Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[vulture,]

So I've noticed something over the past few days. Now this doesn't bother me in the slightest, I actually find it kind of entertaining. My boyfriend does not like other guys doing anything remotely close to flirting with me. He also seems to have an awareness of those guys that won't get off my back and try to hit on me every day. The other day, him and I were talking with a few other friends outside of my classroom. One kid (whom I have posted about before as being creepy, not taking a hint, trying to touch me, etc.) tried to join in our conversation and said hello to me, but no one else. My boyfriend gave him a look that is the closest thing to a glare I have ever seen him make, then grabbed me into a hug in the middle of a conversation. I've told him before about that kid and, before we were dating, he witnessed the kid trying to put his hand on my knee or something, he knows that I hate the kid and I'm pretty sure he's trying to make a statement. He had a brief conversation with the kid whilst I was trapped then let me go once the kid left.
We went out for coffee not too long ago and I was talking to the barista who was being rather friendly. I wouldn't say he was flirting, but he was being nice and smiley. My boyfriend decided it necessary to stand right next to me so that my back was against his chest. When it had been a female barista, he stood like a normal person next to me.

Now, all that said, I don't want anyone under the impression that he is trying to keep me from talking to any other guy. He is perfectly fine when I am with other guy friends, so long as none of them try to flirt, he is content. He has no problem with me hanging out with other guys just as I have no problem with him hanging out with other girls.

[spring.]

a = a kid i am having problems with
j = an ex-boyfriend
lex = my best friend
pop = a friend of mine
t = the girl who started it all

okay, so i have a friend, t, who told me about a problem she was having with a. she said he messaged her saying he has a crush on her, etc, but he doesn't know her. so, she said well, spring can set you up with someone/ you can ask her out. well, i don't want to go out with this kid. he messages me and wants to get to know me, and then he starts asking if i know anyone single. i am over here, snapchatting my friends pop, lex, and my ex, j (i still really like j, too). so i am putting on snapchat SOS and things like that, because i really don't want to get involved with this kid. so j starts snapchatting me regarding the situation, so i ask him for help. i ask him for things i can say to get out of it, things like that. j gives no indication of helping me. so i am over here, scared because of some of the things this kid is saying. i am asking pop and lex for help out of this, but they can't offer any help (i have been in situations like this before, and they couldn't help then. .-.). so finally, a starts letting up. but yesterday, he said, 'tbh, i wish i could be in a relationship with you', 'i wish you were single', things of that nature. i'm sitting over here like, but i am...?

the first thing i do is snapchat j and ask what he said to a, because he is the only one that has seen conversations between him and i. he says nothing, and finally this morning when i asked again, he responds with 'did he stop?' i said yes, and i asked what he said. he said nothing back.

i don't know what to make of it. lex thinks he's trying to hint at something.

pop says he's just trying to screw with my head because he suspects i still like him.

but it is especially weird because this would have been j and i's anniversary. i don't know if that plays into it, but i didn't think about it. this whole situation was not like the one i was in before, this has taken a turn for the worse... much worse than it has to be. now i'm stressed about what j said. i want to call him but i'm not supposed to have a phone. my mom knows a little about this situation, but not today's updates.

[doobie]

Ok so over the past weeks I've had this crush. All my guy friends know him and one introduced him to me and I just smiled and nodded, awkwardly. he did the same then we both looked off. Then my friend had to go to the bathroom leaving us alone.. Me and him just told each other our names then I sat on the Ground. My friend then came back and walked off. Now every day he says hi and watches me walk off. My friends hate him so yeah... Haven't told them and won't until I'm ready to. Advice?

[Tainted~Wings]

Ugh I am sure I am in love. A guy I am sure I like goes to the same school as me and bowls on the school team with me. He volenteered to take me to my brothers after practice. He has even tooken me to burger king with his friends. He has a facination with animals like me. He also has the biggest knack for Whales just like me. He asked me what my favorite whale was and our answer was the same, an Orca. He gave me the nickname Whales and he won't let anyone else call me Whales really except for his best friend. Everyone swears we're a thing but I am not sure. He also plays all these country songs for me. I am friends with a friend of his on the boys half of the team and I've heard them telling him that he has a thing for me and he denies. The bad thing is if he asks me out what will happen if we stay a thing, if we even are, because he graduates this spring? Its not like I wouldn't trust him to go to college and get a good job but I don't know what to do or assume. Does he like me? If he asks me out should I say yea? What should I do if we do go out and don't break up and he goes to college?

[JustDucky]

[*Squirms* Hi! Okay, so, there's this guy.. Lets call him K. Okay. So, K has a girlfriend that he never hangs out with. He is either 'cuddling'(really close to me, staring at me), or talking to me. And, I really like K. I think he likes me too.. K is my best friend and I know he likes me back. But one thing, he has a girlfriend. One last thing, he is very protective of me, he gives me nicknames and literally punches anyone who calls me that (Unless I say it's okay, of course.).. What should I do??]

My bestfriend used to be like this. He had a girlfriend at the time too. Lol. I used to hate him, but then I realised it was really love I was feeling. So I told him, and he was shocked at first, but then he told me he liked me ever since he first met me, and (he asked me out before he started dating his girlfriend, but I rejected him) he didn't want to break his girlfriend's heart. He never did have feelings for her, though. He eventually began to hate her, and broke up with her, and we started going out about a week later two days after my birthday. We'll be together for four months on the 24th. At first it was hard to get used to, but now I can't imagine being without him.

[kaplantai]

me + my major shyness + the boy i have a thing with = awkwardddddd '^'

[nightbeat]

i've been really wanting to confess to my crush, but i still haven't had the courage to do so.
is there anything that's a good idea to do before confessing? i've been friends with him for 5 months now, and it's been making me fall for him even more. i don't want to mess things up if i ever decide to tell him my feelings *sweats*

by the way i'm not asking how to ask him out, more like what to do before i ask him out, if i do. is there anything i should learn about first? i know he has never dated, and seems pretty oblivious to my crush on him hah.

[GHOSTGUTS]

So I'm super excited. This will be my first Christmas spent with my girlfriend. Well, it'll also be my first New Years with someone as well. I guess it doesn't help that she lives in Florida and I'm all the way up here in Ontario, Canada.
We were close to meeting up, though. Of course, things took a turn and my car broke down so I was left without any way to get to her. On the plus side, she should be coming back over in the summer of '15. Fingers crossed! c:

[compass;]

I'll be using this thread a lot. So if anyone is really good with relationships pm me and you might have to help me out for the next couple of weeks. xP

I think I'm actually staring to make friends with my crush. Sure, the first conversation we had was because his friends pushed him over to me and it was really awkward but this whole texting thing is a lot of fun. Especially with him. What would be a good thing to say to him to hint I like him, but not obviously give it away and make a fool of myself?

[kotalicious]

So I've been hanging out with my crush at least once a week for a few weeks now. Last week he came to my house at 3:00. We played with my nephew who is only a year old for half an hour. He's so good with kids. Its so cute <3 Anyway, we left my house around 3:30 and went to his house. We went up into his room after saying hi to his mom, who may or may not like me. She doesn't talk to me at all so I feel like she doesn't like me -_- I had never seen 22 Jump Street so we watched that movie and cuddled the whole time. About halfway through the movie he fell asleep. It was kind of cute lol. We watched paranormal activity four (i think that's the one) next and he laughed at me every time I jumped. I am such a baby when it comes to scary movies. I left his house at 8:30 and he dropped me off at home. When he got home he texted me and we talked until around 1am. I'm hoping we get to hang out this week, but I'm not sure with all this crappy weather. He told me next time he sees me he wants to kiss me. O.O I'm so nervous. I've only been kissed twice by a guy I thought I liked, but didn't actually like. I didn't even kiss back. I feel like I'm going to mess it up if he does kiss me. Hopefully he doesn't care that I can't kiss. I'm not even sure if I like kissing.... Oh well, I guess I will find out when we see each other next.