Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[The BadWolf]

There's this cute girl. And I like her. She's older than me, and I doubt she's into me. Hell, I'm not even sure if she's single. But she's so cute and ugh. I am currently not in the right frame of mind to pursue a relationship, nor do I want one, but she's just so cute! And I'm not sure if she knows it...but...*Sighs*.
How exactly do I get over it? She goes to my school and I see her pretty often, but she's cool and I don't want to cut ties with her. Should I just ignore it? There are plenty fish in the sea sort of thing?
I'd love some help or something. Reposted from a while back :/

[andy;]

Okay So i Have An Ex Named Aaron. He Like Loves Me And I'm Over Him but He Stil Likes Me And I Like Another Boy Named Noah. SOOO Today Noah Keeped Like Looking At Me And Talking And None Of My Friends Know I Like Him So I They Said Shut Up And Turn. So When He Turned Around I Punched Them And Frowned. Then I Told Her That I Liked Him And She Smiled And Said Okay. I Think She Told Him Because Now Noah Is REALLLY Clingy To Me And Aaron Gets Pissed And Walks Off. So Later On In Science Aaron Is My Partner So He Punched Me And Made Me Do All The Work. Help Please?... also my friend say I can't date him because I look goth and so does he and yeah.. We basically act goth but we're not so....meowwwww

I would really reconsider your font. I couldn't read this without copy and pasting it.
First off, DO NOT let your ex boss you around. If he makes you do the work, refuse to do it. Make sure he knows that you can't be bossed around.
As for your friends dictating who you can and cannot date, you are able to date whoever you want to whenever and for whatever reason. I would take your friends' opinion of him into consideration, thought, and make sure you actually want to date him.
Also, you may need to clarify on "punching"?

[amarula]

Hmm well.. saw the guy i like agian yesterday when my good guy friend showed up at my house with him.. I should've hugged him hello atleast :'(
We cycled around for a while, then wen't back to my guy friends house and got food and chilled there a bit. I thought he would be closer to me after what happened on the weekend.. but I don't think he really cares that much? or does he? ahhh.. I need advice from another guy! I just like him so much, damn he's so attractive *.*
Then we went out to a youth thing that night.. (bit dead) and like our group danced a bit, and I tried being more touchy with him? But no reactions... *sigh*

[kavv]

There's this cute girl. And I like her. She's older than me, and I doubt she's into me. Hell, I'm not even sure if she's single. But she's so cute and ugh. I am currently not in the right frame of mind to pursue a relationship, nor do I want one, but she's just so cute! And I'm not sure if she knows it...but...*Sighs*.
How exactly do I get over it? She goes to my school and I see her pretty often, but she's cool and I don't want to cut ties with her. Should I just ignore it? There are plenty fish in the sea sort of thing?
I'd love some help or something. Reposted from a while back

What grade is she in compared to you? And, well, I think it would be beneficial to look into whether or not she is in a relationship. If she isn't, than I definitely think you should pursue her. Whatever you do, just make sure you have a air of confidence about it. Girls like guys who feel comfortable around girls ( does that make sense? )

[miko.]

Im really confused
I have this guy best friend whom I met on the first day of highschool
We were seatmates then
I was so shy and won't talk to anyone unless they talked to me first
And thats when he came
He just turned to face me and then started talking to me
We became friends not too long
He would squeeze my arm, squeeze my cheeks
He even said that he missed me when I was absent
During 2nd quarter our seats were changed
But in 3rd quarter we were seatmates again
At first he would only talk to the person beside me
As if i didn't exist
And damn that hurt
But after a few days he would talk to me like before
During our intrams was what confused me the most
I know he does not like me (he never mentioned it though)
After we won our volleyball match he came up to me and placed an arm around my shoulders and whispered Congratulations to me
After that he hugged me

My feelings for him may cause me more pain than before
Help?...
I want to know what you guys think of him and what he thinks of me..

Anyone? ^^"

[GIGABITE]

So apparently it's common for me to subconsciously crush on people that... aren't my crush, or... something.

Despite my focused interest in NX, my mind continues to feed me romantic dreams many nights of this guy i used to know from elementary school. We got along pretty well, since he was one of the few people that wasn't mean to me there and we both liked drawing. 6th grade I moved away, however. I only recently remembered the existence of him thanks to being in the same graphic imaging class.

I used to like him quite a bit, but almost six years since I had been to that school was more than enough to make me forget about him.

I don't have a direct liking to him (we'll call him HR) even now that we have friendly ties again. He's very cute, certainly, but my heart has quite unfortunately stuck to NX, so no matter how likeable HR may be, my heart's (or whatever part of the brain causes people to like other people, if you prefer) not changing its mind anytime soon. Better than falling for someone I might completely lose connections with again after this year, though ^^

I think it might just be my mind trying to reconnect with my mental idea of him as we become friends again, and since last time I knew him, several years ago, I was hopelessly crushing on him... My mind might just be pulling that up again, and it's not a true crush. Just my mind being unsure what to think of him right now. It'll pass, I'm sure, but it's interesting nonetheless

Just a lot of confusion here. I don't need any advice or input (and frankly, what is there to give?) I just wanted to write this down somewhere c:

[thunderofthedrum]

ok so two of my good guy friends asked me out on the same day. i had to turn them both down since im 1] not allowed to date and 2] not really interested in dating at the moment, but i still want to keep them as my friends. well, now i'm probably not going to be able to talk to them without feeling bad since they were dissappointed that i turned them down [hurting my friends is one of my biggest fears]. plus they got really akward after i said no. can i have some advice on how to make it... not so tense between us? is that possible? thanks for any help.

Tell them that. Tell them what you just told us - that you aren't allowed and that you aren't interested in having a relationship right now. Let them know you still really value them as friends and don't want to mess that up or make it awkward.

Hmm well.. saw the guy i like agian yesterday when my good guy friend showed up at my house with him.. I should've hugged him hello atleast :'(
We cycled around for a while, then wen't back to my guy friends house and got food and chilled there a bit. I thought he would be closer to me after what happened on the weekend.. but I don't think he really cares that much? or does he? ahhh.. I need advice from another guy! I just like him so much, damn he's so attractive *.*
Then we went out to a youth thing that night.. (bit dead) and like our group danced a bit, and I tried being more touchy with him? But no reactions... *sigh*

I don't think you need advice from a guy - that's like a guy wanting "advice from another girl". But just like every girl is different, so is every guy. No guy will be able to magically read the mind of your crush.

Also, there is no black and white for he likes or doesn't like you. It could be more a matter of how much he likes you, or how much courage he has to do something about it, or whether he is even interested in pursuing something right now.

I don't know what happened on the weekend so I don't know how that would affect his future behavior towards you. You didn't really mention anything about yesterday that suggested he has feelings towards you anyway. If he made no move towards you, there could be many reasons for that and yes - it could be that he's not interested. Maybe he had a good time on the weekend but isn't interested enough to do something about it. Could be as simple as that.

does it mean anything when he's constantly staring at you ?
Like he thinks you don't notice but he's so obvious about it but sometimes
he'll sneak glances as well and he's always trying to stand closer or get
closer to you ? Because my crush is sending my some mixed signals and I
feel clueless lol

I'm not really sure how those are mixed signals. They all sound pretty positive. Where is the negative to make it confusing? Granted, it's not definitive but I'd say it looks hopeful.

{Hi everyone! Okay so I have a crush on this guy and he has a crush on me as well. But I'm to afraid t ask him out and he is to afraid as well. It's coming to the last week of school and I'm asking if I should wait till next year or just ask him out?

There's no way any of us can tell you some magically *right* or *wrong* answer. Only you know your situation. No one can predict which way will have better odds. I sort of say just go for it, but that's so you don't spend the break wondering.

[another eternity]

So me and my girlfriend have never kissed
not each other, not other people
never had a kiss
so uh
any recommendations for like
how to kiss?

anyone?
anyone at all??
orz

[JustDucky]

So me and my girlfriend have never kissed
not each other, not other people
never had a kiss
so uh
any recommendations for like
how to kiss?

anyone?
anyone at all??
orz

Don't try to rush it, just so you can get it over with. Mark it worth remembering.

[KhajiitKennedy]

Oh man. How me and my Boyfriend finally got together is quite an interesting story. Let me start in 8th grade:

In 8th grade I had just moved to Pickering and was the new kid. I had one friend and we shared a common interest; picking on Brendan. He was the nerdy geeky kid in the class no one really liked. My first word to him were "hey stupid"

In 9th grade I had a few more friends and I no longer felt like the new kid. I stopped bullying Brendan and we would occasionally talk. But nothing more.

In 10th grade me and my friends found out he had a crush on me. For some reason I confused my crush on him as anger towards him so I would purposely ignor him. I brutally threw him in the friend zone after his friends made it super obvious he had this crush and I was a little creeped out by his friends.

In grade 11 I finally realized IT was love and not hate I was feeling, but by this time the whole school thought I hated his guts. The day before the last day before Christmas break my friend Patrick took my phone and sent him a message over Facebook. I didn't even send it, my friend did! But anyway we got together the next day, and a week after Christmas break we were the biggest news in school: the short girl and the tall guy she hated are together.

Grade 12, it's almost been a year (12 more days!) and we are as happy as ever. Though people think either I'm his kid or we are siblings. It's weird.

But anyway, never do what I did:

dont put anyone in the friend zone. It's a cruel place