embarrass him... But that's the first time they have said that and we've all sat together for a month now. Just to make sure but do you think they actually like me? Any opinions on this and what should be the next move?

thanks @Tsumi!
Looking for more opinions... feel free to pm me

Do you still talk to guy A? I know he's your first crush, but that it, just a crush. Guy seems like a good guy and you might have a real connection if you get to know him better. Crushes come and go, look for someone you have a real friendship with and go from there. If you don't talk to A anymore, try to get to know guy B. But if you do, just put yourself out there and hang out and get to know each on of them. It will be obvious if you actually try to get to know them better. You just have to see who's a better match for you.

[surfiez]

honestly i like them both. guy B is the one who reached out to talk to me and I only speak to guy A when i see him. do you think they like me? i need to make sure...

[Hano]

honestly i like them both. guy B is the one who reached out to talk to me and I only speak to guy A when i see him. do you think they like me? i need to make sure...

Honestly, just ask him. What's the worst that could happen? He says no? That's better then spending the rest of your life wondering if he did or not. Sometimes us girls have to make the first move. It honestly sounds like he likes you, but no one can know for sure unless you are direct with your feelings and ask him if he feels the same way!

[dozy]

honestly i like them both. guy B is the one who reached out to talk to me and I only speak to guy A when i see him. do you think they like me? i need to make sure...

Hypothetical situations are your best friend :')
Or casually drop that you think you might be developing feelings for someone and then watch their reactions.
Serious conversations bring out the serious nature of a guy, you can see how he feels about you.

Although reading from your thing, it sounds like they do. Men can seem to be strange creatures (I work in a shop aimed at guys, with guys as staff members), and they tend to do the whole 'sarcastic/playing about thing/teasing' when they like you. One of the guys at work thinks it's funny to fly the helicopter above my head as I'm serving a customer because I'm wary of them after one dropped and stuck in my hair (I had to have it cut out of my hair), or leave a dying ceiling car above my head but jump in and catch it before it falls onto my head. As soon as one actually dropped on to my head though, he apologised and bought me a drink :')

[surfiez]

haha that sounds fun XD and thanks! my friend took pictures of us running out into the water together and i cant get over them ^_^ eeeeek i love having crushes >.< its the best feeling

[JustDucky]

My sister has this friend who is like a brother to us, but not related to us at all. I let him use my phone, and he left a message in my memo saying he likes me alot. He has a gf, but isn't interested in her anymore. I have a bf, who I am very much in love with, and would never leave.
He said he knows I have a bf, but that doesn't change his feelings for me, but he will respect that. He has been flirting with me, and stuff. Should I tell my boyfriend? I don't think I want them to fight over me, but he has the right to know.

[❝steℓℓar❞]

I'm in he same boat at @surfiez
I like my best friend
But I also like this other guy
Guy 1 is my best friend and I told him last night that I still liked him and he said he likes me back. The only few problems

A. He knows I have a crush on Guy 2 and is trying to help me talk to him
B. We both talk about our crushes to each other
C. He's not interested in dating right now
D. I'm his wingman when he completes zaps and/or talks to crushes

Guy 2... Well I don't know him as much... He's just a nice guy I really like and I really don't know what to do...