Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[miko.]

Im really confused
I have this guy best friend whom I met on the first day of highschool
We were seatmates then
I was so shy and won't talk to anyone unless they talked to me first
And thats when he came
He just turned to face me and then started talking to me
We became friends not too long
He would squeeze my arm, squeeze my cheeks
He even said that he missed me when I was absent
During 2nd quarter our seats were changed
But in 3rd quarter we were seatmates again
At first he would only talk to the person beside me
As if i didn't exist
And damn that hurt
But after a few days he would talk to me like before
During our intrams was what confused me the most
I know he does not like me (he never mentioned it though)
After we won our volleyball match he came up to me and placed an arm around my shoulders and whispered Congratulations to me
After that he hugged me

My feelings for him may cause me more pain than before
Help?...
I want to know what you guys think of him and what he thinks of me..

Ok. He sounds awesome, that's what I think of him. Also it sounds like he likes you, and if not, he wants to be friends with you. Also I had a situation like this, but.... Never mind. Anyway, one thing you could do is make friends with one of his friends, then ask them if they know how he feels/ what he thinks of you. If your friends know about this, I would definitely ask them first if they think he likes you.

Eh thats the problem >_<
I have plenty of friends that are close to him
But everyone assumes (aside from my close friends)including him that I like his other best friend which isn't true
But I guess its okay if everyone thinks that since my crush wont know its him I like..
Right?...

[Tainted~Wings]

Ugh I am sure I am in love. A guy I am sure I like goes to the same school as me and bowls on the school team with me. He volenteered to take me to my brothers after practice. He has even tooken me to burger king with his friends. He has a facination with animals like me. He also has the biggest knack for Whales just like me. He asked me what my favorite whale was and our answer was the same, an Orca. He gave me the nickname Whales and he won't let anyone else call me Whales really except for his best friend. Everyone swears we're a thing but I am not sure. He also plays all these country songs for me. I am friends with a friend of his on the boys half of the team and I've heard them telling him that he has a thing for me and he denies. The bad thing is if he asks me out what will happen if we stay a thing, if we even are, because he graduates this spring? Its not like I wouldn't trust him to go to college and get a good job but I don't know what to do or assume. Does he like me? If he asks me out should I say yea? What should I do if we do go out and don't break up and he goes to college?

[ProudHufflepuff]

Ugh I am sure I am in love. A guy I am sure I like goes to the same school as me and bowls on the school team with me. He volenteered to take me to my brothers after practice. He has even tooken me to burger king with his friends. He has a facination with animals like me. He also has the biggest knack for Whales just like me. He asked me what my favorite whale was and our answer was the same, an Orca. He gave me the nickname Whales and he won't let anyone else call me Whales really except for his best friend. Everyone swears we're a thing but I am not sure. He also plays all these country songs for me. I am friends with a friend of his on the boys half of the team and I've heard them telling him that he has a thing for me and he denies. The bad thing is if he asks me out what will happen if we stay a thing, if we even are, because he graduates this spring? Its not like I wouldn't trust him to go to college and get a good job but I don't know what to do or assume. Does he like me? If he asks me out should I say yea? What should I do if we do go out and don't break up and he goes to college?

I think you should say yes...if you know for sure u can trust him. Long distance is hard but not impossible. :3 and if you ever need advice with it let me know
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I just...he's so amazing :3 I must be the luckiest girl in the world. He's so funny and cute and a little awkward but he's so like...cool...like he's the good kinda awkward. He's so sweet and supportive and understanding and sometimes I think I'm not good enough for him and he deserves better...I told him that one day I was all upset and feeling worthless and he was like "don't say that...I love you and no one is even close to being as amazing as you" and I just awwwwwhfkdbej. But I'm like super awkward and I've sent him videos on Skype when I could get on and he couldn't and I've rewatched them and I'm like painfully awkward but he always tells me he loves them and they're amazing...idk he just treats me like a princess
Sorry I'm just in a good mood today xD

[SoundAndVision]

What should I do if I truly like someone but I know they have a boyfriend....I truly am in love with this girl, not because of how shed looks but because of who she is.

[Dia.]

What should I do if I truly like someone but I know they have a boyfriend....I truly am in love with this girl, not because of how shed looks but because of who she is.

You can't do anything. She's in a relationship and you need to respect that.

[SoundAndVision]

What should I do if I truly like someone but I know they have a boyfriend....I truly am in love with this girl, not because of how shed looks but because of who she is.

You can't do anything. She's in a relationship and you need to respect that.

I do respect it but I still want to be with her. I only accept her being in this realationship because he knows she has psoriasis and is accepting of it but I want to help her with it because I know she hates her psoriasis

[.rin okumura.]

Okay so my best friend, well call her B, Is always trying to get me hooked up with guys so today me and my other best friend, M, tried to get her to talk to her crush. Well she totally flipped out and was telling us no. Well I asked her what was the problem and she said she liked him but just wanted to be friends. So I said B in order to be friends you need to talk to him. Well she got super pissed and still won't talk to me and M. And when M tried to apologize to B she replied to M Well I can be grumpy if I want to, it's my life not yours.
She still won't talk to him and she keeps acting like she asked him to marry her and he rejected her. She also got really angry when M and I were talking to him about a TV show. What did I do wrong? Did she over react or nah? I need some help!

[thunderofthedrum]

What should I do if I truly like someone but I know they have a boyfriend....I truly am in love with this girl, not because of how shed looks but because of who she is.

You can't do anything. She's in a relationship and you need to respect that.

I do respect it but I still want to be with her. I only accept her being in this realationship because he knows she has psoriasis and is accepting of it but I want to help her with it because I know she hates her psoriasis

I certainly hope he has more to offer than simply being accepting of psoriasis.. That had better not be the only reason you approve of him. Someone could have a club foot and be dating someone who accepts that yet is still awful or simply incompatible in other ways. And unfortunately people settle for the wrong person for exactly situations like that.

Still, that said, again - you do have to respect it. You can be friends with her though. YOU have to choose whether you still want to try to be friends with her or not. Beyond that, there is nothing to 'do'.

I have a question for everyone, for those of you with significant others, do you have a ship name for yourselves? My boyfriend and myself use "Kames"..

No. Quite honestly I find that weird. I wouldn't want to feel like my relationship has a fanclub and I have only ever felt that ships were okay for fictional characters (such as Dramione, though I don't sail that ship myself). I don't like them for celebrities either. It just really feels like a silly and make believe thing to me. And that's not bad, just that I feel it ought to stay in the realm of fiction. I feel like when people get excited about ships they lose sight of whether those people are actually compatible or happy, like they just enjoy the drama for themselves, the excuse to get excited and gush about something.

So eh, I just wouldn't want it for me.

[pizzas and scream]

Ugh I am sure I am in love. A guy I am sure I like goes to the same school as me and bowls on the school team with me. He volenteered to take me to my brothers after practice. He has even tooken me to burger king with his friends. He has a facination with animals like me. He also has the biggest knack for Whales just like me. He asked me what my favorite whale was and our answer was the same, an Orca. He gave me the nickname Whales and he won't let anyone else call me Whales really except for his best friend. Everyone swears we're a thing but I am not sure. He also plays all these country songs for me. I am friends with a friend of his on the boys half of the team and I've heard them telling him that he has a thing for me and he denies. The bad thing is if he asks me out what will happen if we stay a thing, if we even are, because he graduates this spring? Its not like I wouldn't trust him to go to college and get a good job but I don't know what to do or assume. Does he like me? If he asks me out should I say yea? What should I do if we do go out and don't break up and he goes to college?

I think you should say yes...if you know for sure u can trust him. Long distance is hard but not impossible. :3 and if you ever need advice with it let me know
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I just...he's so amazing :3 I must be the luckiest girl in the world. He's so funny and cute and a little awkward but he's so like...cool...like he's the good kinda awkward. He's so sweet and supportive and understanding and sometimes I think I'm not good enough for him and he deserves better...I told him that one day I was all upset and feeling worthless and he was like "don't say that...I love you and no one is even close to being as amazing as you" and I just awwwwwhfkdbej. But I'm like super awkward and I've sent him videos on Skype when I could get on and he couldn't and I've rewatched them and I'm like painfully awkward but he always tells me he loves them and they're amazing...idk he just treats me like a princess
Sorry I'm just in a good mood today xD

that is good. I get people who would tell me they would abandon me if/when I put myself down.
I guess they are not good, having those kind around.
true love is sticking with someone, no matter what downward spiral they have

[JustDucky]

My boyfriend's ex girlfriend wanted to be friends with me, but she still has feelings for him. I don't think we could be friends, because she still likes him, and we were friends before me and him got together, but he chose me, over her, so I did the same.
Well she don't try to hide her feelings, and she is very clear about them. She is constantly flirting with him, and it makes him uncomfortable.
Should I leave it alone?